Lots of things sex can be: painful, sensual, dirty, romantic, taboo, passionate, kinky, but it should never be boringI love the butt stuff woman, man ehh it's all sexy just for the pure taboo of it.
Aside from bats, most of our terrestrial mammals were brought in.we have wild raccoons in germany - brought from the americas either as stowaway or as 'freed' from farms/smaller zoos or such as raccoons aren't native here and destroying our native wildlife
The mind is what attracts me, my late husband was old enough to be my father he did keep himself in good condition but it was always his dirty freaky mind that got to me
I agree probably why I don't have sex anymore because the few times I tried since him was boring and watered down, bland and tasteless.
I think a lot of it come is that people see what they consider extreme sex, not realizing that people grew into that. You didn't just wake up one day and say suspend me from the ceiling and flogg me. While you're at it, call me names and abuse my genitals. No, gotta work your way up.People are always quick to criticize but then offer no helpful opinion. Just do what I do and say fuck the lot of you there is someone out there who would love every single inch of me just the way I am.
I kinda did one day with himI think a lot of it come is that people see what they consider extreme sex, not realizing that people grew into that. You didn't just wake up one day and say suspend me from the ceiling and flogg me. While you're at it, call me names and abuse my genitals. No, gotta work your way up.
I hear you. I've been heard saying that I'll decide to sit on it long before I see it. More often than anything else, a good sense of humor and a willingness to look silly in public is all it takes to drop my panties.The mind is what attracts me, my late husband was old enough to be my father he did keep himself in good condition but it was always his dirty freaky mind that got to me
The things that man came up with to torture me was just fantastic.
I'm ok at first, but my goal is always to step things up. I don't have my kinks tattooed on my face, but I make my interests clear as soon as sex enters the picture
Similar to to my intro. I'm way beyond that now, but I was deffinately not as ready as I thought. Still, I was hooked. Liberated reallyI kinda did one day with him
He was into the kink scene and definitely not into me at all, I was to young and immature for him.
The argument went that I could handle anything and everything he dished out. Let's just say I didn't sit or walk comfortably for a week afterwards and he went very very easy on me to prove his point. But I came back for more
Exactly but I need that fire that clicks into place, I need to know off the bat if someone is willing and able to manhandled me. If they aren't I'm likely to walk away.
I found the adjustment very fast from being unsure of myself to loving every second of it.
I get a lot of those. Barking Doms with no bite. Either that or they have no clue what they're doing, and I get injured without the enjoyment.
I have been there and nearly died, was locked in a cupboard when said Dom left me because he thought he has killed me. It's hard to move past something like that and be able to find your feet again. The worst part of it is he was vetted, had played with other subs in the same club had verbal references from people both myself and my late husband trusted.
Exactly. It became an adiction almost while I was healing from the first time. It hurt, but I loved it. Suddenly saw my stripes and bruises differently.
Yes that's it exactly, the pain and marks are something that becomes a part of what you need.
I was left beaten and chained to a radiator in the hotel of a fet event. He too was vetted. Only a few burns and bruises, but the experience left a mark. Sorry you went through that. Fucking Amatuer Doms
I am sorry you went through that especially off a fet event. Did you report him? Make a post about it and out the fucker? Damn sure the first thing I would have done is get his ass banned from every other event.I was left beaten and chained to a radiator in the hotel of a fet event. He too was vetted. Only a few burns and bruises, but the experience left a mark. Sorry you went through that. Fucking Amatuer Doms
I did, and he did get banned. I've only been to one other event since, but I wasn't ready by then
I can wholly understand that, it's a huge thing to step back out of your comfort zone and try again.
I have a pretty high phyiscal threashold, but only when I have that trust. Otherwise, pain becomes more painful, and my anticipation turns to fear
There always needs to be trust, without trust it can turn badly so fast and I for one don't want anything bad to happen to you again
Same for you. It's one of the things I love most about Kink. It's a community all about testing limits, while respecting boundaries. All the while we tend to be very supportive people.There always needs to be trust, without trust it can turn badly so fast and I for one don't want anything bad to happen to you again
It's gonna be a good morning. In about 10 minutes Anja should be all caught up. And she is another huge fan of kinkThere always needs to be trust, without trust it can turn badly so fast and I for one don't want anything bad to happen to you again
Oh she'll have a blast
I know right! It's so rare to get someone so open.
this is mos def among one of my longer sex conversations.
Indeed the kink scene are still my people even if I no longer practice myself, I love being able to offer support and a ear to anyone who needs it
Sorry I've been busy on the Finnish side this morning... wondering whether I should play catch-up now or not.I know right! It's so rare to get someone so open.
