Ask that one question....

[Dutchslut39]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

 

[oneblueye]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

I have had a VERY jaded outlook at most things sexual since I was like 11, so to me,
I couldn't tell the difference between how the girls treated me when I was paying for it as opposed to the couple girls who 'supposedly' loved me and were willing to fuck me with one exception.
She was engaged to a guy, who was a one time, was a very close friend until I found out that he and my crazy hillbilly girl, were steadily drinking and fucking when I was in jail for a few months. When presented with the opportunity to get it with his girl I took it and I told her why I wanted fuck her. She agreed to it and took her on a ride that almost had me proposing to her. But not since then--, paid or unpaid has another girl fucked me like she did that night.

The question I get to ask, I will reserve for the moment...


For my question that I get to ask,
Sight unseen is there a dollar amount that could get you to agree to let me eat your pussy?

 

[Kitschshaman]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

For me, the answer to that question is clear. If I get the impression the girl isn't into what she's doing, isn't actively, positively enthusiastic about it, the feeling just is not the same for me. For me, that is key, for sex is about communication, about acceptance for who and what you are, it's about intimacy in its deepest level. It's a situation where you are physically and emotionally at your most vulnerable. I've never paid for sex and that's why. It's not because of any social norms or religious convictions, it's because for me sex is about being at one with another person. Paying for it? No. Just no.

thanks for asking that question, it's a good one.

 

[Dendeze]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

For me personally...paid sex doesn't work.
It doesn't turn me on. Hence, I have never paid for sex.
The thing that turns me on is knowing she is turned on and actually enjoying what is happening.

 

[ericrodman101]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

Paying for sex (with guys in my case) is fine. And it's been a godsend during COVID. I am not a keeper so I guess I don't usually get emotionally involved. Paying for sex means I am getting what I want from someone who knows what they're doing in safe and comfortable surrounds, and I can walk away if I want to. Or pay again another time if I feel like it. And given what or who I like sexually it's becoming a little easier to get it in a commercial context than on the dating scene.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I think we all have that one ( ore two, three...) question(s) we would like to ask....

Here is one for the guys :

If you pay for sex...... does it still feel the same ? Knowing the girl is "performing", "working", not really loving you, acting.



If you answer you get to ask a question.

(hopefully this thread does not become a mess where everybody is talking through each other... )

Limited experience but I have had a lover who I paid who was quite amazing, the sex was unbelievable though most were just quickies, watching the time. But even with the amazing sex - there was no cuddling afterwards, no kissing, and it was just when it fit into our schedules. So, ultimately, no it doesn't feel the same...

My questions, speaking of "performing" - what percentage of times you have sex do you fake an orgasm? When you fake is it just to make him feel ok? to get it over? or why?

 

[gary04]

I have never paid for sex even when i was in the military never paid for it.

 

[wildflower_x]

Limited experience but I have had a lover who I paid who was quite amazing, the sex was unbelievable though most were just quickies, watching the time. But even with the amazing sex - there was no cuddling afterwards, no kissing, and it was just when it fit into our schedules. So, ultimately, no it doesn't feel the same...

My questions, speaking of "performing" - what percentage of times you have sex do you fake an orgasm? When you fake is it just to make him feel ok? to get it over? or why?

I have faked orgasms before but that is because I find that for me, the more nights in a row we have sex the harder it is for me to have a vagy orgasm. So I did it just to make him feel he did his job. Was that bad?

How many consecutive nights in a how have you had sex?

 

[Dendeze]

I have faked orgasms before but that is because I find that for me, the more nights in a row we have sex the harder it is for me to have a vagy orgasm. So I did it just to make him feel he did his job. Was that bad?

How many consecutive nights in a how have you had sex?

I have been with girls who faked it, some of em wouldn't even admit it even though it was obvious.
The one I have now just loves it when I cum in her as deep as I can...she not faking

 

[Dom70]

For me...I WANT her to WANT to be there WITH me and not as a job. I want her tingling and quivering at the thought of us being together.

 

[Lady2020]

How many men are willing to admit they pay for sex?

At one time I thought about working at a sex club. I was desperate. I realized it would be like Mary Tyler Moore trying out. I actually interviewed at a club. The manager didn't take me seriously.

 

[wildflower_x]

How many men are willing to admit they pay for sex?

At one time I thought about working at a sex club. I was desperate. I realized it would be like Mary Tyler Moore trying out. I actually interviewed at a club. The manager didn't take me seriously.

It's actually very lucrative if you get into the right outfit. And a sex club is NOT the way to go. Hint: always aim to work for rich guys. They won't nickle and dime you. This is what a friend tells me.

 

[ComatoastTX]

I have never paid for sex. Not saying I'm opposed to the idea though.

How many of you have a sexual fantasy that you wouldn't tell your SO about? Why wouldn't you tell them? Are you afraid of what they might think? Would you want them to tell you their most secret fantasy even if it might throw you off somewhat?

 

[Dutchslut39]

I have faked orgasms before but that is because I find that for me, the more nights in a row we have sex the harder it is for me to have a vagy orgasm. So I did it just to make him feel he did his job. Was that bad?

How many consecutive nights in a how have you had sex?

Five.


If you could be the opposite sex for a day (or a week) , what would you do?

 

[ComatoastTX]

If you could be the opposite sex for a day (or a week) , what would you do?

I would be touching my self and probably finding all kinds of things around the house to fuck myself with. Then I might go out and discretely flash my pussy to unsuspecting males.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Limited experience but I have had a lover who I paid who was quite amazing, the sex was unbelievable though most were just quickies, watching the time. But even with the amazing sex - there was no cuddling afterwards, no kissing, and it was just when it fit into our schedules. So, ultimately, no it doesn't feel the same...

My questions, speaking of "performing" - what percentage of times you have sex do you fake an orgasm? When you fake is it just to make him feel ok? to get it over? or why?

DAMN!, the first paragraph of yours sounds like you're describing sex with my wife in the Present day, maybe you are that 'odd man out' out of this situation that I have been looking for? Where were you in '85'?

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I have faked orgasms before but that is because I find that for me, the more nights in a row we have sex the harder it is for me to have a vagy orgasm. So I did it just to make him feel he did his job. Was that bad?

How many consecutive nights in a how have you had sex?

When my girlfriend (who is now my wife) decided it was time for her to get pregnant, We started, in early April 78' and for three weeks twice a day. Once before school and once or twice after school. I think it was right around that time, we had sex more than once a fucking week.

 

[Dendeze]

Five.


If you could be the opposite sex for a day (or a week) , what would you do?

Buy some really daring outfits, and tease a lot of men.
Go out without underwear on.
Go to a swingers club.
Try to arrange for a ffm threesome, maybe also a fmm threesome.

 

[TechWizard1958]

I am 53 and thick in the wrong places. So twenty somethings are not lining up to fuck me. I met a girl who was 21-22. Nice and pretty. And for a reasonable gift she will suck me off from time to time. Very enjoyable. Not least bit ashamed for doing it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Neve paid for sex from a sex worker. Have taken women to fancy dinners and bars where I paid and was hoping for sex. Then I bought one of them a diamond ring.

Funny thing as a guy I have faked orgasms. Actually often. I can’t cum wearing a condom. I just can’t and never used it as a excuse, I never told them and except for once or twice I was never found out. Who checks the condom.

If I was a girl for a day I’d put on the Divinyls and touch myself.

 

[wildflower_x]

Five.


If you could be the opposite sex for a day (or a week) , what would you do?

Drink a gallon of water, see if I can spell my name in pee.

Have you ever been split roasted?

 

[Dutchslut39]

Drink a gallon of water, see if I can spell my name in pee.

Have you ever been split roasted?

I had to look that one up.... didn't know the expression, in Dutch there is no word for that.... but yes....many times.

 

[Dendeze]

Drink a gallon of water, see if I can spell my name in pee.

 

[Blase]

I had to look that one up.... didn't know the expression, in Dutch there is no word for that.... but yes....many times.

Well, she actually meant "spit-roasted". I put the English word skewer into a translation program which translated it into Dutch as spies.

 

[FGB]

We all pay indirectly, one way or another.

Never bought it with straight cash money...

I have a Lady friend that told me if she ever found out that I paid cash for sex that she would put her foot so far up my ass that I could clip my toe nails through my nose.

I hope that was her way of telling me that pussy was available whenever I wanted it.