My wife is older but a little variety has certainly gotten her going good. She has only been doing it for 3 years but the more she gets the more she wants. She has also become willing to try new things. I keep telling her to just go and enjoy.
I'm in my 50s and seem to have developed a taste for showing off in front of my loving voyeur husband.
Hi Liz!! Great to 'see' you too! I have to admit it took me a year or two of fooling around with others before I figured Steve really did enjoy watching me and then getting used to it being ok for me to hunt and fuck others. I've started playing again now that Covid19 is settling, thank goodness! I've even started buying some new sexy clothes to tease, dance and hunt!So true. Although I would add that it's super important, at least for me, that my husband signs off on any and all arrangements. Our deal is he wants to know in advance, NOT after the fact.
I hope to get to after the fact eventually being okay too, but for now I just want him to feel comfortable and I'm happy with whatever pace in our kink that he wants to go at.
I really, REALLY hope to get to that stage some day, Dee. I've been fantasizing about servicing/being used by other men in front of him more and more and more lately but I never bring up the idea unless he does first. It use to be an off limits topic entirely. Now at least sometimes he brings it up. He seems to like the idea of showing me off more and more and when we're out in public he notices guys checking me out way more than I do. And he doesn't get mad about it anymore either which I'm taking as a really positive sign that he'll eventually someday want to see me "show off" for him too.
I missed you Dee! I've been wondering what you've been up too. Had any fun lately? (feel free to tell me in a PM if you don't want all the attention that comes with posting our naughty adventures publicly)
I don't think showing off is a big deal to her but she has become comfortable with my being around. I try to stay very unobtrusive unless it has been planned that I participate in some way.
I think the partner needs to be included and aware of the activities. So far I have known in advance if she was thinking about bedding another guy but I would not insist on it. It is her decision to make and I trust her judgement as to safety, etc. For us it is a shared activity in that we talk about it in detail and often. I think it is our primary topic of conversation over morning coffee or an evening glass of wine.So true. Although I would add that it's super important, at least for me, that my husband signs off on any and all arrangements. Our deal is he wants to know in advance, NOT after the fact.
I hope to get to after the fact eventually being okay too, but for now I just want him to feel comfortable and I'm happy with whatever pace in our kink that he wants to go at.
I really, REALLY hope to get to that stage some day, Dee. I've been fantasizing about servicing/being used by other men in front of him more and more and more lately but I never bring up the idea unless he does first. It use to be an off limits topic entirely. Now at least sometimes he brings it up. He seems to like the idea of showing me off more and more and when we're out in public he notices guys checking me out way more than I do. And he doesn't get mad about it anymore either which I'm taking as a really positive sign that he'll eventually someday want to see me "show off" for him too.
I missed you Dee! I've been wondering what you've been up too. Had any fun lately? (feel free to tell me in a PM if you don't want all the attention that comes with posting our naughty adventures publicly)
How is that sort of thing sorted out? Asking for my wife.
Love when she does that
Just when I think I am totally gay, some dame flashes me cute panties and nylons...........the power of pussy!Love when she does that
That wasn't my meaning. I was wondering if there may have been one person that was instrumental in showing a woman that she had the capacity to explore something new?
This makes sense Phil - and I have been the same over the years. At first I didn't really know what to do and how to experiment, but as I got more confident and enjoyed different lovers, the variety came and now I really try to drive the agenda sexually. It's fun!
Hi LIz - ha! Absolutely......love shopping - both for the new clothes and forthe fun and naughty teasing in the changerooms. Nothing hotter than when I walk into a changeroom area and there's a bored husband sitting there on the stool or chair. Teasarama!! I can imagine all the people streaming to LV now they can travel again. The older guys are probably more the watchers than younger guys because they might be more confident in their relationship? So having let you play 2 years ago, what's happened that he won't let you now? That seems interestingly strange.
