Sounds cool!
With my first wife I thought I would impress her with my number of 20. She told me her's was 25. (1 of her stories I always liked was she went to a party on her 16th birthday and got passed around by several guys) After we were married her stories did not match her number. I finally got it out of her, it was over 100. She taught me a lot. When we started swapping, sharing, gang bangs, both our numbers went way up. This put my number over 250. My current wife is 4 counting me. She now benefits from what I learned from my first wife.
This resonates big time with me! Spesh the making out and oral part. And while it’s true that we took each other’s virginity, I have to admit that other guys showed her how to really fuck. Trust me — I’m not complaining; she showed me what she learned.
Me too, my current wife who was then my girlfriend also had more experience than me (I have only been with her). The "teaching" that she was giving me made those first few weeks of having sex with her are all the more erotic. My favorite part was when she lowered herself onto me to teach me about the woman on top position and then losing her composure midway as she starts riding me vigorously.
My gf and I have a pretty open line of communication with all things sexual. For years she told me she could count the cocks she’s fucked on her hands, but I later found out that while that might be true, she’s sucked about 50 others to completion and swallowed. Both her numbers are below my count, but, we arent done counting. The more we talk the more gets revealed
Here's what I don't understand, when a couple gets together and the subject comes up, why can't both parties be fully open? If my first wife had told me how many guys she had done, I probably would have ripped her clothes off and fucked her and came really quick. Also she could have told me her stories when we fucked, great turn on. My current wife said she does not want to know my number. She's happy I satisfy her way more than her ex-husband and more than she ever thought possible.
Because everyone is an individual and has individual preferences, interest, and fears, and so on. I think for some partners, ignorance is bliss. It does nothing for them to know how many previous partners the other had. While some partners, mostly men, get off on knowing who and what they did prior to their relationship. Some people may be concerned about being judged. The people of Lit are naturally a lot more open minded, but many spouses would be negatively affected knowing their hubby fucked 150 women, or sucked a few dicks; or if their wife swallowed 50 different loads of jizz before they turned 30. The key is to find a person that has similar sensibilities as you. They need to want to be as open or shut off as you. It’s horrible being in a relationship with someone whose sexual interests and nuances are not aligned with yours.
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