What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[SassySheDevil]

I think this question is asked in many different ways but the answer is always - Whatever works for you and your partner after an open and honest discussion about expectations and boundaries and about the consequences of crossing those boundaries.

So for me, without stating the specifics, I'm very cool with everything that we've agreed upon.

This.

but that is the biggest thing. Communication between the people.

Honesty.

Just tell me up front. don't let me find out because you are E boning my friends.

 

[munch2much]

Maybe your e-game got stronger. *

Amazingly this was in real life.
Truly bizarre.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Amazingly this was in real life.
Truly bizarre.

Feast or famine I suppose.

 

[munch2much]

Feast or famine I suppose.

That’s definitely a thing.

Whenever I’m dating I seam to get so much attention that I wouldn’t do anything about.
The second it’s over and …where did they go?!

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

 

[OxfordJack]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I would prefer to be exclusive

 

[munch2much]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I’d much rather it be just the two of us in the relationship.
In fact my last lit relationship was …9 years having spilled over into real life. Sadly it is over now.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

Prefer 1. I'm not looking for orgies.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

Well, I dont think it's one person or everyone. Theres a huge specteum between. I think by the pure fact that I have a spouse and Lit partners means just one person is what works for me. I actually think people are far less monogamous than we are made to believe is normal.

But I enjoy commitments and intense emotional experiences. I also don't like feeling overwhelmed, over extended or like I'm disappointing anyone so I don't want a ton of partners for that reason. But I don't feel like the boundaries we have are restraints either. I'm happy. I would encourage people to do what makes them happy. I like that we all have different varieties.

 

[AbsintheFather]

Today I’m genuinely curious about something. Are you cool with your online partner e-boning other people? If you are, do you have some kind of boundaries or rules? Do you let them know you are playing with someone else? Don’t ask, don’t tell? None of their business what other cyber shenanigans you are engaging in?

Usually don't ask, don't tell. However, back in the day, I had one partner who would share with me her ratings of the guys she did. E.g., if I noticed her flirting with someone I might ask her did you fuck him? and she'd tell me and even give me a review of his e-skills. I kept abreast of the e-competition that way . It was VERY open.

 

[Dribble]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

Happiness comes from understanding your needs. No one person pushes all the buttons. But if they push enough...then I can be very very content and happy. The more confident one is in a relationship...the less they care if it is monogamous. Sharing...can be relationship strengthening. It can also destroy everything. But what do I know?

 

[AbsintheFather]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I've done it both ways and prefer one close and trusting partner. The one has to to be the right one who checks all your boxes though.

 

[Chillygirl]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I’d prefer 1...maybe 2 at the most as I find 1 person doesn’t always fit my needs. I admit having to really be honest with myself about my feelings (especially jealousy) though. I have been accused of e-boning a lot of people which I find hilarious! I think people get confused because I do talk and flirt with a lot of people.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I've done it both ways and prefer one close and trusting partner. The one has to to be the right one who checks all your boxes though.

The places my mind just went.. *sigh*

 

[ydahecnot]

The places my mind just went.. *sigh*

Stop trying to make him and I a thing!

 

[BadAmy]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I think I would prefer one partner as opposed to multiple partners. However I think I would be okay if my partner had other partners as long as they are open and honest about it. Like I don't want to find out like others have said, from a third party that so and so is banging so and so behind my back. I don't like things done behind my back that's the bottom line and honestly if my e-boning partner were to tell me about their proclivities with other e-boning partners, even going as far as tapping into my particular flavor of kink, the better.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I prefer to have one partner (at my age, I am worried I would get confused between the guy who wants to spank me and the one who wants to suck my toes. Could be embarrassing lol).

Seriously though, I prefer one but I don’t mind how many he has. I don’t need to know how many or who they are as that is his business. My only request is that he isn’t e-boning me and somebody else at the exact same time. I think a gap of at least 10 minutes between the two isn’t too much to ask. Any guy that I get involved with in that way will know he is the only one I am doing that with and should I want that to change, I would discuss it with him.

For me it is about the fun of it and two people making each other feel good for a short while. There is too much drama in real life without having that here too.

 

[AbsintheFather]

Stop trying to make him and I a thing!

We're not?

And I have to find out here? How dare you!

 

[SassySheDevil]

Stop trying to make him and I a thing!

We're not?

And I have to find out here? How dare you!

See. I'm halfway there!!

 

[ydahecnot]

We're not?

And I have to find out here? How dare you!

Now I am so not sitting next to you at the porno movie.

 

[ydahecnot]

Usually don't ask, don't tell. However, back in the day, I had one partner who would share with me her ratings of the guys she did. E.g., if I noticed her flirting with someone I might ask her did you fuck him? and she'd tell me and even give me a review of his e-skills. I kept abreast of the e-competition that way . It was VERY open.

How did I rank?

I prefer to have one partner (at my age, I am worried I would get confused between the guy who wants to spank me and the one who wants to suck my toes. Could be embarrassing lol).

Seriously though, I prefer one but I don’t mind how many he has. I don’t need to know how many or who they are as that is his business. My only request is that he isn’t e-boning me and somebody else at the exact same time. I think a gap of at least 10 minutes between the two isn’t too much to ask. Any guy that I get involved with in that way will know he is the only one I am doing that with and should I want that to change, I would discuss it with him.

For me it is about the fun of it and two people making each other feel good for a short while. There is too much drama in real life without having that here too.

I dibs spank

 

[Mei5ter]

I think I would prefer one partner as opposed to multiple partners. However I think I would be okay if my partner had other partners as long as they are open and honest about it. Like I don't want to find out like others have said, from a third party that so and so is banging so and so behind my back. I don't like things done behind my back that's the bottom line and honestly if my e-boning partner were to tell me about their proclivities with other e-boning partners, even going as far as tapping into my particular flavor of kink, the better.

Would you only be happy with your partner eboning others if that fed back into your own relationship with that partner?

That's not only consensual, but hopefully pleases all three. Assuming your kink is what I think. But it's very, very different from your partner eboning anything with a keyboard, pulse and vagina because they randomly want a change from you sometimes.

 

[Dribble]

Would you only be happy with your partner eboning others if that fed back into your own relationship with that partner?

That's not only consensual, but hopefully pleases all three. Assuming your kink is what I think. But it's very, very different from your partner eboning anything with a keyboard, pulse and vagina because they randomly want a change from you sometimes.

Or because they can...and they are bored...and you aren't there. That immediate gratification so many seek

 

[Orchidea73]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

Only one and I want the same from him. I want exclusivity and I am straight forward about it from the get go. I have absolutely nothing against those who want more than one partner. It's just not for me. I do not like sharing. I do not share myself, therefore I do not want my partner to share himself with other people either. It could last a month, 6 month, a year. It doesn't matter. What matters to me is that I do want exclusivity for as long as you are with me.

However, I've learned pretty quickly that this is not possible online. I'm sure this isn't the case for everybody, and there are people capable of giving and receiving just that. But that has not been my experience. Albeit a very limited one (2 very short stories). Probably that's the nature of the "beast", and maybe my expectations are not realistic. But since I am not willing to bend my rules and standards just to please someone else, or be another belt on someone else's collection, and quick fixes, I have decided to not get intimate with anyone. I just don't think this is something that works for me.

I talk, flirt and banter with enough good peeps, and that should suffice. In the end, I think that whatever you do, it's important to know thyself. Know what you want and what you don't want, be honest about it (with yourself and/or partner) and stick to it.

 

[Jake069258]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

I prefer to remain monogamous with my online relationships. Yes, as a married guy that could come across as hypocritical. But what I am really searching for is a connection with someone. Someone who I am able to have that complete and open communication with that I do not get in my home life. I am also of the opinion that the sexy stuff is much improved when there is a connection as well.