What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[ydahecnot]

Does it do bagels?

Four at a time

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Now how fucking bad is this? I am a 1-percenter. Fuck yea.

Actually...I am a zero-percenter but one-percenter is cooler. Now I need a bike

What makes me unique is that I somehow ended on the no fly list without ever having played with anyone. But hey, I don't make the rules.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I mean if I am going to have an orgy with a bunch of great ladies. I'd rather know all are involved.
Besides, then we can team up to rock your world.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

That’s right. You don’t.

Never thought I did. That is one delusion I never had.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

This is a great reason why I like the low post count dudes, those hidden little gems.

 

[SassySheDevil]

This is a great reason why I like the low post count dudes, those hidden little gems.

yes and no. But sometimes those low post count dudes, are still playing with all your friends. They just keep it in PMs

 

[Lonelywife1205]

yes and no. But sometimes those low post count dudes, are still playing with all your friends. They just keep it in PMs

Way to burst my bubble Sassy

 

[SassySheDevil]

Way to burst my bubble Sassy

lol sorry. Post count has nothing to do with who people play with, or flirt with, or talk to.

But post count definitely helps us get to know someone better before deciding if we want to play with them, talk to them, or flirt with them

*runs away with needle* no more bubble popping.. I'll be careful-er

 

[Mattentive]

What's third of all.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

lol sorry. Post count has nothing to do with who people play with, or flirt with, or talk to.

But post count definitely helps us get to know someone better before deciding if we want to play with them, talk to them, or flirt with them

*runs away with needle* no more bubble popping.. I'll be careful-er

My low post count comment was me trying to say that my most successful interactions/relationships have been with people who fly under the radar and who are relatively unknown publicly. Anytime I’ve played with someone more recognizable, it tends to burst into flames pretty early on. *

 

[Trailing_Tongue]

Alts feel like so much work.

There is more that goes on behind the scenes then I realized.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Warnings, Overlap, Dirty Little Secrets, Post Count

I have a pretty high threshold when it comes to behavior that I would warn other women about. In my case, it was someone with whom I talked for about two months before meeting them in person, once for coffee and then once for more. Immediately after, I was lied to (as I later discovered) and then ghosted. Eventually I learned that I was used by him in order to get revenge on the Litster that he was actually involved with. He hasn’t been around lately, but best believe that if I saw him chatting up a woman that I know, then she’s gonna get a message from me.

The silver lining is that once this other woman and I got to talking, we became fast friends, and she dumped his sorry ass. That was three years ago, and she’s still my Lit BFF. So, I guess that something good can occasionally come from overlap.

I don’t recommend being someone’s dirty little secret. The super fun part is when they decide to dump you because your existence might interfere with the new relationship they are building with the person that they do want to be seen with in public.

I agree with LW about post counts.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I am not going to quote one particular person as there are so many comments on the subject of who is “playing” with more than one person but I do see that it is (mostly) the ladies discussing this.

I am nosey as to what the guys think as I am pretty certain that there are instances when the position is reversed.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I am nosey about the definition of the term “playing”.

There was lots of discussion on the term “e-boning” and how that was defined but what is the definition of “playing”. Is this flirting, heavy flirting, having discussions of a sexual nature but not in a “you and me doing this” kind of way, or is it the same as e-boning?

Using the Fara, Sassy and Bob example, if Bob makes flirty comments to me, is that unfair on Fara and Sassy? If I have a conversation with Bob and that involves talking about what we like and don’t like sexually, am I breaking “girl code”?

 

[mickyp123]

When I had a relationship on lit we had what “we had” and both knew that what went
on with anyone else didn’t mean anything and we both felt happy and secure with that, at the end of the day it all came down to trust.

 

[Plane_Guy]

I'm nosey to see if my friend is going to act on the advice I gave her. She's going to enjoy it so much!

 

[Lonelywife1205]

When I had a relationship on lit we had what “we had” and both knew that what went
on with anyone else didn’t mean anything and we both felt happy and secure with that, at the end of the day it all came down to trust.

I agree with this.

 

[mickyp123]

I agree with this.

Worked well for us

 

[Booboobear84]

I am nosey about the definition of the term “playing”.

There was lots of discussion on the term “e-boning” and how that was defined but what is the definition of “playing”. Is this flirting, heavy flirting, having discussions of a sexual nature but not in a “you and me doing this” kind of way, or is it the same as e-boning?

Using the Fara, Sassy and Bob example, if Bob makes flirty comments to me, is that unfair on Fara and Sassy? If I have a conversation with Bob and that involves talking about what we like and don’t like sexually, am I breaking “girl code”?

I think playing is a broad term that covers a lot and e boning is more explicit. I won’t be surprised if e boning tends to gets used over time more generally.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

What my life is missing is intimacy and playing with multiple people does not lend itself well to that. I’m honest with people about that. I flirt with lots of people on the boards, but I prefer to invest my time in one person. I think micky is right, it all comes down to trust (and honesty).

People come here for all sorts of reasons though and I try not to judge.

 

[Dribble]

What makes me unique is that I somehow ended on the no fly list without ever having played with anyone. But hey, I don't make the rules.

Well according to some...your post count is too high automatically eliminating you from the conversation. I don't get it...but I don't make the rules.. if i read this correctly...it is the girl's club that thinks they make the rules.. Games. All the more reason to create more alts or eliminate them from consideration.

 

[BadAmy]

I'm nosey about how people handle toxic relationships. Not just online, but offline. Any strategies? Even if family?

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I'm nosey about how people handle toxic relationships. Not just online, but offline. Any strategies? Even if family?

Divorce.

It worked for me.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I'm nosey about how people handle toxic relationships. Not just online, but offline. Any strategies? Even if family?

I cut them out of my life but I understand that isn’t always possible with close family.

 

[BadAmy]

I cut them out of my life but I understand that isn’t always possible with close family.

Since Covid, cutting out family has gotten a bit easier.