Earthgoddess
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I am seeking an extremely specific sort of man and thought I would create a personal to see if my desired combination is possible. I am looking for an individual on the East Coast of the United States due to time zone availability, although if your circadian rhythms are skewed to that time zone regardless of your geographical location may the odds ever be in your favor. I want someone sensual, smart, kind and leaning onto their more dominant tendencies-note there is no capital letter there on that word. An appreciation of kink is lovely, but you do not need a 2,345-item fetish preference list to explore with me. I also seek someone in a similar chronological range, ideally over 45 since I am 53 and that feels like a comfortable range of life experiences. I practice ethical non-monogamy so unless your spouse knows you are here and seeking play we are not playing. I truly believe you must be this self-actualized to ride this ride.
For my physical preferences I really do not have them per se. For example, I love the actor Tim Mison, both bearded and clean shaven, and yes, I know I am a decade older than he is, but I cannot resist him. I also find Ben Kingsley, John Galecki, Matt Smith, Peter Capaldi and Patrick Stewart nice looking and so I do not have a definitive type. I do adore a posh British accent if it escalates into voice play otherwise, I may just read everything you type aloud like I am in Jane Austen novel. Or I may at the very least add a touch of Regency flair when I review our conversations.
I am not seeking role-play (although that is lovely). I am seeking more of a connection to soothe out the rough spots of my day-to-day life. I am married, for many decades, and my husband knows I am here as we are poly, and he appreciates and supports my needs for a little brain candy. This is to be on-line/remote at this time, the plague has curtailed many of my former activities and I am not seeking anything in person at this moment, but I will not say never, just not now.
For other areas I mentioned intelligence previously and decent grammar should have been there as well. Professionally I am a professor, and I do not want to feel like I need to have you run a grammar check, but I also do not want to have a red pen in my hands when I read our exchanges. And no, before you go there, I am not into that sort of scene, naughty professor is a no go however saucy librarian may be possible. I should disclose I work in the mental health field, so I do not want to diagnose you, but I also do not want to step into a deep pit of despair, drama, and need. I would like these interactions to be want driven, fun, relaxing and mentally stimulating.
I also love to discuss other aspects of self and daily life. I am a huge nerd; I was a chef for many years, and I am an avid gardener. If you have gotten this far, I hope you will consider reading my profile, and I do recommend looking at my work here on Literotica should you decide, I might be fun.
For my physical preferences I really do not have them per se. For example, I love the actor Tim Mison, both bearded and clean shaven, and yes, I know I am a decade older than he is, but I cannot resist him. I also find Ben Kingsley, John Galecki, Matt Smith, Peter Capaldi and Patrick Stewart nice looking and so I do not have a definitive type. I do adore a posh British accent if it escalates into voice play otherwise, I may just read everything you type aloud like I am in Jane Austen novel. Or I may at the very least add a touch of Regency flair when I review our conversations.
I am not seeking role-play (although that is lovely). I am seeking more of a connection to soothe out the rough spots of my day-to-day life. I am married, for many decades, and my husband knows I am here as we are poly, and he appreciates and supports my needs for a little brain candy. This is to be on-line/remote at this time, the plague has curtailed many of my former activities and I am not seeking anything in person at this moment, but I will not say never, just not now.
For other areas I mentioned intelligence previously and decent grammar should have been there as well. Professionally I am a professor, and I do not want to feel like I need to have you run a grammar check, but I also do not want to have a red pen in my hands when I read our exchanges. And no, before you go there, I am not into that sort of scene, naughty professor is a no go however saucy librarian may be possible. I should disclose I work in the mental health field, so I do not want to diagnose you, but I also do not want to step into a deep pit of despair, drama, and need. I would like these interactions to be want driven, fun, relaxing and mentally stimulating.
I also love to discuss other aspects of self and daily life. I am a huge nerd; I was a chef for many years, and I am an avid gardener. If you have gotten this far, I hope you will consider reading my profile, and I do recommend looking at my work here on Literotica should you decide, I might be fun.
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