Curious & Experiences

[CuriousGuyVa]

Don't we all?

With discretion being an absolute, there probably isn't a way of knowing, unless there are absolute signals given. Get it right and who knows, get it wrong and your fucked.
Still an interesting thought when out and about

 

[AvgGuy01]

This thread has been going since 2015 and plenty of very interesting posts from start to finish

 

[agoodbadapple]

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[CuriousGuyVa]

This thread has been going since 2015 and plenty of very interesting posts from start to finish

Hasn't finished yet...

 

[AvgGuy01]

Morning Gents

 

[Mowgli53]

Wishing peeps would put their location. You can be vague but USA or UK is way vague. Just helps to know if you might be close.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Wishing peeps would put their location. You can be vague but USA or UK is way vague. Just helps to know if you might be close.

... and your location is.... ? something in a profile woudl be a good thing too/

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Wishing peeps would put their location. You can be vague but USA or UK is way vague. Just helps to know if you might be close.

YEAH, YEAH..., where did you say you were from?

(MotorCity here)

 

[Mowgli53]

Profile and location

My profile is filled out fully, with location and all other information.
As far as I know it is visible to everyone.
Maybe because I am new it has not been released by the site editors.
I am near and east of Asheville, NC

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

My profile is filled out fully, with location and all other information.
As far as I know it is visible to everyone.
Maybe because I am new it has not been released by the site editors.
I am near and east of Asheville, NC

Might want to recheck your settings for visibility... but welcome to the site

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Morning all

 

[OnaTangent]

Morning all

Early riser!

 

[jerrythelad]

Took the bi sexual plunge in college. Was totally unplanned.
Don’t know why I did but I did it. Was ashamed after and never saw him again.
I was 23 then.. I did it again at 35 and was so much better.

That's how i started, a drunken oral blow jobat college and nothing till 45

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Early riser!

Early bird, worm and all that...

 

[quasimodm]

Bi-Interested

I consider myself more than curious, where curious = "hmm, I wonder what that would be like, and whether I would enjoy it or not?". I'm definitely bi-interested. I've had limited experience, but enjoyed it and would very much like to delve deeper (pun may or may not be intended) into m2m sex.

But practically, the prospect is terrifying. Anything else I do in this area needs to be absolutely safe, sane and comfortable. Ideally, I'd like to make a friend, perhaps even (cough) a public friend, with private and absolutely discreet play time. Most M2M posts I find online (doublelist, etc.) are overly aggressive and seem way too reckless for my taste.

So, as with many/most of the posts here I've read (and I'm happy to have found this part of literotica recently, where the possibility of a more literate, thoughtful and hopefully careful group exists), the barriers to taking the next step are:

1. opportunity (finding someone who can host discreetly with availability that aligns with mine)

2. compatibility (careful, nervous, not in a hurry, looking for a comfortable friendship as a foundation for any nudge nudge wink wink)

3. proximity (see opportunity)

4. attraction. This always seems like odd one to list for me. I'm not attracted to men, per se, the same way I am with women. And worse, it's difficult for me to define, falling more along the "I know what I like" end of the spectrum.

I have no right to be picky, anyway. I'm not ripped, or smooth. I'm tall, in average-to-dad-bod-shape and balding.

 

[quasimodm]

My profile is filled out fully, with location and all other information.
As far as I know it is visible to everyone.
Maybe because I am new it has not been released by the site editors.
I am near and east of Asheville, NC

You were able to fill out a profile? Every time I try, I get the password reset screen.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I consider myself more than curious, where curious = "hmm, I wonder what that would be like, and whether I would enjoy it or not?". I'm definitely bi-interested. I've had limited experience, but enjoyed it and would very much like to delve deeper (pun may or may not be intended) into m2m sex.

But practically, the prospect is terrifying. Anything else I do in this area needs to be absolutely safe, sane and comfortable. Ideally, I'd like to make a friend, perhaps even (cough) a public friend, with private and absolutely discreet play time. Most M2M posts I find online (doublelist, etc.) are overly aggressive and seem way too reckless for my taste.

So, as with many/most of the posts here I've read (and I'm happy to have found this part of literotica recently, where the possibility of a more literate, thoughtful and hopefully careful group exists), the barriers to taking the next step are:

1. opportunity (finding someone who can host discreetly with availability that aligns with mine)

2. compatibility (careful, nervous, not in a hurry, looking for a comfortable friendship as a foundation for any nudge nudge wink wink)

3. proximity (see opportunity)

4. attraction. This always seems like odd one to list for me. I'm not attracted to men, per se, the same way I am with women. And worse, it's difficult for me to define, falling more along the "I know what I like" end of the spectrum.

I have no right to be picky, anyway. I'm not ripped, or smooth. I'm tall, in average-to-dad-bod-shape and balding.

Well stated...

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I consider myself more than curious, where curious = "hmm, I wonder what that would be like, and whether I would enjoy it or not?". I'm definitely bi-interested. I've had limited experience, but enjoyed it and would very much like to delve deeper (pun may or may not be intended) into m2m sex.

But practically, the prospect is terrifying. Anything else I do in this area needs to be absolutely safe, sane and comfortable. Ideally, I'd like to make a friend, perhaps even (cough) a public friend, with private and absolutely discreet play time. Most M2M posts I find online (doublelist, etc.) are overly aggressive and seem way too reckless for my taste.

So, as with many/most of the posts here I've read (and I'm happy to have found this part of literotica recently, where the possibility of a more literate, thoughtful and hopefully careful group exists), the barriers to taking the next step are:

1. opportunity (finding someone who can host discreetly with availability that aligns with mine)

2. compatibility (careful, nervous, not in a hurry, looking for a comfortable friendship as a foundation for any nudge nudge wink wink)

3. proximity (see opportunity)

4. attraction. This always seems like odd one to list for me. I'm not attracted to men, per se, the same way I am with women. And worse, it's difficult for me to define, falling more along the "I know what I like" end of the spectrum.

I have no right to be picky, anyway. I'm not ripped, or smooth. I'm tall, in average-to-dad-bod-shape and balding.

a. we make our own opportunities based on the level of our desire to get what we
believe we need.

b. absolutely necessary,

c. :see: 'a'

d :see: 'a'

5. you have EVERY RIGHT to NOT SETTLE for what you find only mildly interesting
or less.

The aggresivness you see in those postings most of that is as much bullshit as alot of the same brand of machismo and bullshit bragging you'll find here, try to not let it put you off your search...but if it does see 'a'.

 

[Deman420]

Curious but hesitant.

New here but found this interesting. Straight man and i don't find other men attractive but have always had a building curiosity about being on the other end. I tried once with a friend years and years ago but it didn't happen. recently been trying again but it seems when i find someone its either too aggressive or so far away i lose interest.
perfect scenario would be an older non-aggressive experienced type (im mid 30's) to RP with until a eventual hang out with. then, if i enjoy giving oral, which i did with toys, i may try more.
Probably be a one time thing just to see what its like and if i enjoy it but never know.
Anyone wanna chat about it, just message me.

 

[Dreamer110]

New here but found this interesting. Straight man and i don't find other men attractive but have always had a building curiosity about being on the other end. I tried once with a friend years and years ago but it didn't happen. recently been trying again but it seems when i find someone its either too aggressive or so far away i lose interest.
perfect scenario would be an older non-aggressive experienced type (im mid 30's) to RP with until a eventual hang out with. then, if i enjoy giving oral, which i did with toys, i may try more.
Probably be a one time thing just to see what its like and if i enjoy it but never know.
Anyone wanna chat about it, just message me.

You'll have to enable your pms for that.

 

[Deman420]

You'll have to enable your pms for that.

Just did, my bad

 

[Fredbob711]

I consider myself more than curious, where curious = "hmm, I wonder what that would be like, and whether I would enjoy it or not?". I'm definitely bi-interested. I've had limited experience, but enjoyed it and would very much like to delve deeper (pun may or may not be intended) into m2m sex.

But practically, the prospect is terrifying. Anything else I do in this area needs to be absolutely safe, sane and comfortable. Ideally, I'd like to make a friend, perhaps even (cough) a public friend, with private and absolutely discreet play time. Most M2M posts I find online (doublelist, etc.) are overly aggressive and seem way too reckless for my taste.

So, as with many/most of the posts here I've read (and I'm happy to have found this part of literotica recently, where the possibility of a more literate, thoughtful and hopefully careful group exists), the barriers to taking the next step are:

1. opportunity (finding someone who can host discreetly with availability that aligns with mine)

2. compatibility (careful, nervous, not in a hurry, looking for a comfortable friendship as a foundation for any nudge nudge wink wink)

3. proximity (see opportunity)

4. attraction. This always seems like odd one to list for me. I'm not attracted to men, per se, the same way I am with women. And worse, it's difficult for me to define, falling more along the "I know what I like" end of the spectrum.

I have no right to be picky, anyway. I'm not ripped, or smooth. I'm tall, in average-to-dad-bod-shape and balding.

This summed up my feelings perfectly. Including the not having a right to be picky.

Had an opportunity when I was a lot younger and less confident in myself, chickened out and ran away essentially. Regret it to this day, wonder how my life would be different if I hadn't.

 

[BizTrav]

I consider myself more than curious, where curious = "hmm, I wonder what that would be like, and whether I would enjoy it or not?". I'm definitely bi-interested. I've had limited experience, but enjoyed it and would very much like to delve deeper (pun may or may not be intended) into m2m sex.

But practically, the prospect is terrifying. Anything else I do in this area needs to be absolutely safe, sane and comfortable. Ideally, I'd like to make a friend, perhaps even (cough) a public friend, with private and absolutely discreet play time. Most M2M posts I find online (doublelist, etc.) are overly aggressive and seem way too reckless for my taste.

So, as with many/most of the posts here I've read (and I'm happy to have found this part of literotica recently, where the possibility of a more literate, thoughtful and hopefully careful group exists), the barriers to taking the next step are:

1. opportunity (finding someone who can host discreetly with availability that aligns with mine)

2. compatibility (careful, nervous, not in a hurry, looking for a comfortable friendship as a foundation for any nudge nudge wink wink)

3. proximity (see opportunity)

4. attraction. This always seems like odd one to list for me. I'm not attracted to men, per se, the same way I am with women. And worse, it's difficult for me to define, falling more along the "I know what I like" end of the spectrum.

I have no right to be picky, anyway. I'm not ripped, or smooth. I'm tall, in average-to-dad-bod-shape and balding.

Very well put!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

This summed up my feelings perfectly. Including the not having a right to be picky.

Had an opportunity when I was a lot younger and less confident in myself, chickened out and ran away essentially. Regret it to this day, wonder how my life would be different if I hadn't.

The post by quasimoto hit some good germane points, but I would have to disagree about the "not having a right to be picky" comment ... why wouldn't you want to be be picky. Unless one doesn't care who or what the other guys is, everyone should have at least rudimentary standards...

 

[Deman420]

first time jitters

so i have been curious for a long time. usually in a relationship with a woman so never had a good chance. since i have been single i have been exploring more possibilities. i recently found what im looking for. older, experienced, local, discrete and could host. we set up a day but when it came by i couldn't go through with it. i masturbated to his d pic then flaked out. just curious how many others have had this happen before there 1st time and how did you get over that 1st time fear to go through with it?