Tips for gay massage?

[pahrunk]

I was looking to get massage with something extra. Never been with a guy before, nervous to even be thinking about it, but I think it's time. Any tips?

 

[saintcero]

I was looking to get massage with something extra. Never been with a guy before, nervous to even be thinking about it, but I think it's time. Any tips?

Go for it. Look online. Read some reviews. See how long the guy has been in operation and then chat with him about it. It is a business for the masseur. If you don’t feel comfortable with his answers just say no thanks and find another. The masseur needs to impress you. You don’t have to impress him. Me getting a gay erotic massage helped me open up a bit and understand who I am

 

[stargame]

Go for it. Look online. Read some reviews. See how long the guy has been in operation and then chat with him about it. It is a business for the masseur. If you don’t feel comfortable with his answers just say no thanks and find another. The masseur needs to impress you. You don’t have to impress him. Me getting a gay erotic massage helped me open up a bit and understand who I am

Go for it!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

PM me and I'll give you information about a couple of sites I've used with good results.

Remember that you're a paying customer, so he's providing a service that should satisfy you. If there are any red flags when you're checking out a masseur, just drop him.

Find out if mutual touch is allowed. That will tell you a lot.

You want him to respect your boundaries, respect his boundaries, too. He's a masseur, not a call boy, unless that is what you're looking for.

Decide how much emphasis you want on the therapeutic aspects of the massage, as well as on the erotic elements.

One very practical tip: When you're on the table, nude and face down, you can position your cock either underneath you of pointed down between your legs. If your dick is more "on display," it sends the message that you want some attention paid to it. You'll learn a lot by how much he works your upper thighs and "accidentally" brushes against your cock and balls.

I've had many erotic massages from make masseurs. I've learned whom to trust with my body, as well as who gives me what I'm looking for, both for relaxation and release.

Excellent advise, I agree 100%
Good luck to the OP!

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I was looking to get massage with something extra. Never been with a guy before, nervous to even be thinking about it, but I think it's time. Any tips?

OPEN COMMUNICATION

If what you want is to relax then tell him that. If what you want is to just experience and then bust a nut ---, TELL HIM THAT.