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[Runwiththewolves]

Hey there,
I don't think my first post really did me any justice.
I thought I'd write another and try to be a little more specific in terms of what I'm looking for .
Now, I have had past experience online with bdsm however, that isn't really what I want and I wanted to say that from the word go. If at one point that became a possibility then yes, sure. Let's go there. Straight off the bat though I really want someone in a similar position to me who is longing for a true connection. No were never going to meet and I don't want to be a factor in your relationship whether engaged married or just committed .
You should be someone with a good, kind heart. Someone who approaches life enthusiastically and with a great deal of passion.
Maybe you've been married a long time and your wife no longer gives you those butterflies.
Maybe your fiance just doesn't understand you, or even give you the attention you need.
Maybe your girlfriend, treats you offstandush and there's alot of conflict.
I want to be that person you can't wait to message and say hey... I need you, I'm having it tough.
If this appeals and you're willing to charter unknown waters then message me.
Yes, I'm going to be picky but if it works out and we're both happy then it'll be worth it.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

This is exactly why!!!!

This is exactly why the beautiful strong courageous amazing woman in lit battle to find long worthy friends here... This is an example of mine and "his" response after I told him. I'm not interested in him.

His Response...

Just a very brief question: why have you not responded to my email that I sent you? And why have you decided instead to place another ad on Lit, searching for somebody new?

Of course you can do what you want to, but that sound to me difficult to understand, at least.

My Response...

Hi there,
Firstly I did not receive your email.
Secondly after searching your posts I found that you in fact are not what I'm looking for. Infact I've been warned of you.
Thirdly, good luck.


His response...
Dear !
In retrospect, I thank you very kindly for not continuing our pseudo-conversation via Lit. I am mighty glad you prevented me from trying to connect with a semi-illiterate woman, who does not appear to know what she wants. Who certainly never learned to express it in understandable words.

And to a woman who has shown no cordiality the whole time we conversed, and who nobody ever taught civilized manners either, apparently. I have empathy already for the poor fellow, who picks you up as his prize. I can imagine why your husband is not too keen on remaining connected with you.

May you end up with what you truly deserve! Ciao,

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Straight off the bat though I really want someone in a similar position to me who is longing for a true connection. No were never going to meet and I don't want to be a factor in your relationship whether engaged married or just committed .
You should be someone with a good, kind heart. Someone who approaches life enthusiastically and with a great deal of passion.

You should be someone with a good, kind heart. Someone who approaches life enthusiastically and with a great deal of passion.

“No answer is the answer “

Those , why , why , why not , explain it messages …do yourself solid and just don’t reply if you have no interest. Don’t feel sorry for them , or practice good manners in this aspect of doing life and the write thing. Or I believe if you do send a NO , no means No reply , use the ignoring feature and they can’t write back.

Anyhow , I quoted some of your best , what you are looking for to illustrate them.

Sincerely wishing all the luck I possibly can.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

“No answer is the answer “

Those , why , why , why not , explain it messages …do yourself solid and just don’t reply if you have no interest. Don’t feel sorry for them , or practice good manners in this aspect of doing life and the write thing. Or I believe if you do send a NO , no means No reply , use the ignoring feature and they can’t write back.

Anyhow , I quoted some of your best , what you are looking for to illustrate them.

Sincerely wishing all the luck I possibly can.

Thank you so much.

 

[lonely_hubby60]

Dear woman who needs a pack of wolves to run with,

I forgot to add “conceit” as one of your traits, because considering yourself an amazing and courageous woman seems like quite a stretch to me.

I hope that at least your public appeal to pity from men will bring a suitor or two into your mailbox. As far as me pointing out your inability to describe what you are looking for: just read your ad another time and it will become obvious to you also.

You showed everybody your lack of manners by quoting verbatim from private messages, something not allowed as far as I know, but bad form in any case. And your inability to add cordial gestures into your PMs: maybe some men will enjoy that? Considering you have mentioned BDSM.

Anyway, all the luck to you that you deserve, Wolf Lady!

 

[KatieDoes]

BWAHAHAHHAHAHAAAA!!

I knew it was this^ douchecanoe as soon as she posted the message.

Anyone lurking here for even a week would have spotted him.

The smug entitlement, the barely restrained hatred of women, the oozing misogyny, the negging insults, the complete and utter lack of self awareness. The syntax and vernacular are obvious.

OP, please don’t let this abusive AH deter you or cause you to question yourself. He has to devalue women because women of value won’t tolerate his behavior.

I hope you find what you’re seeking. Your ad is simply lovely.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

BWAHAHAHHAHAHAAAA!!

I knew it was this^ douchecanoe as soon as she posted the message.

Anyone lurking here for even a week would have spotted him.

The smug entitlement, the barely restrained hatred of women, the oozing misogyny, the negging insults, the complete and utter lack of self awareness. The syntax and vernacular are obvious.

OP, please don’t let this abusive AH deter you or cause you to question yourself. He has to devalue women because women of value won’t tolerate his behavior.

I hope you find what you’re seeking. Your ad is simply lovely.

Awe thank you Hun... I appreciate the kind words.

 

[KatieDoes]

[QUOTE. Dude is a creep and the singular worst person I've ever interacted with on Lit.

Best of luck to you Wolves, glad you called him out![/QUOTE]

Right!?

Can you imagine being the creepiest man ON A PORN SITE and still thinking that the women are the problem?

Dude brings nothing but the audacity.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I agree with you ladies...he is the worst 3 guys on this entire sex site.
Creeper!

https://media4.giphy.com/media/X05U0gOPkQ4G4/giphy.gif?cid=5e214886h1cd2us1uhcpvn44t81q68wfhjp3y5ows1ukpz8m&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g

 

[Runwiththewolves]

I agree with you ladies...he is the worst 3 guys on this entire sex site.
Creeper!

https://media4.giphy.com/media/X05U0gOPkQ4G4/giphy.gif?cid=5e214886h1cd2us1uhcpvn44t81q68wfhjp3y5ows1ukpz8m&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g

Hahaha well said hun!
I'm just glad I didn't fall to his "charm"?
Just his first message wherein he starts questioning me! I was like dude.... Back off.
Then of course he didn't take rejection well so he decided insulting me would be the way to go.
Girls... Watch out for this guy.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

Oh. She’s allowed to copy and paste, as long as she leaves out the name.
You just outed yourself.

The fact that he cannot handle rejection just goes to show his maturity and its pathetic that hes rather decided to insult me left right and centre. I suggest he takes a long good look at himself in the mirror before passing judgment on someone he doesn't know.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

What is really scary about this guy is: Imagine what he does when turned down in person?

 

[KatieDoes]

What is really scary about this guy is: Imagine what he does when turned down in person?

Exactly. If his bio is accurate, I worry for his wife. It must be a horrible existence to be legally tied to someone so manipulative and abusive.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Exactly. If his bio is accurate, I worry for his wife. It must be a horrible existence to be legally tied to someone so manipulative and abusive.

Using my forest gimp font to type this out.

HEY Katie , Hey Katie < waving hi ridiculously >

Fuck that guy , he’s reading this shit and eating it up. Change the narrative of this ladies thread and get sum girl…hehe

I’m joking in print or am I

See how that works lady slayer



Signed a member of the penis tribe , wingman for consideration

 

[KatieDoes]

Using my forest gimp font to type this out.

HEY Katie , Hey Katie < waving hi ridiculously >

Fuck that guy , he’s reading this shit and eating it up. Change the narrative of this ladies thread and get sum girl…hehe

I’m joking in print or am I

See how that works lady slayer



Signed a member of the penis tribe , wingman for consideration

Ugh, you’re right.


He’s probably reading this while he strokes his greasy little penis and mutters about how bitches don’t deserve him.


At least, hopefully, the next newbie he preys upon will see this in a pre response post stalk and save herself some time and trouble.



I hope his wife is fucking the landscaper(s).

 

[SassySheDevil]

The fact that he cannot handle rejection just goes to show his maturity and its pathetic that hes rather decided to insult me left right and centre. I suggest he takes a long good look at himself in the mirror before passing judgment on someone he doesn't know.

That's why he has so many ALTs. So he can try his "charms" with different names.

 

[lonely_hubby60]

a most amusing thread!

This thread sure is turning into a most amusing one. Beginning with a poorly written ad; not easy to understand what the woman really wants. BDSM or not, I mean. And then -- after no public show of interest in her ad, the OP pulls the “please pity me!” card. For what reason? For me telling her I am glad she lost interest in me? Since when has it become a crime for a man to tell a woman why he appreciates her disappearing?

And all of a sudden this thread becomes one, on which several people try to insult me. No more OP looking for a man but several women + fingerfux dumping crap on me.

Well, if that’s what makes y’all happy, so be it! I am glad that you found my words so entertaining. And I find it rather indicative to learn, what sort of matters supposed grown-ups involve themselves with on the Lit Personals. And how “civilized” their discourse becomes, when a chance opens up, to gang up on one person.

I assure you that my amusement about all this is far higher than my mild anger. I already know what the calibre is of many Lit women, so no surprise for me here.

 

[SassySheDevil]

And most of them know yours as well.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

“greasy little penis” is hilarious. I may steal that for my arsenal, Katie.

OP, post on the threads instead of running personals. You’ll get more of a feel for who someone is. Good luck.

Thank you for the advise!

 

[WillowySparkles]

At least, hopefully, the next newbie he preys upon will see this in a pre response post stalk and save herself some time and trouble.

I haven't encountered him, but I'm grateful to this tread for the warning.

 

[KatieDoes]

I haven't encountered him, but I'm grateful to this tread for the warning.

He has several alt accounts, but they all hate women. So you’ll recognize him.

 

[Runwiththewolves]

“greasy little penis” is hilarious. I may steal that for my arsenal, Katie.

OP, post on the threads instead of running personals. You’ll get more of a feel for who someone is. Good luck.

He has several alt accounts, but they all hate women. So you’ll recognize him.

Yeah... I agree.
Ladies my biggest suggestion to you would be to listen to other ladies. If they generally advise against a certain person then it's probably for a reason. The last few days of women's month so I'd like to say this.... You are strong. You are powerful. You are brave. You are inspiring . You are beautiful. You are kind. You are..... Never let a guy make you feel like you're not worth it. Xxx

 

[SoBelle]

This is exactly why the beautiful strong courageous amazing woman in lit battle to find long worthy friends here... This is an example of mine and "his" response after I told him. I'm not interested in him.

His Response...

Just a very brief question: why have you not responded to my email that I sent you? And why have you decided instead to place another ad on Lit, searching for somebody new?

Of course you can do what you want to, but that sound to me difficult to understand, at least.

My Response...

Hi there,
Firstly I did not receive your email.
Secondly after searching your posts I found that you in fact are not what I'm looking for. Infact I've been warned of you.
Thirdly, good luck.


His response...
Dear !
In retrospect, I thank you very kindly for not continuing our pseudo-conversation via Lit. I am mighty glad you prevented me from trying to connect with a semi-illiterate woman, who does not appear to know what she wants. Who certainly never learned to express it in understandable words.

And to a woman who has shown no cordiality the whole time we conversed, and who nobody ever taught civilized manners either, apparently. I have empathy already for the poor fellow, who picks you up as his prize. I can imagine why your husband is not too keen on remaining connected with you.

May you end up with what you truly deserve! Ciao,

How funny - I know exactly who you are talking about! Why are some so quick to attack when they are discovered in the wrong?

Best of luck to you finding what you are looking for. Literotica is a very large haystack, but I know for a fact there are some that are worth the hung.

 

[WillowySparkles]

He has several alt accounts, but they all hate women. So you’ll recognize him.

Thank you. I will look out for him and avoid.

 

[KatieDoes]

I agree with you ladies...he is the worst 3 guys on this entire sex site.
Creeper!

https://media4.giphy.com/media/X05U0gOPkQ4G4/giphy.gif?cid=5e214886h1cd2us1uhcpvn44t81q68wfhjp3y5ows1ukpz8m&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g

‘He’s the worst 3 guys’ is a brilliant and underrated comment. I’m sorry I skimmed past it, but it made me chuckle today.