You have to decide. A: become my slave B: report me to the police

[Thalius]

Hello,

just read a bdsm story that also had many NC moments.

What I read there, and I can imagine well in many stories is: Dom sends Sub home, with an envelope. In it are photos/videos of what he did with her. In addition a letter: You have to decide. A: You come to Y tomorrow at X o'clock; B: You use the material to cause me problems or C: You decide that this was a one-time evening.

Question, what happened the night before? How does our sub decide? What is the next step?

 

[bettiezyx]

How much respect is there in the relationship? From various bdsm stories I've come across, it seems like the healthiest ones have the dom focused on the sub's mental dynamics for reaching "subspace". So, what materials are there depends on the sub. If new to everything, then just the accepting-that-they-like-the-loss-of-control may be enough.

 

[KindredFlame]

Intresting

Hello,

just read a bdsm story that also had many NC moments.

What I read there, and I can imagine well in many stories is: Dom sends Sub home, with an envelope. In it are photos/videos of what he did with her. In addition a letter: You have to decide. A: You come to Y tomorrow at X o'clock; B: You use the material to cause me problems or C: You decide that this was a one-time evening.

Question, what happened the night before? How does our sub decide? What is the next step?

I think the story should start the night before. Other than the photos what hold has he got over the sub, is the female sub married? Is the Dom married. If there is nothing then the story doesn’t work. But that’s just my opinion.
But I do like the idea.

 

[Thalius]

The story I was referring to was Enslaving Ev

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=811626&page=submissions

How much respect is there in the relationship? From various bdsm stories I've come across, it seems like the healthiest ones have the dom focused on the sub's mental dynamics for reaching "subspace". So, what materials are there depends on the sub. If new to everything, then just the accepting-that-like-the-loss-of-control may be enough.

Probably you are right, for a healthy BDSM relationship which can also work in real life. And the one above is less so in my opinion. Reason why I just liked the scene is that just harder fantasies, here always very quickly NC. Or blackmail, physical violence or whatever. For me, something like that is a downer. The sub has at the end then the inspiration that the whole thing was quite nice only so that the story can be published here.

And here the Dom after the first session (chapters 4 and 5) gives control to his sub. He gives her the opportunity to give the control back to him or him for the NonCon actions if not behind bars, but at least before the judge.

p.s.

...Other than the photos what hold has he got over the sub....
But I do like the idea.

Nothing. He has nothing with which to exert power over her, except her own lust. The photos are evidence so she can take him to court if he overdoes it.

 

[Hypoxia]

I can't see these players in an existing dom-sub relationship. Rather, asshole guy blackmails the indiscreet married gal he picked up drunk at a bar, with pics of their liaison that he threatens to forward to everyone in her phone's address book (he copied it to his laptop while she was passed-out) unless she agrees to sex slavery, which of course provides more pics as blackmail material she can never escape from.

For turnaround, she finds which (metaphorical) buttons to push to gain control over him. She soon flushes his blackmail material but keeps stuff that would mortify HIM, strengthening her (metaphorical) grip. Who's the puppet now?

For fun, she forces him (a corporate executive) to hire her as his PA for a fat salary. Does she buggy-whip him when his office door is locked? For more fun, she makes asshole hire her weak hubby too. Maybe, in the secure office, she dons a strap-on so she and hubby can spit-roast the asshole boss. Hilarity ensues.

 

[bettiezyx]

Yeah, the enslaving Eve series doesn't set sub-supportive boundaries. A better story is like this one:
https://scifieroticareviews.wordpress.com/2015/01/24/natural-law/

Although, if this went the enslaving eve direction, I wouldn't complain:
https://politics.theonion.com/naked-tied-up-paul-ryan-tells-staff-he-can-t-prepare-f-1819574023