Newly divorced older man

[1hardguy]

Newly divorced older man, ready to burst

Hi,

I'm a 59 year old fit white man on the East coast of the US, newly divorced. I'm not quite back out there yet but I am soooo horny much of the time. (It's been about a year since I've had real sex due to the separation - yikes!)

I'd like to find a sexy fun woman for occasional teasing by email or google hangouts....

I do enjoy voice chat or even camming in the rare times when I'm able but not a requirement.

Please introduce yourself! I'm not really big on role playing but would love to make your acquaintance, even if you're shy. My online availability varies due to work but that's probably the case for most of us.

Steve

1singleman2021@gmail.com

 

[1hardguy]

Happy Friday ladies!

Who is feeling sexy today?

 

[1hardguy]

getting it up....

my post, of course

1singleman2021@gmail.com

 

[TARDISCapricorn]

I know I’m not the response you were wanting, but I just thought I’d chime into the thread because you sound like a decent, articulate fellow (much like myself) and I can’t understand why no females have responded. I’m 57 and will likely be in your shoes sooner than later and I don’t understand what it is women are looking for in a man these days? Those of us who are intelligent and well-spoken (written, since it’s here) seem to be the ones that the fairer sex have little or no interest in. Perhaps if we wrote about how we’d just like to find a bitch we can talk dirty with all the time and let ‘em know we just rubbed one out talking to them, we’d be more appealing? Who knows…

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I know I’m not the response you were wanting, but I just thought I’d chime into the thread because you sound like a decent, articulate fellow (much like myself) and I can’t understand why no females have responded. I’m 57 and will likely be in your shoes sooner than later and I don’t understand what it is women are looking for in a man these days? Those of us who are intelligent and well-spoken (written, since it’s here) seem to be the ones that the fairer sex have little or no interest in. Perhaps if we wrote about how we’d just like to find a bitch we can talk dirty with all the time and let ‘em know we just rubbed one out talking to them, we’d be more appealing? Who knows…

I can only speak for myself, but I don't as a general rule PM guys through their personals. I prefer to get to know a guy through his posts and interacting with him within various threads. Then if we build up a rapport, then I might talk with him privately to get to know him better.

The only exceptions I've made are with the "send me a PM" threads, but I've scaled back on that only due to the lack of response I get, so it's not worth the effort versus return on investment.

I do wish the OP luck. Some people do strike gold in the personals and he may be the next one to do so. But he also has to know the odds he's dealing with and to keep things within a realistic perspective.

 

[honeybee_sweet]

I’m not available but giving a bump. I met someone amazing by responding to a personal & i wish you luck!

 

[1hardguy]

Thank you all for the feedback

I appreciate the kind and encouraging words in response to my posts.

I must say that I have received a couple of interesting and possibly exciting responses by email directly, which was my overall intent. (Not to say that I'm still not available...)

I am at an unexpected point in my life these days, and frankly, wasn't sure what I was hoping to get in response. Or even what I want in the first place. Lit seems to be a safe place to explore my sexuality and start to "get back in the game", even if in a virtual sense as a prelude to the real world.

As noted, I do value the feedback and look forward to meeting you ladies, along with possibly discussing this approach to finding a connection as well.

 

[1hardguy]

moving on up

 

[1hardguy]

yikes my post fell off the first page!

 

[KimGordon67]

I know I’m not the response you were wanting, but I just thought I’d chime into the thread because you sound like a decent, articulate fellow (much like myself) and I can’t understand why no females have responded. I’m 57 and will likely be in your shoes sooner than later and I don’t understand what it is women are looking for in a man these days? Those of us who are intelligent and well-spoken (written, since it’s here) seem to be the ones that the fairer sex have little or no interest in. Perhaps if we wrote about how we’d just like to find a bitch we can talk dirty with all the time and let ‘em know we just rubbed one out talking to them, we’d be more appealing? Who knows…

While the OP is well written, it's not particularly informative. I wouldn't respond to this because there's literally no information in there to help me assess whether we'd get on or not. What 'women' (as a massively over-generalised category) are looking for in a man is compatibility. I doubt that's changed much since forever. And it's probably the same for men.

 

[1hardguy]

thank you for your thoughts Kim

 

[1hardguy]

soon to have 1000 views on this

 

[1hardguy]

1 more view to 1000

 

[1hardguy]

bump

bumping to meet a new friend!

 

[PacerLJ35]

Too bad you didn’t live closer bc my wife has cum hard to me telling her a fantasy of letting a divorced friend cum in her...

 

[1hardguy]

I can travel!

Thinking about pleasing your wife sounds like a win-win-win to me.

 

[1hardguy]

Hello Ladies!

 

[1hardguy]

good morning Lit friends!

 

[bbwAlexa]

I think this is a bit of a crass statement. I think most women want a kind nice intelligent guy. But with a great sex life.

Something I reiterate adnauseum to all the men in my life from hubby/dad/coworkers/son.....BE SPECIFIC!

So, are you looking for tall, short, old, young? Loves anal? Hates missionary? Likes talking about books? Hates sports? List qualities that interest you in a person.

I know I’m not the response you were wanting, but I just thought I’d chime into the thread because you sound like a decent, articulate fellow (much like myself) and I can’t understand why no females have responded. I’m 57 and will likely be in your shoes sooner than later and I don’t understand what it is women are looking for in a man these days? Those of us who are intelligent and well-spoken (written, since it’s here) seem to be the ones that the fairer sex have little or no interest in. Perhaps if we wrote about how we’d just like to find a bitch we can talk dirty with all the time and let ‘em know we just rubbed one out talking to them, we’d be more appealing? Who knows…

 

[1hardguy]

These are both worthy comments. I do think that it is hard to put into words the nuances of attraction. We've all met people (online or in real life) who seem like they should be ideal for us and yet there is no spark. As well, there are those who don't seem ideal on the surface but the connection is real.

A specific characteristic might be attractive in one person and not another....

 

[0rgasm4u]

interesting thread

 

[0rgasm4u]

Wondering, as a Lit newbie, did you ever connect with anyone?

 

[ericalauren]

I know I’m not the response you were wanting, but I just thought I’d chime into the thread because you sound like a decent, articulate fellow (much like myself) and I can’t understand why no females have responded. I’m 57 and will likely be in your shoes sooner than later and I don’t understand what it is women are looking for in a man these days? Those of us who are intelligent and well-spoken (written, since it’s here) seem to be the ones that the fairer sex have little or no interest in. Perhaps if we wrote about how we’d just like to find a bitch we can talk dirty with all the time and let ‘em know we just rubbed one out talking to them, we’d be more appealing? Who knows…

It sounds like you’re saying “females” owe OP their attention, affection, etc. That’s gross.

 

[1hardguy]

Sounds like he was just venting a bit.... nothing personal as I read the post, but we probably would disagree on that.

 

[1hardguy]

good morning folks!