Threesomes+ have no place in my kink. Zero appeal. There might have been a time when I would have considered it, but that would have been out of a desire to please a Dominant partner rather than any personal desire.
I should wrap this answer up by saying I’ve participated in a FFM. Well, the use of the word participated might be a bit strong….
I might’ve sort’ve gotten bored and fallen asleep.
(I’ve mentioned this once or twice before on Lit, and let me just say admitting that publicly never feels less awkward. Eesh.)
Same with me.
Weird fact about me. I'm one of the only males in existence that's ever turned down a threesome. Lol
< brevity clip > I ultimately turn it down because a) literally the only reason to do it was to say that I did it, b) I wasn't that into either girl, and c) one of my other friends also had a party going on, and I ended up going to that one. There were girls there, but I didn't get laid. Lol
). If your experience holds true to mine, I'm thinking your pushy friend might've been pissed? Is like some universal thing - turn down and threesome and people get pissed!
I'm in my early 20s and I have a friend who really wants me to go to her New Year's Eve party. I like her, she's cool, but she's weirdly pushy for me to go. Which, as someone who's always been put off by pushiness, is a good way to guarantee that I wasn't going.
But she decides to sweeten the pot, with an offer. "If you come to my party, me and my friend will both fuck you."
Naturally I perk up. I say "Yes, I'm listening."
I investigate further. The offer was legit and the girl was real, and has done this kind of thing with my friend before.
I ultimately turn it down because a) literally the only reason to do it was to say that I did it, b) I wasn't that into either girl, and c) one of my other friends also had a party going on, and I ended up going to that one. There were girls there, but I didn't get laid. Lol
I am curious. If you had that same offer now, would you accept?
Haha well...I will say that I'm much more open-minded now that I'm older and a lot more experienced. But I think it would still be situational.
Haha well...I will say that I'm much more open-minded now that I'm older and a lot more experienced. But I think it would still be situational.
Ah. The elusive unicorn.
Yeah, even if I was less hetero I would absolutely, positively, still have to be primary. Men I have to compete for hold zero interest.
Yeah. I'm a wierdo.
This is why I think threesomes are best shared by friends, not people who are in love. I have (unfortunately) no experience with a threesome, but I’ve spent every waking moment of my life thinking about them, running scenarios, bobbing and weaving, shoulder rolls, finger and tongue exercises, you know, just in case.
But, what I am pretty sure of is, it would have to be a fun thing I did with people I liked and was attracted to, but not in love with. Love would change everything dramatically. I’m not mature enough to handle that kind of emotional confusion.
Aww. That's cute.
I'd have a threesome with you. I also have never had one and I think I'd be a bit lost, honestly, but with friends who are just easy to be with I'm sure it'd be something to figure out.
I just went in to fantasy overload.
Before you get too excited you should know I'm pandemic hairy and my knees are broken. You've got to factor those facts into your fantasy fodder
Oh, and I shaved my head. There's that.
(that deserves two purple unhappy faces)
This is why I think threesomes are best shared by friends, not people who are in love. I have (unfortunately) no experience with a threesome, but I’ve spent every waking moment of my life thinking about them, running scenarios, bobbing and weaving, shoulder rolls, finger and tongue exercises, you know, just in case.
But, what I am pretty sure of is, it would have to be a fun thing I did with people I liked and was attracted to, but not in love with. Love would change everything dramatically. I’m not mature enough to handle that kind of emotional confusion.
