Looking to explore my bi side.
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davion2308
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Well
Okay, so you have a few options. The real question is: Does your wife know about your interest or are you planning on cheating on her or just enjoying the fantasy on the side?
If you are really going to cheat, finding places like Reddit or Doublelist is one way to start. Chat people, talk to them, and see what works for you. I don't suggest it in reality since STIs and STDs exist and you may end a marriage because you want to explore new things.
Decide what you want, go online and go see what's out there.
Good luck
Okay, so you have a few options. The real question is: Does your wife know about your interest or are you planning on cheating on her or just enjoying the fantasy on the side?
If you are really going to cheat, finding places like Reddit or Doublelist is one way to start. Chat people, talk to them, and see what works for you. I don't suggest it in reality since STIs and STDs exist and you may end a marriage because you want to explore new things.
Decide what you want, go online and go see what's out there.
Good luck
janis_en_femme
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Done there, done that.
I'm also a MWM. My encounter was through FetLife.
Do think about if you're willing to jeopardize your relationship with your wife. Mine lost interest in sexual relations after menopause. She suspects but doesn't want to know for sure. She allows me enough free time to explore my bisexuality but she's knows I always come home.
I'm also a MWM. My encounter was through FetLife.
Do think about if you're willing to jeopardize your relationship with your wife. Mine lost interest in sexual relations after menopause. She suspects but doesn't want to know for sure. She allows me enough free time to explore my bisexuality but she's knows I always come home.
Hotrooster619
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Grinder lol
BuckyDuckman
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You can try a site like squirt.org where they list bathhouses, adult theaters, and bookstores with gloryholes. From there, it's just getting up the gumption to go visit such a place and giving it a try.
If you're looking for a more intimate experience, maybe one of the gay hook-up apps?
If you're looking for a more intimate experience, maybe one of the gay hook-up apps?
MWM (married white male for those who'd have to google it up like I did) here.
Have been obsessed by the idea of sucking a cock and maybe doing more for over 8 years.
It took me a couple years to very slowly step-by-step confess to my wife about my wishes and interests bi-curiosity, crossdressing, cuckold. She was by far not as kinky as I am. And no, she didn't take it all very gladly and happily from the beginning. She needed time for that. Time and talks.
One point though, I've never had interest in any man to man experience without my woman (wife or gf) being present there, seeing and at best participating at it.
The most liberated and happy I've felt myself was when I finally told her everything, knowing that I had nothing to hide from her.
Results: She ordered me to suck three men in one night in an adult club helping me bring my long time fantasy true. My wishes became often topic of our joint fantasies. If it were not for Corona, this experience wouldn't be the single case. We're planning to explore our sexuality more together.
P.S. Yes, it was hard as hell to get the resolve to tell her everything. I was afraid to loose the relationship we had. That's why it took me so long, giving it out step by step so far as I could predict her possible reaction.
Have been obsessed by the idea of sucking a cock and maybe doing more for over 8 years.
It took me a couple years to very slowly step-by-step confess to my wife about my wishes and interests bi-curiosity, crossdressing, cuckold. She was by far not as kinky as I am. And no, she didn't take it all very gladly and happily from the beginning. She needed time for that. Time and talks.
One point though, I've never had interest in any man to man experience without my woman (wife or gf) being present there, seeing and at best participating at it.
The most liberated and happy I've felt myself was when I finally told her everything, knowing that I had nothing to hide from her.
Results: She ordered me to suck three men in one night in an adult club helping me bring my long time fantasy true. My wishes became often topic of our joint fantasies. If it were not for Corona, this experience wouldn't be the single case. We're planning to explore our sexuality more together.
P.S. Yes, it was hard as hell to get the resolve to tell her everything. I was afraid to loose the relationship we had. That's why it took me so long, giving it out step by step so far as I could predict her possible reaction.
NightL
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maybe he can find a QRC (queer racist club)
BuckyDuckman
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Good for you! You're a lucky guy! You're living a dream few of us get to live. While it was difficult coming out to my wife - difficult for both of us - it worked for us, too.
Sircharles252
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Find a guy traveling on business
Married guys traveling in business are typically safe and discrete. Not difficult to find and they always have a room. Judge there status by how nice the hotel is.
Married guys traveling in business are typically safe and discrete. Not difficult to find and they always have a room. Judge there status by how nice the hotel is.
wow!
oh my i envy you! i started a separate thread about getting advice on telling my wife that i want her to peg me. now i found inspiration in what you said. fear of destroying our realationship is what is holding me back. congrats to you and your wife. you both sound like a great couple.
oh my i envy you! i started a separate thread about getting advice on telling my wife that i want her to peg me. now i found inspiration in what you said. fear of destroying our realationship is what is holding me back. congrats to you and your wife. you both sound like a great couple.
