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The only funny drunk was Forrest Brooks .....



... and he was only acting .... never drunk.
 
Really curious about something here. Do people really think I am a troll? I know I say some opinionated dumb shit and yeah it might be for idiotic shock value at times but there is plenty out there that is pretty honest and sincere and I am not here to fuck with anyone.


I think you are a crass sarcastic smart ass with bigger balls than me. I appreciate the humor, that is why much of my humor is self deprecating. I like the style but I am not quite as much of an ass so dish my best it to myself and laugh and laugh. You stop short of trolling in my opinion. I have no doubt others around disagree with me though
 
Really curious about something here. Do people really think I am a troll? I know I say some opinionated dumb shit and yeah it might be for idiotic shock value at times but there is plenty out there that is pretty honest and sincere and I am not here to fuck with anyone.
Honestly, most of the time you are offensive. Some of it may be sincere, but it's drowned out by the offensive things you say.
 
This is not in defense of Mo or trying to change anyone's mind but more so explaining how I relate what it's being said.

Racism, homophobia, trans, xenophobia aside bc I will go off on ppl about those. I know you'll have seen me do it

Sometimes we read things based on our experience, issues and prejudices. Everyone does. I have read SO many things here that I disagree with, or I'm uncomfortable with but I just remind myself that I feel that way based on my experiences.

There has been times when a few people have been straight up assholes to me, here. And people react to that people laughing. And even may continue the joke. I have seen people, who I considered my friends, say things that maybe I feel a little called out on or that it's directed at me or a jab at me. And I don't say anything. Why? Because of they're not quoting or tagging me I'm not gonna take it personal. Is not that I don't have self awareness, I do. In fact I'm pretty good at it.

Those same ppl that have been assholes to me, those ppl i considered my friends, have talk to those ppl. And have conversations with those ppl here. While I'm here. Did I say anything. No. Why? Because my experience with that person isn't going to be the same experience for everyone else and while I do think highly of myself, not so much as to impose my pov on other people re other people. (Unless is racist, homophobic and everything else I said before...i do it to my mother, i do it with everyone)
Its fine. Enjoy. ✌
 
I think you are a crass sarcastic smart ass with bigger balls than me. I appreciate the humor, that is why much of my humor is self deprecating. I like the style but I am not quite as much of an ass so dish my best it to myself and laugh and laugh. You stop short of trolling in my opinion. I have no doubt others around disagree with me though
Yeah I think I am pretty self deprecating too. When I say things like ‘punch myself in face’ and call myself a ‘fake fucking freak.’ I guess some people only see what that want and I am fine with that. I dont know I think this place would be pretty fucking boring if everyone was content with dame opinions but whatever people say I am.
 
Really curious about something here. Do people really think I am a troll? I know I say some opinionated dumb shit and yeah it might be for idiotic shock value at times but there is plenty out there that is pretty honest and sincere and I am not here to fuck with anyone.

I don't think you're a troll. I think you can be really abrasive which can come off like trolling. As others have said, humor is subjective. Can't please all the people all the time.
 
I think you are a crass sarcastic smart ass with bigger balls than me. I appreciate the humor, that is why much of my humor is self deprecating. I like the style but I am not quite as much of an ass so dish my best it to myself and laugh and laugh. You stop short of trolling in my opinion. I have no doubt others around disagree with me though
Oh must add I still claim the bigger balls when dealing with alligators. just saying.
 
Sometimes we read things based on our experience, issues and prejudices. Everyone does. I have read SO many things here that I disagree with, or I'm uncomfortable with but I just remind myself that I feel that way based on my experiences.
This is so so so so important.

We all read through the veil of our own experiences, history, culture.

And we're reading typed words, and some people are good at writing with nuance and some people aren't, and so we put voice and emphasis in, the way our brains see it. Sometimes...maybe even a lot of the time...that's not how the writer meant it. (I can't read anything that my sister writes, because the way she writes...and/or the way I read it...it's like WHY ARE YOU PISSED OFF AT ME?)

Especially here where I feel like I know some people pretty well but others a lot less so, and some of you, just figuring you out!

Read kindly, folks. :heart:
 
Yeah I think I am pretty self deprecating too. When I say things like ‘punch myself in face’ and call myself a ‘fake fucking freak.’ I guess some people only see what that want and I am fine with that. I dont know I think this place would be pretty fucking boring if everyone was content with dame opinions but whatever people say I am.
The difference is, I haven't told you to get the fuck over it because you didn't like what I said about you. It's fine. Enjoy your day. Obviously, It's ok to shame people now, hell it's funny even when it's said it causes distress. We'll live. Just would be nice to be allowed to somewhere.
 
Yeah I think I am pretty self deprecating too. When I say things like ‘punch myself in face’ and call myself a ‘fake fucking freak.’ I guess some people only see what that want and I am fine with that. I dont know I think this place would be pretty fucking boring if everyone was content with dame opinions but whatever people say I am.
That still doesn't justify being offensive, in my book. Your approach is to be offensive, but to then justify it by saying that you're being funny about it.
 
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