The art of the handjob

First, let him masturbate in front of you so you get a feel of what sort of tempo and handling he likes. Then try to emulate that, listening to him as he tells you what he wants next.
Finding what I like is important. But it is a mind thing too. Feeling her want me to want her and her excitement plays a role. My girl currently doesn't get that. Its not naughty and fun. She just wants to sit on it....
 
It is an art. When I was new to this I learned enthusiastic might be painful to the guy. I learned quickly. 😊
I remember giving explicit instructions to my high school sweetheart, basically a play-by-play on what and what not to do. After practicing for six months or more, using various lubes and such, she perfected it, or at least accomplished what I needed. Of course, then she broke up with me. Saw her at our 10th reunion, and we reenacted it.
 
I remember giving explicit instructions to my high school sweetheart, basically a play-by-play on what and what not to do. After practicing for six months or more, using various lubes and such, she perfected it, or at least accomplished what I needed. Of course, then she broke up with me. Saw her at our 10th reunion, and we reenacted it.
My first experiences were like that. Later her husband thanked me for getting her interested and excited about the process. Much, much later, I ran into her little sister and re-enacted her fantasies from when she was spying on us.
 
First, let him masturbate in front of you so you get a feel of what sort of tempo and handling he likes. Then try to emulate that, listening to him as he tells you what he wants next.
Agreed. You can learn a lot based on how a guy pleasures himself. How I went from giving bad handjobs to ones guys actually ask for.
 
I know most of the guys here have had some good handjobs by the ones they love. What about the bad ones. The girls who think they are trying to land a space shuttle on a steep incline. The girls who feel like they are holding sandpaper. Or worse yet the handjob of shame.

Ladies this thread isnt to insult your performances. You know as well as we do that it takes time to acquire the skills to do the job as well as you do it now. So feel free to share your experiences.
Mmmmn. Would love to stroke your cock
 
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