Missed Connections - Lit style

[Stillrandy]

Dear L,

I really enjoyed our Lit Chats and p.m. exchanges. We had a good connection, warm and fun. Sharing our thoughts and images was both sweet and sexy. We both knew that your personal situation made it unlikely that things would continue indefinitely, but I was saddened when you abruptly stopped. I often look at your profile in hopes that you might log in again, but since it has been two months, I fear not. It was nice, and I hope your situation has improved and that you are finding a degree of fulfillment in your life. You are a sweet and intelligent lady and deserve the best.

Your friend,

J

 

[theeonanist]

Swuk

We were making all the right noises together. Our chat was hot and we expressed mutual satisfaction.
We had a connection and you seemed genuinely excited to receive, and to reply to my messages.

Then nothing


For months


Today a skype, out of the blue


Meant for someone else


I bear no grudge. Other stars shone brighter. I hold no illusions, such is lit life.

But I sincerely hope you are fulfilled and enjoying your journey.

If not, my door will never be closed to you.


ETA https://youtu.be/Bu3OQFCsKXQ

Is this a first LW?

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[cutcrystal]

Katie

You vanished never again to thrill me with your incredible writing. I know not what I did wrong. And all I could do was sign off and wish you well, for nothing was coming back. Thank you for what you shared with me.

 

[StarGazer58]

I am one that has never been able to develop deep online relationships, seems I am always late to the game and she has already found her guy but have to just keep trying.

 

[Bidesires79]

Dear Submissive-seeking,

We met outside of Lit but did share stories from here. I miss talking with you. Our nightly chats are burned in my memory and saved many of them. Our mutual interest in D/s grew and yours words to me are never forgotten. The last day we spent together was wonderful but then you ghosted me.

I know we will never connect, but would love to find a chat friend with whom I can share experiences and talk about the many things you keep inside.

A

 

[Corbie]

It's a nice invite, but unfortunately, the three I've lost touch with haven't been on here in quite a while. In one case, years.

 

[Orchidea73]

This looks like a good read. I haven't seen this thread.

I wonder if "the one who got away", so to speak, is valid if it was in my head only?

 

[Superman2008]

A few actually... but one I miss a bit more than I care to admit. SL.... I wish we could talk, try to be friends.

 

[Orchidea73]

Okay, this isn't a "missed connection". But it is a lost friendship.

Dear S,

Your temper is shitty and you crossed the line. Furthermore, your "apology" sucked. It was half-assed and you know it. I think you are too proud for your own good, and so am I.

Having said that. You are witty and funny af. lol Intelligent and have a good heart. Don't think for a moment that I didn't appreciate our conversations (both the silly and serious ones), and your company. It has been a long time now. But I wanted to tell you - albeit indirectly - don't think for a moment that I didn't appreciate our friendship and time together.

I hope you and your lovely dogs are doing great.

 

[StarGazer58]

This reminds me of Missed Connections in Craigslist. I use to love reading them since they were fascinating, making one wonder what was the back story. I am still impressed that people have made such deep connections through OL but probably never met in RL.

 

[Southernfriedman]

i miss our talks and conversations. Things were really great but I could not deal with not having you. I truly am sorry for just ignoring you but it hurt knowing I could not have more. It’s been years and I still miss you........

 

[curvyjae]

This reminds me of Missed Connections in Craigslist. I use to love reading them since they were fascinating, making one wonder what was the back story. I am still impressed that people have made such deep connections through OL but probably never met in RL.

I was a missed connections on CL once. It was exciting.

 

[asian2015]

Is there someone from Lit you would love to reconnect with? Someone you lost touch with and maybe you forgot their username and only remember where they are from or a few details about them? Maybe there’s someone you want to apologize to for ghosting them?

Whatever the reason or circumstance, if there is someone you are missing or someone you have thought of or wondered about, feel free to post here. Maybe they will see it, maybe they won’t, but at least you put it out there.

LW / Samantha,

Great idea for this thread! I'll be looking here again soon, maybe post too, though I honestly dont recall if he was from lit...it was a long time ago.

 

[cutcrystal]

RC

Vanished. Again left wondering what I did wrong.

 

[Darkfantasy20]

This reminds me of Missed Connections in Craigslist. I use to love reading them since they were fascinating, making one wonder what was the back story. I am still impressed that people have made such deep connections through OL but probably never met in RL.

CL Personals were the bomb!

 

[StarGazer58]

I was a missed connections on CL once. It was exciting.

That must have been exciting. Did you contact the person? I posted a few missed connections over the years when making a prolonged eye contact when I was out and about but never made a connection. I responded to a few post that caught my attention and learned some interesting backstories.

 

[Earthgoddess]

These are beautiful, so many are like a novel waiting to happen in a world where there won’t be a hand to write the story. Thank you all who have shared. For the rawness, especially, as it feels so much like a rip, where your very self was torn open.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Is there someone from Lit you would love to reconnect with? Someone you lost touch with and maybe you forgot their username and only remember where they are from or a few details about them? Maybe there’s someone you want to apologize to for ghosting them?

Whatever the reason or circumstance, if there is someone you are missing or someone you have thought of or wondered about, feel free to post here. Maybe they will see it, maybe they won’t, but at least you put it out there.

Bumping my little thread here as I love reading the stories.

 

[Michaelcat17]

It is a fascinating thread