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Interesting feedback!

Stories ? You must be meaning juicy sex stories or fantasies ? Well, but would that not be OVERTLY sexual ? My search theme might be a bit different but of course Physical intimacy is included.....

But really, should I write stories ? Lol...Am curious.

What SAY YOU, People of Lit ???

I think you ought to try and write some stories. I never wrote anything for Lit prior to this year, and now I'm having a lot of fun with it. It won't hurt for you to give it a try. That's just my view.

 

[DreamMerchant7]

I think you ought to try and write some stories. I never wrote anything for Lit prior to this year, and now I'm having a lot of fun with it. It won't hurt for you to give it a try. That's just my view.

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Thanks for your feedback, LadyJS. The thing is, I have always wanted to write stories. Stories inspired by my deep desires and imagination.BUT had procrastinated for a long long time. The thing is I miss imagination. Perhaps a muse or writing partner, who could enjoy creating the story with me or even inspire me to go places.....

Not sure, if story writing is an approach to making connections here..! But am willing to try.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

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Thanks for your feedback, LadyJS. The thing is, I have always wanted to write stories. Stories inspired by my deep desires and imagination. BUT had procrastinated for a long long time. The thing is I miss imagination. Perhaps a muse or writing partner, who could enjoy creating the story with me or even inspire me to go places.....

Not sure, if story writing is an approach to making connections here..! But am willing to try.

It may or may not help in making a connection, but I don't think it'll hurt (unless you write something distasteful and offensive!). If anything, it will give people something else to consider about you.

 

[DreamMerchant7]

It may or may not help in making a connection, but I don't think it'll hurt (unless you write something distasteful and offensive!). If anything, it will give people something else to consider about you.

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Hmmm....I will work on this, Lady ! Perhaps it is time to scribble the more wild me and the world within ?? Lol.....This is new.

Pawan

 

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Hmmm....I will work on this, Lady ! Perhaps it is time to scribble the more wild me and the world within ?? Lol.....This is new.

Pawan

That sounds like a plan to me. I'm looking forward to what you come up with.

 

[DreamMerchant7]

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[DreamMerchant7]

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[DreamMerchant7]

Dear friends ( You know who you are ).

It has been an eventful journey since I started this thread. My search for meaning, connection, love, and oohs & ahhs....lol...have been blessed by both positives and sometimes a bit of sadness. The positives came from those who egged me on, always being an inspiration - & sometimes very Practical advice too. The sadness would come, when the couple of beautiful interactions we had ( In pm's ), would slowly trickle off or disappear - for REAL life called to them,Oh yes.....these souls always brought a flicker of flutter to my heart when they were there...

Perhaps that is why the tidbits of desire, romance and connection - the process of touching the heart and soul ....and even the physique of somebody abroad the 7 seas,by this virtual thread called the internet - Brings to me the promise of possibilities, as a new day beckons.

To love. To be Loved. To moan or to bemoaned. To be cherished. To simply be there,as a friend or a well meaning soul..................it is all worth it.

So Thankyou my dear friends - Threadsharers and feedbackers !!! Keeping this journey on.....

Pawan

 

[MMM_wms]

Dear friends ( You know who you are ).

It has been an eventful journey since I started this thread. My search for meaning, connection, love, and oohs & ahhs....lol...have been blessed by both positives and sometimes a bit of sadness. The positives came from those who egged me on, always being an inspiration - & sometimes very Practical advice too. The sadness would come, when the couple of beautiful interactions we had ( In pm's ), would slowly trickle off or disappear - for REAL life called to them,Oh yes.....these souls always brought a flicker of flutter to my heart when they were there...

Perhaps that is why the tidbits of desire, romance and connection - the process of touching the heart and soul ....and even the physique of somebody abroad the 7 seas,by this virtual thread called the internet - Brings to me the promise of possibilities, as a new day beckons.

To love. To be Loved. To moan or to bemoaned. To be cherished. To simply be there,as a friend or a well meaning soul..................it is all worth it.

So Thankyou my dear friends - Threadsharers and feedbackers !!! Keeping this journey on.....

Pawan

Dear Pawan, with this attitude of yours, you will have a long and happy life ahead of you. Good luck to you always!

 

[DreamMerchant7]

That sounds like a plan to me. I'm looking forward to what you come up with.

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I tried to be creative. Even explored lying in bed and fantasizing....and then writing. Seems, the inspiration does not come. It is DIFFERENT when you have a willing partner to even want to share ideas and fantasies with. Perhaps, I miss genuine love and caring. Without it, I suppose ,my sexual genes just don't react...lol.Just can't do it.Nah....I will choose to be me.

The right person, when it clicks would click. Being Human

Pawan

 

[DreamMerchant7]

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[DreamMerchant7]

A Gentle bump...

 

[DreamMerchant7]

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[DreamMerchant7]

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[DreamMerchant7]

Still bumping

 

[DreamMerchant7]

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[BBWSeekingSugarDaddy]

Bumping for a friend. I hope you are well!

 

[DreamMerchant7]

Bumping for a friend. I hope you are well!

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Awww....so sweet of you to have reached out. Yes, I am fine and doing well. How have you been ?

 

[Pnwviews]

This is very true. Life is filled with ups and downs and the person you share it with is a huge part of it. I lack a good partner in life and I regret that sorrowfully. I make the best of it by living in fantasy.

 

[Pnwviews]

This is an interesting question that really centers around expectations that we have for our relationships. From my experience, I don't think life can be a "perpetual" romance novel, mostly because romance novels focus on a the beginning part of a relationship. Nobody starts a romance novel with a couple that's been married 10 years, has kids and a mortgage, and then both people lose their jobs because of a pandemic. So, in that situation .. under tremendous stress .. that's where you find out how good "romance" is in selecting a life partner.

Also, the things that you might find attractive in someone during the beginning part of the relationship may not be compatible with the long terms demands of sustaining a relationship when assaulted by "life's events". Or at least I don't think romance novels address the every day stress that life puts on relationships. They are a fantasy, and while you can live part time in a fantasy (like when you are on a vacation), but reality is very different than fantasy.

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This is very true. Life is filled with ups and downs and the person you share it with is a huge part of it. I lack a good partner in life and I regret that sorrowfully. I make the best of it by living in fantasy.

 

[innocntplay]

This is very true. Life is filled with ups and downs and the person you share it with is a huge part of it. I lack a good partner in life and I regret that sorrowfully. I make the best of it by living in fantasy.

Sometimes I feel like I live in fantasy. But my relationship now is with someone who is stressed out and never really had that great a sex life. I know from my previous experience more is possible on both the mental, physical and combination there of.

It isn't going how I want it to at present time but it sure beats being alone.

This relationship was not born online. Past ones of mine have been started online and were fantastic. Our lives went in different directions or even different parts of the country.

Patiently trying to remain on common ground....

 

[DreamMerchant7]

Sometimes I feel like I live in fantasy. But my relationship now is with someone who is stressed out and never really had that great a sex life. I know from my previous experience more is possible on both the mental, physical and combination there of.

It isn't going how I want it to at present time but it sure beats being alone.

This relationship was not born online. Past ones of mine have been started online and were fantastic. Our lives went in different directions or even different parts of the country.

Patiently trying to remain on common ground....

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Appreciate you, sharing your experiences here. I wish the very best for you.

Pawan

 

[Buttercup49]

I realise you posted this some time ago, but your wholistic approach to friendship with all ages, spirituality, sensuality rang a bell in my 72 year old heart. I am very young in my approach to life, Reiki Master, retired from the law, reflexologist. As our brain is our biggest sexual organ, reading stories here have been a great help to me as my hubby has ED and refuses to do anything about it. So my frustrations are eased somewhat with fantasy
However many of the stories can be too harsh, when you are a newbie nervous about how to fixy problem. Advice always appreciated

 

[Buttercup49]

I realise you posted this some time ago, but your wholistic approach to friendship with all ages, spirituality, sensuality rang a bell in my 72 year old heart. I am very young in my approach to life, Reiki Master, retired from the law, reflexologist. As our brain is our biggest sexual organ, reading stories here have been a great help to me as my hubby has ED and refuses to do anything about it. So my frustrations are eased somewhat with fantasy
However many of the stories can be too harsh, when you are a newbie nervous about how to fixy problem. Advice always appreciated

 

[Hipshot1554]

We still have those same feelings and it's somehow viewed as not normal. I'm still the same person inside as I was at 30, just way more experienced.