Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[SinfuIDreams]

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At least you don't have Bumbling Boris.

True but I still think a half dead cat would do a better job

 

[LexxRuthless]

It was a ok day, I worked alongside my housekeeping stripping rooms and making beds. Leisure guests are always pretty mess so I try and help out on the weekends. Plus it gives them all a chance to talk to me one on one when most don't see me during the week.
How was your day? I hope it was tolerable at least

Okay, I need more coffee. "Wait, she has stripping rooms? IN HER HOUSE? Fukken awesome! Oh, wait..."

 

[amanuk]

It's what I've witnessed amongst the reading and conversations I've had. So its purely coming from an anecdotal perspective

You presented it as fact.

 

[MsNatalie99]

True but I still think a half dead cat would do a better job

Zombie Cat for Prime Minister.... I'd watch that

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Okay, I need more coffee. "Wait, she has stripping rooms? IN HER HOUSE? Fukken awesome! Oh, wait..."

I was wearing my stripping heels too.. which aren't like normal stripper heels either just moderately small heels for me

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Zombie Cat for Prime Minister.... I'd watch that

Same beats the same old story lines they recycle

 

[SinfuIDreams]

So we should call you Dr. Sin?

Oh no then I have to go learn stuff
Better off with Mistress Sin

 

[MsNatalie99]

Same beats the same old story lines they recycle

Agreed. Been seeing this a lot. They got to come up with something original quick, because I'm sure they're running out of old material to reboot

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Agreed. Been seeing this a lot. They got to come up with something original quick, because I'm sure they're running out of old material to reboot

The issue is that people keep paying for the same old garbage they won't change anything while the consumer still pays for it

 

[MsNatalie99]

The issue is that people keep paying for the same old garbage they won't change anything while the consumer still pays for it

Very true.

 

[amanuk]

Sunak Sleazy Sunak not going to be much better either

At least he can string a coherent sentence together.

 

[MsNatalie99]

and no matter which stand but you can play with opening it without actually opening it

 

[SinfuIDreams]

So question time..
If you repeatedly told a friend you aren't on here for sexy talk, video calls, app msging and they chose to ignore that pretty much every time you mention it when does it get to much?
I enjoy this persons company most of the time but they have these random moments when they just keep trying me out.

 

[MsNatalie99]

So question time..
If you repeatedly told a friend you aren't on here for sexy talk, video calls, app msging and they chose to ignore that pretty much every time you mention it when does it get to much?
I enjoy this persons company most of the time but they have these random moments when they just keep trying me out.

A friend would try to honor your wishes, and respect your boundaries. I'd say out of kindness, give a final firm warning, and let them decide if they want your friendship.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

A friend would try to honor your wishes, and respect your boundaries. I'd say out of kindness, give a final firm warning, and let them decide if they want your friendship.

I have given it like three times think I'm just going to stop responding. Which is a pity because they are a great person and I get along well with them in a friends only situation

 

[Daisy_Love]

So question time..
If you repeatedly told a friend you aren't on here for sexy talk, video calls, app msging and they chose to ignore that pretty much every time you mention it when does it get to much?
I enjoy this persons company most of the time but they have these random moments when they just keep trying me out.

It gets old pretty quickly, doesn’t it! I can relate, I think for some people they think because you continue to have dialogue that maybe, just maybe you’re going to change your mind. So they continue to push every now and again. I think sometimes you have to be really blunt and cut/leave the conversation as soon as they bring it up. Ask that they respect your wishes and if they can’t then maybe it’s best you part ways.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

So question time..
If you repeatedly told a friend you aren't on here for sexy talk, video calls, app msging and they chose to ignore that pretty much every time you mention it when does it get to much?
I enjoy this persons company most of the time but they have these random moments when they just keep trying me out.

Be direct. Tell them to stop.

 

[LexxRuthless]

I was looking for this Oglaf earlier, when time travel was in discussion. I took way too long, but figured this was funny enough to plop it in here. Just...disappointed with myself for not getting to it while it was topical.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/239923227030192129/802425650954371082/unknown.png

 

[MsNatalie99]

I have given it like three times think I'm just going to stop responding. Which is a pity because they are a great person and I get along well with them in a friends only situation

They may be so, but your feelings are also worth considering.

 

[Starscream_UK]

So question time..
If you repeatedly told a friend you aren't on here for sexy talk, video calls, app msging and they chose to ignore that pretty much every time you mention it when does it get to much?
I enjoy this persons company most of the time but they have these random moments when they just keep trying me out.

You've set out your boundaries and they aren't respecting them - are they really a friend?

 

[SinfuIDreams]

It gets old pretty quickly, doesn’t it! I can relate, I think for some people they think because you continue to have dialogue that maybe, just maybe you’re going to change your mind. So they continue to push every now and again. I think sometimes you have to be really blunt and cut/leave the conversation as soon as they bring it up.

I have no issues with being blunt have told them 100% I'm still in love with my dead husband and don't see that ever changing. And they apologize and a few days later they send me something along the same lines again. I know they have issues in real life at the moment but I'm not a endless supply of patients

 

[amanuk]

I have given it like three times think I'm just going to stop responding. Which is a pity because they are a great person and I get along well with them in a friends only situation

I'd say three strikes and you're out.

 

[Daisy_Love]

I have no issues with being blunt have told them 100% I'm still in love with my dead husband and don't see that ever changing. And they apologize and a few days later they send me something along the same lines again. I know they have issues in real life at the moment but I'm not a endless supply of patients

Oh I don’t doubt you’re blunt, Sin then I suppose you have to ask yourself the question. Are they really your friend? A friend should respect boundaries regardless of their own circumstances. If you’ve had that conversation and they continue to push then I don’t really see them giving you much choice but to end the conversations and walk away.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Be direct. Tell them to stop.

You know me well enough to know I have.

They may be so, but your feelings are also worth considering.

Yeah I know and they are usually nice and polite its mainly after I post pics or mildly flirt with someone else.

You've set out your boundaries and they aren't respecting them - are they really a friend?

I've been starting to wonder this myself to be honest.

I'd say three strikes and you're out.

It's usually my go to rule

 

[water_moutina]

Do you think you guys can be friends if you just avoid this one topic?