My favorite thing about gay sex?

I believe I know what he wants, what a touch or a flick or a lick feels like to another guy because I am one. The mind flashing all the thoughts of the pleasure he's feeling is a great rush. Usually been in top and bottom situations so more emphasis on his pleasures which gives me mine.
 
For me

For me the best part of gay sex is the cock sucking as an older bi married man I been at it for awhile and think I'm pretty good at it.

Yes if I trust a guy enough to put his cock in my mouth I
Take his cum and swallow it , unless he wants me to snowball it back to him !
 
Just sex

No emotion involved, no commitment, no drama..just rimming, sucking and Fucking. I can nut, then leave maybe never see that person again. It was an easy hook up, we filled that need. Even if it’s a regular buddy, still no emotions. I’m not there to bake cookies together or watch Romance movies.
 
Tell us your favorite thing about having gay sex?

The best thing so far is sucking another man's cock to completion, then swallowing his load. Relatively speaking, I have been at it for a short time, (6 years) but intend to carry on for as long as I can find a cock that needs sucking. And pretty much like Klippert said. No drama, no muss, no fuss, just sex.
 
I agree with much of the above but would add the 100% guarantee that you won't get them pregnant, no matter how big your loads are or how many you deposit.

No emotion involved, no commitment, no drama..just rimming, sucking and Fucking. I can nut, then leave maybe never see that person again. It was an easy hook up, we filled that need. Even if it’s a regular buddy, still no emotions. I’m not there to bake cookies together or watch Romance movies.

Preach!

Except when the emotions do get involved.

As a hetero-romantic, bi-sexual, I'm very upfront that there will be no romantic connection. The minute I get any inkling of that sort of attachment, I break it off completely. Sex with a guy is just about a need to release; nothing more, nothing less.
 
I think theres a part of it for me where there are no strings sure.

The biggest thing was the desire and the understanding. With a guy who was willing to fuck it was never a problem with the eagerness? Or the willingness to do it? I don't know they just want to fuck really badly. Theres no games or pretending to like sucking dick or none of that shit. A girl might suck you off because it's what you do. She may get her kicks from being able to do it well. A guy is sucking you off because he fucking loves it and knows you do too. Then theres the part where they know just how a guy likes it because they are one. I've been with girls that thing just bobbing on a cock repeatedly is good enough. But a guy knows the tricks. Less mechanical more raw.

Not always the case but that's my experience. If I'm picking someone to suck my cock it's a guy. If I'm picking someone to fuck me in the ass it is not a girl with a strap on.
 
So many things. The fact that I turn him on is very flattering, and makes me feel appreciated as a sexy creature. I've been known to do a sexy striptease for a guy I wanted to arouse. And I'm very good at it, too.

Then there's the quality of the blow job. And when I suck him I enjoy the unique masculine smells and tastes. I still can't believe how good it feels to have a hard warm thick shaft as I suck it deep into my mouth, or he drives it into my ass.

I love to hold his tight hairy body. If I fuck him, his ass is small and tight. And if he fucks me I get to feel all his strength and passion directed into me. Again, the idea that I can arouse all that passion is very satisfying and flattering.

And of course he doesn't expect monogomy or promises. No complications. Just raw passion.
Finally there's the forbidden aspect to it. I 'shouldn't' be having sex with a man, and I hope no one else ever finds out. It's our secret. So I may as well let down all my inhibitions, and go all in. Because if I do get busted at least I will have enjoyed him as much as I could, making it worth while.

p.s. Maybe I should add that the best fuck I ever got was a smaller, thin fit older ( about 35) guy who I topped years ago. His ass was remarkably small and tight. I fucked him from behind for a while as he got loosened up, which was some fine, slow fucking. But as soon as I flipped him over and fucked him missionary we started kissing as we fucked. Both my hands went to his buns and I drove in hard, deep and fast. It felt specutacular, very tight. I was over the top and out of control with raw lust. I came in less than a minute, with the biggest orgasm I'd ever had in my life.
 
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Guess I am the outlier here. I don't want just the anonymous sex experience. I want us to be friends and like each other and be able to have a conversation and laugh about stuff together. It's not romantic, it's just guys enjoying being together with a great added dimension
 
I feel the nice thing about gay sex is you can both enjoy each others bodies and not worry about them stalking you after. We both enjoy it and walk away, we can meet again if we both want it.
 
My favorite thing about it is that he wants the same things that I do. And like Klippert says, no emotional strings attached.
 
Tell us your favorite thing about having gay sex?

I like the thrill of blowing men in a gay bathhouse. All those men are there for simple reasons, my reason is to arouse them as much as possible knowing what men really want when I make love to their cocks orally.

The different sizes, shapes, and colors of dicks - it's a turn on just seeing other guy's dicks whether they are soft, or hard.

The honesty is refreshing. They want a man to blow them and swallow their cum. That is exactly what I want and sometimes I beg for it, or sincerely look in his eyes and tell him I NEED his cum very badly. I do.

I like being watched sucking cock, swallowing cum, and the way I naturally moan with lust as giving gay pleasures is so hot, raw, genuine. A man can tell if you really love sucking dick, and he should feel like his dick is so special he is allowing you to please it.

Each time I savor, then swallow warm sperm, I prove to the man who just came in my mouth, and the others who saw and heard the obvious sounds of a blowjob, know I am a very eager, hungry faggot.

No one else in the world does. I could not blow someone I know.
 
I feel very much the same way. I love to arouse men, and I love being watched by several men as I suck one.
I love being able to look or stare at other naked men and their cocks without reservation or shame.
And when I'm sucking a guy I totaly lose myself in the lust and passion of the moment. I become a cock sucking slut, with no holding back. Even more so when I'm being fucked.
That's why I can't imagine sucking a guy I know, and all my gay sex has been either 'blow and go' or one night stands.
 
That's why I can't imagine sucking a guy I know, and all my gay sex has been either 'blow and go' or one night stands.

I can't imagine having sex with someone I knew in a non sexual way either. I've got together with those I've had sex with specifically for that purpose.
 
Making a man's penis swell with desire stretching my mouth wide open. Working my tongue mouth and lips so expertly his cock bucks with excitement. Making a large thick cock ejaculate copious amounts of semen down my throat as I struggle not to touch myself.
 
For me the best part of gay sex is the cock sucking as an older bi married man I been at it for awhile and think I'm pretty good at it.

Yes if I trust a guy enough to put his cock in my mouth I
Take his cum and swallow it , unless he wants me to snowball it back to him !


Mmmmmmm, I simply LOVE that too!!
 
hey...

the best thing that I enjoy about sex whether with a man (or woman) is those fleeting moments just before the point of return, when he (her) is getting ready to squeeze those muscles just o-n-c-e more before they explode and I HAVE ALL THE POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its up to me---,
will I LET them CUM or NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is one of the satisfying feeling I've EVER KNOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
No emotion involved, no commitment, no drama..just rimming, sucking and Fucking. I can nut, then leave maybe never see that person again. It was an easy hook up, we filled that need. Even if it’s a regular buddy, still no emotions. I’m not there to bake cookies together or watch Romance movies.

This, to a tee
 
I know I'm in the minority on this forum, but I have to be true to myself.

The best part of gay sex is when love and sex are combined. Though I have ED, I think of sex all the time. I don't need someone else, because for 18 years (this coming Labor Day), I have been with the most wonderful man I have ever known.

For the most part I am an introvert and observe others. My guy is truly amazing -- for instance, how big his heart is. The other day out of the blue he said if he can he wanted to take Sunday off and have us go down to see his parents for Father's Day. I had completely forgotten about Father's Day being this particular Sunday (yesterday) since I never had the privilege (and ability) of fathering children, and though we made our peace the last few years, I never had a good relationship with my own Dad. (He died in 2008.) My partner doesn't like to drive long trips, but he wanted to go. So we made the 150 mile trip. Neither one of his aged parents are in the best of health. (To put it in perspective, both of us are 61, so you can imagine how old his parents are.) His dad has been loosing weight, and when we were down there for Mother's Day, his dad told him to take care of his mom as he doesn't think he will be around for a long time.

Anyway, I had a lump in my throat for my partner for how big his heart was yesterday for spending time with his parents. I'll mention a couple other times out of many where I feel so damn lucky. Several years ago, he had to have 5 bypasses. (Sometimes I wish I could shake some sense in him to give up smoking which the doctors said was behind this, but then I have my flaws too -- such as eating way too much being diabetic -- much worse than his diabetes.) Anyway, his son drove all the way from Colorado to be with him in recovery. (He has two living children as he was married (long time divorced by the time I met him). He doesn't remember his time in recovery. I don't blame him as he looked a mess with all these tubes in him. When his son arrived, all he kept saying was my son, my son, and they held each others hands. There was no reason we couldn't have moved to Colorado to be near his son, wife, and their 3 kids. I wasn't the one who kept us hundreds a miles away. If we wanted to live in the country like we do now we could have done the same thing there before we committed to buying this farm here. However, they were so well bonded to each other, and he was afraid that being to close to his son would keep his son from being his own man. Thus to let his son thrive, we didn't move to that state... My guy once said that having children is like having something so precious that you would tear your own heart out if that is what it took to save their life. I never forget him saying that as it seemed such a powerful statement. (Note, I never had children, not because of my attractions, but because I'm so infertile. Back in my 20's, I had been so disillusioned with men that I wanted out. So I got myself checked out and found out I was so very infertile. I never got injured and I never had mumps. I guess it just wasn't in the cards.)

Now one last example of my guy's heart I'm sure I have shared this story before. Back in the fall of 2018, I got sick all of a sudden with what seemed like a horrible case of the flu , and my guy insisted I go to the ER. It was 30th of Aug, 2018. I didn't leave the hospital until 5 Oct. It turns out I had a bad case of West Nile. I don't recall a lot of it, as I became sedated. It took them a while to figure out what it was and then begin the treatment to regain my strength. While I was out of it, I was told that my heart went code blue. With my afib, my heart raced a couple of times so fast that they could count the heart beats... I was intubated for about 11 days. Had it been another day, they would have had to perform a tracheostomy. I'm glad they didn't because I don't know what effect that has on a singers voice...

Anyway, this isn't a sad story about ME as I was out of it the first few weeks which was the worst part of it. What this is about is how my guy dealt with this. Note, at the same time his mother had been diagnosed with cancer and was undergoing chemo which triggered a lot of lung and heart problems. My guy is about all I have in my life. My parents were both dead. My grandma who raised me was long gone. I do have two younger sisters (technically half sisters), but they live way out in the Portland area.

So what did he do? He dedicated his life to watching over me. He took time off from work. He took care of our farm animals as well as our pets, and spent every free amount of is waking time at my bed side. I remember when I finally came to, there he was bawling his eyes out at my side that i was finally coming back. This was my big, all man partner crying for me -- another guy. As much as I had always yearned for a man's love, I always felt a man's love was limited from my own experiences -- especially from my own dad. What I learned from that experience was that a man's heart is only limited by his own choices. My guy chose be willing to love another man, and so he did and did so VERY VERY well.

Anyway, it took a long time to get back to normal. I had weeks of physical therapy, etc. He was there the entire time. This also forced a bit of a coming out. While I never felt completely comfortable for others to know about that part of my life. (Realize that technically, a "roommate" doesn't have the legal right to make life/death decisions, or have complete access to someone in a hospital. My next of kin (my two sisters) live clear over in the west coast, and while we get along just fine, they really wouldn't be in a position to make such decisions for me.) So realize this wasn't an "in your face" accept us, this was an emergency. Something that neither one of us ever thought about. (Luckily, we signed papers so that we are each other's care takers.)

So now his whole family knows, my sisters know, and a few others. While I may still not understand why some feel the need to be completely open, it is disingenuous to criticize them when so many people insist on snooping. FYI Recently, I had to take care of the house where I grew up and needed my partner's help, so he came with me; the damn nosy neighbor came over and wanted to know if we were brothers. Thus keep in mind that those who don't broadcast about their same-sex loved ones, still get questioned about their personal relationships. I figure those that are completely out may simply do it because they are tired of lying in order not to offend someone. Perhaps one day I'll be completely tired of if myself.

As to the sex, there isn't a moment that goes by that I don't wish I was inside my guy. I wish I could cum inside him, and smell and lick my cum back out of him. I love how he can get hard just from me playing with his love hole. How his cock will start to drip for me to get more inside him. I miss hearing his manly voice telling me that his manhole is all and ONLY for me... But at last, my dick fails me, but his heart is so big, that he stays with me still. (I know some of you must think because I top, there must be something unmanly about him. Nothing could be further from the truth. He is all man. Neither one of us wishes to act effeminate. Note that having a big heart, loving another man, letting another man inside you does not make you any less of a man. It just makes you more human. I may top, but that does not make me superior. My "topness was always ever at his mercy and his choosing as I am not a rapist.)

To make up for it, I find myself needing to touch him so very often. I sleep next to him every night, and while at times I have to tussle with him as he kicks and twists the top sheet and blanket all over the place, I couldn't imagine sleeping without him there. When I find a part of his skin cold during the night, I try to place my body or hands there in order to warm him up. I love putting my soft cock near his beautiful hairy ass, my arms around his hairy pecs or belly, and I love to cup his big, naturally smooth balls, and I love his smell, and then fall asleep. This is a guy who can use the same towel for two weeks, and it doesn't have a foul or stale odor... Anyway, if someone said they could cure my ED, but it would mean leaving my partner, I just couldn't and wouldn't do it. He is like having an earthly angel to me.

For all the sensational wonders of cumming in a wonderful, beefy, all man's hairy behind, it doesn't beat having his heart next to mine. I'll take all the wonderful, sensual sex my old body can take, as long as it is with my better half, and him alone. Nothing can replace loving and being loved completely and unconditionally by another man. I have almost 18 years to stand by that fact, and I hope many more.

PS: Despite all the comments that m2m is great only because it is just sex -free of emotional connections, I know some of those reading such comments know that whether you crave a man's cock, his ass, his mouth or something else that there has got to be more. All these body parts are connected to a living, breathing, and yes FEELING man. If you want more in a man you CAN find it. It may take a long time, but there are men who have bigger hearts than cocks. If you find one, cherish him for whatever amount of time you have together.
 
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Except when the emotions do get involved. That can really complicate things. Great sex, but it starts to get tangled up. My story Alex and Me tells of that kind of situation. And every word of it is autobiographical. That experience has caused me to keep the emotions in my fiction. Since then. all my sex with another man has been purely about sex. And it has been a hell of a lot of fun. Especially when I'm with other married men who are wanting the same thing.

Then it’s not gay sex. Someone is over thinking it. If your there to nut. Don’t bring flowers…that was my favorite thing about gay sex. I didn’t have to worry about the after effects of not calling the next day. Blah, didn’t like clingy femme gays guys. You offered it took you up. NSA… burn it into your memory. I never understood emotions of it all. Empty your nut… Go have a beer with your buddies.
 
My Favorite Thing About Gay Sex?

- My most favorite thing is when my top and I are undressing in front of one another for the first time and wrapping my lips around a new cock for the first time. It's also just as exhilarating when I submissively position myself on my knees and ass up to be penetrated for the first time! ;-)
 
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