Journey together

[ArtisticControl]

TL/DR : Looking to find a confident woman to connect with

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For the past two years, regardless of the pandemic, I have been on a journey. I know it sounds like the typical middle-aged man mid-life crisis. However, I didn’t have a crisis.

I had an emerging. A metamorphosis that has taken 46 years to process, and one that I am still on. And while most of this metamorphosis has been a solo event, I am finding myself seeking someone to continue on this journey with me.

Yes, I am married. Unfortunately the journey I wish to pursue my spouse has no interest in joining.

As I worked at becoming healthier and fitter (completing my first marathon, of many to come, in November), using the pandemic time to shed 100 plus lbs to be in the best shape I have ever been. If you stalk my posts you will find some photos on the “Sexy Men of Lit” thread. For the first time in my life, I feel like I am deserving to be in that list.

What sexually has laid dormant as come to express itself, without a partner who wants to experience it with me.

So, here I am on Lit. Seeking to see if I can find at least an online partner to journey with me. Someone who I can have a connection with, and understanding of our own circumstances. Someone who understand the limitations that married life brings to the “relationship” being sought. Not to change out real life situations, but rather to enhance them by finding what is missing.

What has laid dormant is experiencing a play of control. To be in control and to relinquish control. To be a switch.

As my username suggests, there is an art to control.

Will you be the woman who can create the art with me?

I look forward to your message.

 

[ForMe50]

Sounds Familiar

Your post resonates with me.

 

[philly1]

Hey

As a married guy, I can relate to your post. Thank you for sharing it on here.
For whoever wants to know more, please reach out

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Your post resonates with me. I have put in a lot of work over the last year to get fit and healthy. I am married and have a great life. But I am looking for someone to connect with that gets the other side of me.

I have seen your pic. You are certainly in good shape. The work must have paid off.
[Insert pun about showing "the other side of me" being your butt]

Do you envision making this connection only on line, or taking it into some sort of in-person encounter?

 

[ArtisticControl]

As a married guy, I can relate to your post. Thank you for sharing it on here.
For whoever wants to know more, please reach out

So, I am curious why you thought you could ride my personal? Start your own.

I have seen your pic. You are certainly in good shape. The work must have paid off.
[Insert pun about showing "the other side of me" being your butt]

Do you envision making this connection only on line, or taking it into some sort of in-person encounter?

Also curious why you are replying to someone who replied to my ad? Start your own, don’t attempt to hijack someone else’s.

 

[philly1]

Now don’t be jealous, no one is trying to overtake your post.
You can interpret it that way for which you will, but that’s just a sign of insecurity on you.
But seriously, who in their right mind is jealous of a someone’s post?

 

[ArtisticControl]

Now don’t be jealous, no one is trying to overtake your post.
You can interpret it that way for which you will, but that’s just a sign of insecurity on you.
But seriously, who in their right mind is jealous of a someone’s post?

You seriously think I am jealous? Nice try heckler.
You must not have looked at my posts, which I trust those ladies who have read my ad and are piqued by my words will, and what they will see is hardly someone jealous or insecure.

But let’s ask why you felt the need to respond here in the first place, and not just start your own? But then again I don’t expect much from a city that throws snowballs at Santa.

 

[philly1]

Nice try chump! Throwing insults is a sure way of attracting the women here. Let’s see how that works for you
And we will throw snowballs at Santa, the president, & whoever hell we want too! Including you!

 

[ArtisticControl]

Nice try chump! Throwing insults is a sure way of attracting the women here. Let’s see how that works for you
And we will throw snowballs at Santa, the president, & whoever hell we want too! Including you!

Let’s do a quick recap:

I post an ad.
You reply attempting to get your own responses.
I politely ask why you reply and attempt to hijack my ad.

You then reply, not with a “hey man, my bad I’ll start my own”, but attempt to suggest I am jealous and insecure. Those are insults.

I reply saying that I am neither of those things, and once again ask why you decided to heckle. Hopefully you do not do that at a comedy show.

Since Philly’s claim to fame is throwing snowballs at Santa during an NFL game, it confirms why you would hijack another persons post.

Now, move along.

 

[one_love]

Popcorn

*insert Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif*

 

[Dribble]

*insert Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif*

But the good news is I saved a ton of money by switching to Geico. All while getting a good laugh. Win win

 

[ArtisticControl]

*insert Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif*

Please be sure to save me some. I am dying to see how this ends!

But the good news is I saved a ton of money by switching to Geico. All while getting a good laugh. Win win

I didn't realize that Geico had a sex-positive forum. Is there anything that gecko doesn't do?

Men and women who ride on each other’s posts aren’t interesting, AC.
No worries.

Thank you Faralicious. Though I am sensing a new venture here : writing personal ads for those that cannot write their own.

 

[Anastasia1999]

What a great personal ad this is.

You have lost > 100lbs and run a marathon? That is a huge achievement! Well done!

I hope you find what you are looking for here. Good luck

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Also curious why you are replying to someone who replied to my ad? Start your own, don’t attempt to hijack someone else’s.

Dogs are much more efficient at marking off their territory.
Don't feel threatened.
I will avoid your territory in the future.
I was just stalking her.

 

[one_love]

Good add

It is a good ad Lad. I’m sure someone is moppin up what you’re spilling’.