Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

This is so so so so important.

We all read through the veil of our own experiences, history, culture.

And we're reading typed words, and some people are good at writing with nuance and some people aren't, and so we put voice and emphasis in, the way our brains see it. Sometimes...maybe even a lot of the time...that's not how the writer meant it. (I can't read anything that my sister writes, because the way she writes...and/or the way I read it...it's like WHY ARE YOU PISSED OFF AT ME?)

Especially here where I feel like I know some people pretty well but others a lot less so, and some of you, just figuring you out!

Read kindly, folks. :heart:
Yep what we write may be very different from what we meant. This is just me and everyone is different but If I ever sound offensive then please know that I meant it more offensive than it actually came out and please get butthurt accordingly
 
The winner is always me. ;)
Sharing is caring bitch 😘
This is so so so so important.

We all read through the veil of our own experiences, history, culture.
True

Yep what we write may be very different from what we meant. This is just me and everyone is different but If I ever sound offensive then please know that I meant it more offensive than it actually came out and please get butthurt accordingly
Listen, is not my job to interpret how offensive you're being. Give it your best shot from the get go
 
The difference is, I haven't told you to get the fuck over it because you didn't like what I said about you. It's fine. Enjoy your day. Obviously, It's ok to shame people now, hell it's funny even when it's said it causes distress. We'll live. Just would be nice to be allowed to somewhere.
Did I really ever say to ‘get fucking over it?’ I dont remember that but I am sure you can prove me wrong.
 
That still doesn't justify being offensive, in my book. Your approach is to be offensive, but to then justify it by saying that you're being funny about it.
Do you find any irony in the fact that you are on a sex message board and you personally find me to be offensive? What is acceptable and what is offensive? Fisting, choking, BDSM, daddies all that is fine here but I cross some imaginary line you have drawn in the sand. I could argue that crass language is my fucking kink and I am being shamed as stupid as that sounds.
 
Back
Top