Couple’s Question

[Darkenz]

What is the difference in the level of sexuality between you and your partner. Things like more adventurous, experimental, open minded, less cushions.

 

[FGB]

Well.

She has been in the Lifestyle before and I have not.

Add Tequila and she is fucking Crackers!

I am a little more reserved drunk or sober.

 

[PMarky]

What is the difference in the level of sexuality between you and your partner. Things like more adventurous, experimental, open minded, less cushions.

We used to be very compatible. I am usually horny, and somewhat adventurous. The Missus had a healthy sexual appetite, pretty vanilla, but there was plenty of it, and occasionally she'd let me get creative. I was happy, she was happy, the bed springs weren't.

Since the auto-immune stuff started things physically do not work the way they are supposed to. She wants sex, but it is too damned uncomfortable, so we're both fucked, and not in a good way.

In the absence of my missus' health improving, a discrete and understanding FWB would be a wonderful thing. I missing hearing a woman orgasm.

 

[DirtyOldMan64]

Non existent
I'm still very interested in sex but she lost her drive several years ago.

Which explains why I'm looking a.FWB situation as I have no intention of changing my marital situation.

 

[Asian_Flower]

I would say we are very compatible

 

[JRandSB]

No difference for us, we’re very compatible

 

[KinoKe]

When first we met, I had already been around the block once. But she quickly caught up. Her only reservation is 'going off piste'. She tried it once, but didn't really enjoy it. But that's OK.

 

[screwher]

Seeing as my wife and I are a hotwife couple, compatibility is imperative. If we went then our marriage would never have gotten this far.

As for the sex between us, we seem to have the same sex drives. After three decades our sex life is still healthy and active.

 

[Dutchslut39]

We are both very happy with our swingers lifestyle so we are very compatible when it comes to sexualitity , fantasies ,expectations .

Good and open communication is the key.

 

[GuySLut]

My wife and I are very much the same with our sexual desires. I’m very thankful we met and encourage each other. And like others have mentioned we talk about everything

 

[ChefMario77]

Married almost 19 years.

I have the sex drive of a 15 year old boy.

My wife's sex drive is essentially non-existent.

Been like this since day 1. We've talked about it, we've discussed it, we've argued about it. She thinks anyone who wants sex more than 1x a month is sick and perverted.

Fortunately, my adult daughter is very helpful and it seems I now have a new gf as well...

 

[naughtymind]

We are pretty equal, but not necessarily in all the same ways. We both like a bit of kink here and there, both are extremely passionate, both are pretty open minded and adventurous, etc. We do both have certain turn ons that are more specific to just one or the other, but we both also enjoy indulging those things for each other; typically as a part of general lovemaking, and not the sole focus.

I hope that continues for another decade or three!

 

[Dashabout]

What is the difference in the level of sexuality between you and your partner. Things like more adventurous, experimental, open minded, less cushions.

We've been married for long time and we're both adventurous and open minded, which was pretty evident from the night we met and fell in lust. Though I do believe I am just a hair more adventurous than him, but he is very open and willing to be a partner.

 

[Islander55]

We have been married for 38 years and while we have always gotten along well, I think we wasted a lot of good sex time. I think we can share the blame equally but finally we did have some good and serious conversations. We find we are both pretty much perverts but his tends more to the voyeur aspects while I simply enjoy good sex. I think I might be a bit more adventurous but that may be because he likes for me to take the lead. He seems happy with anything I want to do and prefers not to push me. He is a few years older with a few health issues so has slowed some physically. While the joints like to remind me I am 63, all the important parts seem to work as well as ever. I do expect that experience and knowledge are a help too.

 

[Darkenz]

I find my wife and I are quite far off, she like sex but is more vanilla and not very adventurous. If I was to rate us i would say I a 7.5 out of 10 with her being 3.5 to 4 range. The good news is that is up from a 2. Doing my best to keep her number climbing

 

[Cubantripod]

Married almost 19 years.

I have the sex drive of a 15 year old boy.

My wife's sex drive is essentially non-existent.

Been like this since day 1. We've talked about it, we've discussed it, we've argued about it. She thinks anyone who wants sex more than 1x a month is sick and perverted.

Fortunately, my adult daughter is very helpful and it seems I now have a new gf as well...

You didn't know this before you got married? No way, I could survive that.

 

[ChefMario77]

You didn't know this before you got married? No way, I could survive that.

She was a virgin. I was her first date, kiss, everything.

I made it abundantly clear that I had a hyperactive sex drive when we first got together. She said she didn't think it would be a problem.

She was wrong.

 

[ukcouple4play]

My wife and I are incredibly compatible physically. Ever since the first time we shared a bed, something just fits between us - we are immensely attracted to each other and sex is always passionate, intense and fulfilling. That's enough for her - pretty regular, loving but essentially vanilla sex. I need more, sex for me is as much about the build-up, the fantasy as the act itself. I like to talk about sex a lot, she's never been able to get over feeling awkward about it. In our earlier days we were better at meeting half way but it has drifted over time. We still have good sex but the 'naughty' nights are fewer and fewer, I feel less comfortable talking about my fantasies with her as I feel she would rather I didn't, and so I spend more and more time looking for fulfillment online.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

What is the difference in the level of sexuality between you and your partner. Things like more adventurous, experimental, open minded, less cushions.

Up until very recently, we were on different sexual and emotional planets lol. A lot has changed in our relationship recently, and this is something we've started opening up about and is now important to both of us. Sex was never that important to him in the past, but that has changed. He knows I'm bi now and is aware of some of the kinks and fetishes I have, and I know a few of his kinks that he never told me about before. I'm honestly shocked that he is kinky at all!

 

[Wishingbox]

I’d say I’m a 7.5 on the love having sex and exploring new things and kinks and she’s a 2.5 maybe 3. A majority of the time it’s fine once I warm her up but it often gets old and can feel like a chore for her.

 

[Bigaug]

I am open about being kinky and willing to do anything. She pretends to be conservative but after a few drinks she willing to do almost anything.

 

[GuySLut]

My wife is at the office today and has a date at lunch with her fuck buddy.
I’m off today and will be having fun with a friend of ours who told us she needs her “pussy used and filled”

 

[Bigspurt]

My wife is at the office today and has a date at lunch with her fuck buddy.
I’m off today and will be having fun with a friend of ours who told us she needs her “pussy used and filled”

Lucky you!

 

[StrongMaster7]

What a dream

Oh, to be compatible sexually.

It's a special kind of hell to be in love with, married to, committed to a wonderful person who wants a fraction of the sex life you want.

I'd like some contact every day, every other day at a minimum.
She is more than happy with 11 minutes once a week. And if we skip a week, no big whoop.

I'd like to explore everything a man and woman can do together that isn't harmful to either one or anyone else.
She's happy with two positions and oral sex is becoming a distant memory.

I jerk off to video of other wives blowing their husbands. I haven't gotten a bj to completion in twenty years.

She thinks I am a sex maniac, sex addict, whatever. And she doesn't think she has a problem because she gets all the sex she wants and I have given up trying to romance, cajole, pay for, trade favors for, or otherwise get her to be more open.

And that's why I'm here.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We are about the same. We are very compatible. It helps the we actually like each other.