How to Eat her

[JackShiopli]

Nothing tips on how to do that in a explosive way?

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

People are all different. But a combination of oral stimulation with finger(s) curled up on "the spot!" should do it! Some like it slow and soft, some like it frantic and banging, others in between. Experimentation and paying attention to body language and verbal cues are super important!

 

[kinkeetess]

A woman can always tell if you enjoy what you’re doing. So even if you’re not the best we’ll happily coach you to where we want you. Listen to her cues, and for the love of god if she says anything like right there, don’t stop, just like that, keep doing whatever you were doing. Don’t change tempo or how you’re licking/sucking.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Nothing tips on how to do that in a explosive way?

Oh?! a one off---, in that case , load her ass with nitro before you start licking

 

[Dingo_Triplesix]

In my experience three factors are essential:

1) Find out what your partner likes specifically. This differs a lot.

2) Stay unpredictable with what you are doing and change at times. This will keep the thing thrilling and exciting, but it has to be handled with care. I I had one partner who enjoyed it to the max to get bitten a little without warning. The next one gave me a beating for the same.

3) Enjoy yourself. As soon as she thinks you do it as a duty she can´t really relax into it.

Love
Dingo

 

[el_uno77]

Nothing tips on how to do that in a explosive way?

three suggestions that i have for you...
1) patience
2) communication, both verbal and non-verbal
3) more patience

oh....one more, enjoy what you are doing otherwise she will not enjoy it.

 

[cuck72]

Motorboating

I know this is not for every woman, but it really did work on my wife. I was always easy on eating my wife's pussy and licking her hard clit. I did give her a lot of orgasms. But I was taught a new way from my son's friend, " really, no shit." I worked with this son's friend and one day he asked me if I knew what motorboating was? and this other young guy standing next to him laughed. Then he explained how it's when you're eating her pussy, and you're humming into her pussy while moving your face back and forth real fast. He said it sounds like a motorboat and laughed. My son's friend said the girls love it, every girl he did it with squirted. So, I went home, and it was like two days later when his friend's mom and I had sex. WOW! I tried it and he wasn't lying, my wife was moving and bucking on my face, and yes, she squirted her hairy mommy pussy all over my face. I was rock hard myself thinking of my son's friend eating his friend's mom. I was also excited seeing him at work, knowing my son's friend taught me how to make his friends mom have some huge squirting orgasms. I actually wanted to tell this son's friend, but never could get up the nerve to tell him. And I know he would have told other friends of his at work. It would have been so embarrassing; I'll leave that to my fantasy of him cuckolding his friend's old dad.

The motorboating was a little rougher, so it was different for my wife. Maybe in a way she thought I was a different guy eating her, who knows.

 

[jehoram]

Nothing tips on how to do that in a explosive way?

If you need an instructional video, this one is as good as any:

https://www.xvideos.com/video531677/milf_nina_hartley_teaches_how_to_eat_pussy

 

[Kumquatqueen]

In my experience ...
2) Stay unpredictable with what you are doing and change at times. This will keep the thing thrilling and exciting, but it has to be handled with care.

In my experience (on both giving and receiving ends), one thing women really hate is when their partner has warmed up your reactions, found a perfect responsive spot and is doing something amazing to it, you're going 'yes, yes, don't stop don't ever stop' - and men decide that's a great time to do something *different*!

WTF?

Don't stop means don't stop, keep doing exactly that in exactly the same way until one of us collapses with exhaustion.

Changing from something amazing to something different which probability predicts won't be as good, seems hardwired into men's brains, even ones where their partners have spent 20+ years trying to train it out of them.

FWIW I don't know any women who switch between varied weird settings on vibrators, either, unless applying one to another woman for sadistic purposes.

 

[Thepenismightier0813]

Everyone's right that most women are different and thus there are a multitude of approaches!

That being said....

There are some GREAT how to videos on both porn hub and other sites that give you a really good basis on tricks that work really good universally. I recommend just doing a good old hub search and browsing some of the videos. They usually also get into fingering as well and how to do both at the same time for maximum effect.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Very interesting thread, its nice to hear from a woman's point of view especially on this subject. As a guy we all think we are the best at it.

The #1 thing is You have to enjoy it. For me that's the easy part. Also you should have a bit of a chemistry with the woman, you have to read her. her movements her sounds. and yes talking (her not you) like 'don't stop" only makes it better.

 

[Bbl87]

As others have said, every woman is different so you have to learn what your partner likes. If she's willing to communicate that verbally during, great! If not (my wife doesn't like to be verbal during sex most of the time, for example), you just need to learn to read her reactions and go with what works.

Also, actually learn the anatomy. Clit, G-spot, etc.. Know where things are, different ways to stimulate them, etc. Again, like has been said, each woman is different but the anatomy will be pretty much the same with minor variances. How they react to stimulation of that anatomy, though, will vary and may even change over time.

For example, stroking the G-spot while stimulating her clit is alot of stimulation and can work great, but sometimes it can be too much stimulation and overwhelming. Sound like a broken record, but learn to read her and what she likes, how much stimulation she wants, etc..

Finally, make it clear YOU are enjoying what you're doing. I love eating pussy, don't get to do it as often as I'd like, but I always make it clear I'm enjoying it just as much as if we were having sex.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I’d suggest open communication before during and after. As others have said. Pay attention to reactions. If she reacts well when you flick your tongue over her clit. Keep doing it. If she rolls her hips. Moving your tongue to another spot. Make note of where she moved your tongue.
Try different positions. Her laying on her back. Her on her back with a pillow under her hips. Her kneeling over the guy’s face. Hell if y’all like her on top of the guy’s face. Maybe get a Queening chair.
Guys keep in mind she might be self conscious about you being down there. Reassure her. Let her know by words and actions you enjoy her like this. Get her comfortable both physically and mentally.