Bi Married and closeted

[badandmys5402]

HI guys, feel free to PM me to chat.

MWM, 53, bi curious, though I had some experience in my younger years. Sadly in a sexless marriage.

And I agree, this is a Married and BI Closeted thread.

I'd definitely like to chat if you're interested.

 

[badandmys5402]

Anyone out there interested in chatting, feel free to pm me.

 

[klippert]

See I think that would be easier. Friending him up take interest in him through work, or chat him on the site, you'd have the upper hand. You know he evidently wants to play, the guess work is gone. Unless he's an asshole you didn't like anyway...lol

I have to agree. Friending him up then drop a silver daddy quip in passing. Wait for his reaction. Most people are private about their sexual interests. Not like people assume. You may have an opportunity right at hand.

 

[Ordener]

I have to agree. Friending him up then drop a silver daddy quip in passing. Wait for his reaction. Most people are private about their sexual interests. Not like people assume. You may have an opportunity right at hand.

why mention silverdaddy at all. just know that he's available, don't expose yourself too much.

 

[klippert]

why mention silverdaddy at all. just know that he's available, don't expose yourself too much.

Not the site, just the phrase Silver Daddy. Be subtle about it. You don’t walk up and say “ I saw you on silver daddy. Want to suck dick in the mens room”.
This is why so many are living the fantasy

 

[cumuncut]

Bummer to hear that. This is our first hook up in a while. 3rd week of June I’ll have the house to myself. Wife and family will be away. She even mentioned I should get together with him for golf and fishing

I’m sure Rods an Balls will be involved!

 

[klippert]

OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!

This would be so hot. I’ve been there before. Ladies watching. I’d only hope you wouldn’t mind watching a cpl of burly Bi men.

 

[artgorden]

My first day on SilverDaddies I saw a guy from work. I never approached him about it but it sure prevented me from posting a face photo in my profile

Make an alternate account and give him an unusual name. If you get the coworker to flirt with the fake you then say the fake name to him at work with no context. Then you can just ask to suck his dick.

 

[klippert]

good morning gents. hope you are all well. hanging low or growing to full mast

 

[lustylikes]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

Not at all . I been timidly exploring with an old friend that recently got me after couple years of the thought leading to fantasy and eventually him pulling my cock out of my jeans. Trouble is we live accross the country apart and meet up alone for what will be a sight after the fantasies I'm not ignoring again. Want more but In same boat. Married early fifties and ready to look.

 

[montwb]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

I assumed I wasn't the only one ..married closeted Bi, but I'm still blown away with not only how many responses there are to this thread, but how many sound EXACTLY like me. I have a great wife but she simply would not understand. Over the years I've tried a few times to gradually broach the subject but it is perfectly clear that she would not understand or accept. I should clarify that I'm a closeted "unfulfilled" Bi. My fantasies have sustained me ( just barely) so far, hopefully I'll have the opportunity to taste the real thing some day.

 

[peter49parker]

Y

I assumed I wasn't the only one ..married closeted Bi, but I'm still blown away with not only how many responses there are to this thread, but how many sound EXACTLY like me. I have a great wife but she simply would not understand. Over the years I've tried a few times to gradually broach the subject but it is perfectly clear that she would not understand or accept. I should clarify that I'm a closeted "unfulfilled" Bi. My fantasies have sustained me ( just barely) so far, hopefully I'll have the opportunity to taste the real thing some day.

I used to think that I was a one in a million kind of guy, thinking about bisexual activities. Then, I delved further into it, at the insistence of a female chat mate. She steered me to some enlightened sources, where I could explore my curiosity. For quite a long period of time, about 5 years, I dabbled in erotic conversations with like minded guys, but always found a way to talk myself out of an actual meeting. I seemed to find guys that were hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. Guys that were too young, too old, too experienced, too inexperienced, and never made it to a real time meeting. Finally, I was overcome with my desire to taste another man's cock, so, I refined my approach to 'seriously' find a suitable friend. With Silverdaddies, I was able to zero in on other guys that were close by and shared my interests. Not that everyone on SD was a perfect match for me, I was able to find someone close by that I was comfortable to meet with. Believe me, it was a "HUGE" leap for me to meet for coffee with this guy, but it was worth it. My mind was made up before my coffee meeting, that if my new 'friend' was as nice as he appeared to be online, I would become a cock sucker. He was, and so I became a cock sucker that day. If you think you want to try it, start by chatting with others. Silverdaddies and Squirt are two good places for me. The search filters can help you locate other guys within your 'safe' zones. If you are just looking, let them know, most will understand. Just remember, you are far from being alone. My wife has no idea of my bi side and honestly would 'never' accept it. It is something I do for me.

 

[montwb]

Y

I used to think that I was a one in a million kind of guy, thinking about bisexual activities. Then, I delved further into it, at the insistence of a female chat mate. She steered me to some enlightened sources, where I could explore my curiosity. For quite a long period of time, about 5 years, I dabbled in erotic conversations with like minded guys, but always found a way to talk myself out of an actual meeting. I seemed to find guys that were hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. Guys that were too young, too old, too experienced, too inexperienced, and never made it to a real time meeting. Finally, I was overcome with my desire to taste another man's cock, so, I refined my approach to 'seriously' find a suitable friend. With Silverdaddies, I was able to zero in on other guys that were close by and shared my interests. Not that everyone on SD was a perfect match for me, I was able to find someone close by that I was comfortable to meet with. Believe me, it was a "HUGE" leap for me to meet for coffee with this guy, but it was worth it. My mind was made up before my coffee meeting, that if my new 'friend' was as nice as he appeared to be online, I would become a cock sucker. He was, and so I became a cock sucker that day. If you think you want to try it, start by chatting with others. Silverdaddies and Squirt are two good places for me. The search filters can help you locate other guys within your 'safe' zones. If you are just looking, let them know, most will understand. Just remember, you are far from being alone. My wife has no idea of my bi side and honestly would 'never' accept it. It is something I do for me.

Thanks very much for taking the time for such a comprehensive response..I'll definitely look into Silverdaddies. It's refreshing to learn that there are so many in the same boat

 

[Francis123]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

lot of men married and still enjoy cock sucking even if the wife does not know , and the luckiest are those she likes to watch

 

[Crios]

Has anyone checked out Lit Chat, opposed to Lit Forums here. I enjoy going over there and I find it amazing that most of the guys over on Lit Chat have never heard of Lit Forums.
When I get some true alone time where the wife and the 19 year old son are both out of the house for a long period of time I like to head over to Lit Chat and while naked hold multiple conversations with horny guys at the same time. Sure it still would be fun to have a real life hook up partner. But most of the time Lit Chat is a lot more rewarding then forum posts or PM's.
Just a thought.

I have spent some time there. I found it to be a good place to go if you’re looking for cyber or just hanging out. For deeper stuff, I get more out of the Forums…especially the Conversations part.

To each their own!!

 

[Patticd]

Y

I used to think that I was a one in a million kind of guy, thinking about bisexual activities. Then, I delved further into it, at the insistence of a female chat mate. She steered me to some enlightened sources, where I could explore my curiosity. For quite a long period of time, about 5 years, I dabbled in erotic conversations with like minded guys, but always found a way to talk myself out of an actual meeting. I seemed to find guys that were hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. Guys that were too young, too old, too experienced, too inexperienced, and never made it to a real time meeting. Finally, I was overcome with my desire to taste another man's cock, so, I refined my approach to 'seriously' find a suitable friend. With Silverdaddies, I was able to zero in on other guys that were close by and shared my interests. Not that everyone on SD was a perfect match for me, I was able to find someone close by that I was comfortable to meet with. Believe me, it was a "HUGE" leap for me to meet for coffee with this guy, but it was worth it. My mind was made up before my coffee meeting, that if my new 'friend' was as nice as he appeared to be online, I would become a cock sucker. He was, and so I became a cock sucker that day. If you think you want to try it, start by chatting with others. Silverdaddies and Squirt are two good places for me. The search filters can help you locate other guys within your 'safe' zones. If you are just looking, let them know, most will understand. Just remember, you are far from being alone. My wife has no idea of my bi side and honestly would 'never' accept it. It is something I do for me.

Thank you. This is great advice.

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

One experience years ago, at this point would say mostly curious still..... Extremely curious.

 

[peter49parker]

Thanks very much for taking the time for such a comprehensive response..I'll definitely look into Silverdaddies. It's refreshing to learn that there are so many in the same boat

Thank you. This is great advice.

I'm glad that you found my input informative and helpful. We are all in this together. If I can assist in cultivating a few more cock suckers, I feel good about it.

 

[saintcero]

One experience years ago, at this point would say mostly curious still..... Extremely curious.

Only the one time for me too but I will never forget the event, how I felt afterwards and how much I have wanted more thru the years that have passed.

 

[J1biboi]

Only the one time for me too but I will never forget the event, how I felt afterwards and how much I have wanted more thru the years that have passed.

My story exactly!

 

[sarod]

Am in the same situation not able to host but want to find someone that clean and doesn't flake out when you want to meet. Living in a small town in idaho has its draw backs when meeting guys. I had a bunch of guys I chatted with in the near by town but none of them wanted to meet because there was no were to host. We were all closet bi guys and must be discreet. Having the wife retire also so she is always home. As soon as the weather warms up at least I can find a place in the forest to play.

I am in a small town in Idaho too

 

[SPORTZDOK]

oops. that would be my fear

Yep, almost the same here, one of our Company's biggest clients. I'm not only new-ish to my Company but my industry, just not able to go there yet.
Vegas is a big city now but it seems the weirdest connections/networks of people aren't so far apart.
Not actually Married but the last relationship was pretty much, and the mindset has yet to recover.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Bi submissive cocksucker for life! Have shared many cocks with partner who loved to see me eat cum. In safer times. cruised many parking lots and parks exposing myself in hopes of luring hard strangers' cocks into my mouth. Still fantasize about servicing shaved shafts and balls for a mouthful of cum!

 

[rockoid2]

Bi submissive cocksucker for life! Have shared many cocks with partner who loved to see me eat cum. In safer times. cruised many parking lots and parks exposing myself in hopes of luring hard strangers' cocks into my mouth. Still fantasize about servicing shaved shafts and balls for a mouthful of cum!

You can suck on my shaved balls and cock.

 

[Reggie2xx]

I think I could be a submissive cocksucker I’m seem to crave a hard or soft cock in my mouth and swallowing all his cum.