Bi 38 year old female Newbie

[BiBibaby1982]

Hi I am married to a man and I live in Minneapolis. I think about being with women a lot. My husband knows that I am attracted to women but he is not willing to open up the marriage. Even when we discuss it he jokes about taking pictures if I do anything but in reality I don't think He would accept it. He seems to think it's a joke. I still love my husband but obviously He cannot give me everything I feel Like I need sexually. He is also older and his labido is much lower than mine. He is also much more sexually conservative th I am. I'm looking for an outlet For my sexual frustration. If anyone can relate and would like to chat Please let me know. I am new to this so I'm not exactly sure how it works but I guess we'll see.

 

[hippiesfembichild]

Hi ,please turn on your PM function and send me a message or i will send you one.

 

[BiBibaby1982]

How do I turn them on?

 

[hippiesfembichild]

Go to you user cp upper left hand as you look at the screen. open and you will find the way to turn it on.

 

[hippiesfembichild]

It's under edit options

 

[hippiesfembichild]

Pm's full need to make space

 

[BiBibaby1982]

Pm's full need to make space

I emptied everything but it says some are still stored

 

[maturesthrncple]

You probably emptied your "IN" box. You also have a sent box that may need to be emptied..

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

sorry

Sorry for your frustrations. Probably isn't good for your ego, libido, nor general well-being to live that way. It is too bad you aren't able to slap the guy up alongside the head with a Stillson wrench to get his attention.
Living with someone who listens but doesn't hear makes me more sympathetic to your situation. In my case, bringing up the subject four, five or even six times sometimes gets results. Think about bringing it up again. Good luck. Have you close friends who'll lend an ear--or maybe more?

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Hi I am married to a man and I live in Minneapolis. I think about being with women a lot. My husband knows that I am attracted to women but he is not willing to open up the marriage. Even when we discuss it he jokes about taking pictures if I do anything but in reality I don't think He would accept it. He seems to think it's a joke. I still love my husband but obviously He cannot give me everything I feel Like I need sexually. He is also older and his labido is much lower than mine. He is also much more sexually conservative th I am. I'm looking for an outlet For my sexual frustration. If anyone can relate and would like to chat Please let me know. I am new to this so I'm not exactly sure how it works but I guess we'll see.

Try going to a swing club.