61 y/o married male in good physical shape with 6 3/4 inch dick. I think constantly about how another mans throbbing dick would feel in my mouth. I’ve played with a few dicks at adult bookstore gloryholes but have never taken the plunge. What stops me is the risk of disease. Never had a problem with finding a guy that wanted to suck me off. The thought of taking a STD home to my wife is the only thing stopping me. For those that like to suck other guys, how do you deal with the risk of disease or do you just do it?
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Improving my odds
I know what I do will not guarantee I don't get an STD, but I feel it improves my odds. I know it is unusual, but I came out to my wife before I had my first gay experience. After many discussions we agreed on a set of rules. Some of these rules were designed to minimize the chance of her contracting an STD.
I only meet with married men who only occasionly have gay sex. I always meet with a guy at least once in a public place, often more, before we have sex for the first time. I only have oral sex. I do not have gay sex very often, perhaps once a month before Covid. I am not active at all right now. I get tested after the first time with a new guy. Until i get the test i wear a condom with my wife. Actually my wife and i do not have intercourse very often. My coming out to her gave her the courage to tell me she preferred that I give her oral sex. I do that and then she gives me a hand job or helps me masturbate.
I know what I do will not guarantee I don't get an STD, but I feel it improves my odds. I know it is unusual, but I came out to my wife before I had my first gay experience. After many discussions we agreed on a set of rules. Some of these rules were designed to minimize the chance of her contracting an STD.
I only meet with married men who only occasionly have gay sex. I always meet with a guy at least once in a public place, often more, before we have sex for the first time. I only have oral sex. I do not have gay sex very often, perhaps once a month before Covid. I am not active at all right now. I get tested after the first time with a new guy. Until i get the test i wear a condom with my wife. Actually my wife and i do not have intercourse very often. My coming out to her gave her the courage to tell me she preferred that I give her oral sex. I do that and then she gives me a hand job or helps me masturbate.
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Nice sucking him in public could be hot you might get some help
Nice sucking him in public could be hot you might get some help
No way I would come to my wife at this point so I’d never have all that time to be with someone else.
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You find a guy you can trust... Or, accept the fact that if you play with fire, you might get burned. Is it worth it?
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simple...make him wear a condom...not as hot but you'll sleep like a baby after.
If you put a bit of lube, then condom, you can slide a bit with hand while sucking so he feels more sensation. Not as fun but 100% safe.
I had a few of my fave cocksucking experiences with condom over cock.
I like BBC so the really thick ones might cause small cuts in mouth, so it wasn't perfect but still fun as I was free of worry and could relax and enjoy.
I didn't always use them, if a guy was married and more DL I would take more risk.
If you put a bit of lube, then condom, you can slide a bit with hand while sucking so he feels more sensation. Not as fun but 100% safe.
I had a few of my fave cocksucking experiences with condom over cock.
I like BBC so the really thick ones might cause small cuts in mouth, so it wasn't perfect but still fun as I was free of worry and could relax and enjoy.
I didn't always use them, if a guy was married and more DL I would take more risk.
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I can't tell about sucking my first cock with out getting punished by Lit.
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For me it was always 'Just do it'
No disease, no regrets.
I might not recommend it, from a safety perspective, but that's what I did
No disease, no regrets.
I might not recommend it, from a safety perspective, but that's what I did
Damn! you have me thinking????
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When I get an opportunity to give or get a blowjob, I just lose all control. There’s no way I can resist or reign myself in. I know that’s not the most brilliant attitude, but a cock’s got to do what a cock’s got to do. If I’m already staring at a naked hard shaft, then it’s way too late for me to play safe and hold myself back.
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When I get an opportunity to give or get a blowjob, I just lose all control. There’s no way I can resist or reign myself in. I know that’s not the most brilliant attitude, but a cock’s got to do what a cock’s got to do. If I’m already at the stage where I have a naked hard shaft in my hand, then it’s way too late for me to play safe and hold myself back.
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I understand. My first was with a condom, I loved it. Then another 2 with condoms. Finally I had the courage to suck bare cock.I love this more, I love the taste and feel of it. My first was when I was 66. I was abd remain , very careful and picky. I do not suck any cock that presents itself. I’m married. She does not know. I must keep myself safe. Good luck.
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Just Do It
The first cock I sucked was a very long time ago, but I remember each pulse and throb in detail. There have been quite a few since... but you never forget that first delicious sucking...
The first cock I sucked was a very long time ago, but I remember each pulse and throb in detail. There have been quite a few since... but you never forget that first delicious sucking...
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Same here
I'm a lot younger but in the same situation as you in that I'd love to suck a cock. Haven't played around much but yes I can't imagine doing it because it's not just not the right thing but also maybe dangerous.
Obviously there's a risk for now I keep to fantasizing about it which has its own appeal I guess.
Good luck to find the right solution for you!
I'm a lot younger but in the same situation as you in that I'd love to suck a cock. Haven't played around much but yes I can't imagine doing it because it's not just not the right thing but also maybe dangerous.
Obviously there's a risk for now I keep to fantasizing about it which has its own appeal I guess.
Good luck to find the right solution for you!
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Hmmmmmmmmmm I want to, it sounds so erotic
Safety is important of course. I would think chances of STDs goes down with some careful thought into the person you suck. The more you find out about him the better. If you are that scared of STDs better think about your ways and means of enjoying the lifestyle. What did you do when dating your wife about safety?
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I aucked my first cock 5 years ago and remember it like it was just today
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I understand the concerns of the OP.
Like some have said, choose your partner(s) carefully over time. For instance, I never get w a guy on the same day I meet him.
And there's nothing wrong w asking for him to use a condom. I've done it that way, too. In some ways it's sexier bc if you tongue the reservoir as he's cumming you can feel it pulse full. Sometimes smaller, less powerful spurts from a bare cock aren't easy to feel. The reservoir quantifies the load, so to speak.
If a guy is fine w using a condom, that's generally a good sign about his personality. Conversely, if he balks, then you have every right to, also.
Like some have said, choose your partner(s) carefully over time. For instance, I never get w a guy on the same day I meet him.
And there's nothing wrong w asking for him to use a condom. I've done it that way, too. In some ways it's sexier bc if you tongue the reservoir as he's cumming you can feel it pulse full. Sometimes smaller, less powerful spurts from a bare cock aren't easy to feel. The reservoir quantifies the load, so to speak.
If a guy is fine w using a condom, that's generally a good sign about his personality. Conversely, if he balks, then you have every right to, also.
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My first happened at 67. Don’t give up. You might try SilverDaddies. It worked for me.
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Never too late, Tubeluver. Enjoy...
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