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oh, absolutely, i found it felt amazing, so intimate, and there's so much pleasure in that area. not many people are willing to do it though, sadly!

It may be the most taboo activity of all. That may be part of what makes so damn erotic.Loving doing it!!!

Yes it's very intimate. And no doubt the taboo nature keeps people away from exploring something that is very erotic. Some people you'll never be able to convince, however. It's their loss, but also their decision, and they should be allowed to do so.
 
Yes it's very intimate. And no doubt the taboo nature keeps people away from exploring something that is very erotic. Some people you'll never be able to convince, however. It's their loss, but also their decision, and they should be allowed to do so.

I think the "taboo" thought keeps people away from many things and in return they lose out on some of the greatest pleasures.
 
I agree with this. And once those views are solidly in place they're hard to break apart.

No question about that. I think that is why many sexual relationship get stale. One or both are afraid to push it along to something "kinky."
 
No question about that. I think that is why many sexual relationship get stale. One or both are afraid to push it along to something "kinky."

And I wonder why that is? I think couples get together without knowing each others interest in sex. Yes, people can have sex before marriage, but I think in many cases it doesn't go much past regular intercourse. Once one partner wants something a bit more, they find out their other isn't interested. I don't think couples have honest discussions before marriage about sex, their likes and dislikes. Maybe they don't because the subject embarrasses them.
 
And I wonder why that is? I think couples get together without knowing each others interest in sex. Yes, people can have sex before marriage, but I think in many cases it doesn't go much past regular intercourse. Once one partner wants something a bit more, they find out their other isn't interested. I don't think couples have honest discussions before marriage about sex, their likes and dislikes. Maybe they don't because the subject embarrasses them.

And with that, some people have a desire to do more. Sometimes they always did and sometimes it is something they hear about and the partner is not willing.
 
And with that, some people have a desire to do more. Sometimes they always did and sometimes it is something they hear about and the partner is not willing.

"Something they hear about", I hadn't thought of that but yes that's also a possibility. With internet porn everywhere, it's easy to see a clip of something and say "Wow, that looks amazing, I'd love to try that". Then when you bring the subject to your partner they flat out refuse. That's one of those unforeseen things you can't really plan for.
 
Big fan of rimming and being rimmed. So exciting to have a tongue working itself into an ass while getting my cock stroked in the process. I understand some folks may not be into it but I love to give and receive when it comes to rimming
 
Big fan of rimming and being rimmed. So exciting to have a tongue working itself into an ass while getting my cock stroked in the process. I understand some folks may not be into it but I love to give and receive when it comes to rimming

Sounds delightful
 
I think some were taught or simply grew up that sex was dirty or only to produce a baby. Which is sad. Some ladies out there don't understand how guys tick. Sure the lady wants dinner and flowers. And the guy will do that, but he wants sex. Marriages just go stale that even with the guy doing mundane things, the lady just takes that totally for granted. Bills paid, roof over head, yard mowed, good husband and father, has a job, stability, etc. But when he wants sex it's like Nooooooooo. Plus it's sad the woman simply takes no interest in her own body.
It's depressing.
But of course if the guy wants to go out and get some outside of marriage, then the woman instantly wants a divorce. And it's like well your not fulfilling your vows and the guy has needs.
Vicious circle
At least there is lit and good friends. :)

I can understand what you're saying. When my Mother gave me "the talk" she said that sex was mainly for making babies. She also said that my future husband would want sex a lot, and I should be a good wife and give it to him, even if I didn't want to, because that's what good wives did in her generation. But I also knew from talking with my girlfriends during high school, the ones that were sexually active at least, they said that sex was great and there was nothing better than being fucked by a man.

My first time having sex wasn't anything to brag about. I didn't have an orgasm, it didn't really feel great, he came really fast, so it was over before I knew it. And at the time I thought that Mom was right about it. It wasn't until a couple of years later when I got married that my world got turned upside down when it came to sex. My first husband was much older than I was (I was his second wife) and he was much more experienced sexually than I was. And we didn't have sex until our wedding night. He did things to me that night that I'd only heard about, and I had the best orgasms up to that point in my life. I got swept up in this amazing sex. I'd never dreamed it could feel so good. And for the first time in my life I thought that maybe Mom was wrong about something.

So I suppose I should count myself lucky that things just came together and sparked a lifelong interest and love for sex.
 
Sorry to steal away from rimming.
I dont know if my wife ever had boyfriends growing up. I know that I'm her third husband. But truthfully I don't know if she has ever experienced a real orgasam. And more importantly "allowed" herself to experience one.
Once I was going down on her, and I think doing a good job. For some reason, even with little experience, I think I'm a good cock sucker and pussy eater.
Well she screams at me, and not in a good way "Noooooo!!!!!! I don't want to "go" with you down there, just get on top of me and put "it" in". Freaking mood killer. So I do, hump a few times, I'm done and she just lies there then stuffs a wash cloth between her legs and rushes to the bathroom.
Other times I would be playing with a dildo in her and I would ask "Does that feel good". And she would say "Stop talking, I don't know if it feels good or not, but I have to pee".
So again I don't think in her life she has ever allowed herself to have sexual fun, even with herself, sadly.
She is getting a hysto soon, maybe after she recovers and is done with constant cramping, things will change in that department. She will keep the grand that keeps menopause away. But sadly knowing my luck, things will still be terrible between us.
Oh well, off my soap box now.
Thanks Willow for listening.
:)

I'm sorry that your wife isn't more into sex than she is. Again, I consider myself fortunate that I enjoy sex as much as I do at my age. I just hope and pray that it continues. My first husband introduced me to many sexual things, and I admit I was hesitant and reluctant. The first time he went down on me I also said "No". I was aware of oral sex, but I couldn't wrap my head around the idea of someone putting their mouth onto my genitals. My goodness, that was where my pee came from. But he didn't take my no for an answer. He had a firm grasp of my hands so I couldn't pull his head away. But my "No" soon turned to moans, and he eventually made me cum, and I was writhing like I was having a seizure. I was then sold on oral sex. I wasn't ready yet to go down on him, and he was patient with me on that. Eventually I worked my courage up one night and I gave him my first blow job. It wasn't perfect, but he enjoyed it and he did cum in my mouth. He told me before he had his orgasm that he was going to cum and to take him out of my mouth and stroke him to an orgasm. I shook my head because I wanted to experience the whole thing. And yes, I gagged on his semen when it came out of him, but I really loved it, so it became something I'd do for him daily.

I'm sorry for also getting off topic, but I'll make up for it by posting a picture more on the thread's subject matter :)

https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2021/09/406274/bdsmlr-406274-1sfnZy5RcE.gif
 
Thanks for your sharing and yes that was a hot GIF. Grin.
We will see what happens. I read some articles that said ladies sex lives actually improve after hysto's because they are no longer constantly bleeding and having a cramping feeling. I do love her but just very sexually frustrated and I know there is no point trying to talk to her cause she will just say all men are pigs.
I shaved once and showed her as a surprise and she called me a "freak". Frown.

Here is a playful link.
https://www.sex.com/pin/59226331-ziggy-loves-rimming/

A very nice link :)

I do hope your wife's procedure improves her sexual desire. And her reaction to you shaving should have been much different than what you describe.

One more pic to keep us on topic :)

https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2021/09/103973/bdsmlr-103973-zIPGK6AEeq.gif
 
Very hot gif indeed. For some reason I can never figure out how to post the actual gif and I end up just posting the URL.
Yeah we had gone to the beach and I had shaven myself clean that morning. I showed her when we got there and she literally said "Your a freak".
What she should have said was "Awww, how cute, let me drop to my knees and play with him". Grin.
So again, we will see in a few months if things improve.
I have seen her flirting a lot with guys while out in public, I need to do a better job calling her on that, as she never talks to me in private.
Here is another yummy link.
https://www.sex.com/pin/59184962-big-titted-whore-rimming/

Yes, I agree. That link is yummy!

I'm sorry you didn't get the reaction you were hoping for. She could have at least given you a compliment, and not insult you, at least that's the way I took her comment. And yes, if she's flirting with other men, I would at least make mention of it to her.

One more pic :)

https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2020/11/10018471/bdsmlr-10018471-CxkaUxzsOS.gif
 
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