Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[BrendaBear]

…. he loosens the leash…

Loosens the leash? You’ve got a leash? Cool! .

 

[Mo_Bandy]

my husband sometimes really frowns upon that sometimes, sigh. Though others he loosens the leash, it is hit or miss.

Leash huh? Thats a weirdo kink but whatever the fuck.

 

[Mika1215]

It does. By the time you find something you like it feels more transactional than sexy. No wood no good

Yup. Exactly.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Loosens the leash? You’ve got a leash? Cool! .

A lotta fun to be had on a leash

 

[HeavyBalls]

*insert Beast growl here

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Yes, as Nat says, partly it’s poor selection… then there’s the Social Anxiety!! I’d debate me having my shit together, too

oh, I bet the anxiety is playing a big part. Honestly, I don't know how the single world would work today. it would be confusing. I've never really been like completely single...I just don't really do attached quite correctly either.

and you appear to have your shit together. faking it is half the battle.

 

[MsNatalie99]

*insert Beast growl here

Hey HB

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Hey HB

Tis funny the first time a puppy gives a proper bark and they scare themselves. They look around like.. who did that

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Loosens the leash? You’ve got a leash? Cool! .

Leash huh? Thats a weirdo kink but whatever the fuck.

A lotta fun to be had on a leash

damn it y'all, not the cool and kinky kind (the few times there has been one of those, it was chain, and I am the one holding it, always amazed they actually said ok hahahaha)

 

[MsNatalie99]

Tis funny the first time a puppy gives a proper bark and they scare themselves. They look around like.. who did that

Agreed. My last dog did that and ran away

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Agreed. My last dog did that and ran away

haha. my dog always sounded like a big meanie. Oh she is so tough until someone actually opens the front door without us, then she runs and hides behind us. I know who will not be protecting me lol

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Dude. Nobody parties like muh fuckin Anne Heche parties.

 

[BrendaBear]

haha. my dog always sounded like a big meanie. Oh she is so tough until someone actually opens the front door without us, then she runs and hides behind us. I know who will not be protecting me lol

I have an 80 pound pit bull and she is terrified of everything. People who don’t know dogs get scared of her all the time. No reason to be.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

damn it y'all, not the cool and kinky kind (the few times there has been one of those, it was chain, and I am the one holding it, always amazed they actually said ok hahahaha)

Once you get in their mind. It’s a wonderful playground. People are amazed at times what they will do.

 

[BrendaBear]

Once you get in their mind. It’s a wonderful playground. People are amazed at times what they will do.

Absolutely!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Once you get in their mind. It’s a wonderful playground. People are amazed at times what they will do.

well problem is, I never had a plan, I was just asking silly things to see what they'd say yes to lol

 

[Starscream_UK]

Well, I've just spent 100 minutes watching the movie "Prey" on Disney+...

Might have to watch it again now...so fucking good!!!

 

[cheekygirl75]

haha. my dog always sounded like a big meanie. Oh she is so tough until someone actually opens the front door without us, then she runs and hides behind us. I know who will not be protecting me lol

I was in the yard with my dog today when a group of people walked by with a dog... my dog doesn't like other dogs on her turf, so she barked a little bit. She was honestly not barking that much, and mostly paying attention to me when I said, look at me. If they had just kept walking, it would have been fine.

But of course not. The older gentleman with the group started asking if he should come pet her, if that would help her calm down. (No, sir, if you stop staring at her she'll calm down) When I said she was fine, he mutters something about out of control dogs and finally walked away

 

[LittleSwitchy]

well problem is, I never had a plan, I was just asking silly things to say what they'd say yes to lol

Just another way to learn someone.

 

[BrendaBear]

… asking if he should come pet her, if that would help her calm down.

What, like his mere presence will bring peace to the animal? Did he think he’s f-ing Ghandi or something? People amaze me at how dumb we can be.

 

[cheekygirl75]

What, like his mere presence will bring peace to the animal? Did he thing he’s f-ing Ghandi or something? People amaze me at how dumb we can be.

I know, right? It's especially infuriating how dumb people can be about their own or other people's dogs... at least he *asked* if he should come pet her instead of charging over the grass to her

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I was in the yard with my dog today when a group of people walked by with a dog... my dog doesn't like other dogs on her turf, so she barked a little bit. She was honestly not barking that much, and mostly paying attention to me when I said, look at me. If they had just kept walking, it would have been fine.

But of course not. The older gentleman with the group started asking if he should come pet her, if that would help her calm down. (No, sir, if you stop staring at her she'll calm down) When I said she was fine, he mutters something about out of control dogs and finally walked away

lol. dogs...a way to meet people that you didn't want to meet. my dogs have never really gotten out much. I am a slack dog owner I guess. When you have a lot of space, it becomes easy to just let them roam, as long as they respect the fences. especially once adding the kid. so my dogs have never really seen a ton of outsiders. they usually don't mind visitors I've greeted but people who just walk on the property, especially in the front door weirds them out.

 

[BDA73]

We inherited my mother in laws shitzu...boy when we bring the little mop with us..everyone wants to talk to me lol

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I was in the yard with my dog today when a group of people walked by with a dog... my dog doesn't like other dogs on her turf, so she barked a little bit. She was honestly not barking that much, and mostly paying attention to me when I said, look at me. If they had just kept walking, it would have been fine.

But of course not. The older gentleman with the group started asking if he should come pet her, if that would help her calm down. (No, sir, if you stop staring at her she'll calm down) When I said she was fine, he mutters something about out of control dogs and finally walked away

I would have muttered back about out of control senior citizens needing a leash

 

[LittleSwitchy]

People amaze me how they don’t know pets.
Years ago a gf at the time wanted to adopt a dog. So we go and check out a few. The lady that had the dogs tells me.. this one doesn’t like guys at all. we start walking around the park. We all stopped to talk. The dog walks over to me. Flops on his back for belly rubs.
Yeah doesn’t like guys.