What is the biggest turn on and turn off in a partner?

AmberLGreen

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I think it is interesting what are turn ons and turn offs for different.

For me, the biggest turn off is dirty fingernails and the biggest turn on is spontaneity. What about you?
 
turn on: being totally subservient to my every whim and having a whole lot of zeros after the first five numbers of their bank balance.
 
turn on - being dominant
turn off - being submissive

heh

for reals though, its all related to hygiene

bad hygiene is a turn off
good hygiene is a turn on

but not really joking about the first things, tbh
 
Turn on: Attentiveness, blend of street and book smarts, good conversation beyond sex talk, good with the hands

Turn off: laziness, not following through on things, rightwing extremist
 
turn on - being dominant
turn off - being submissive

heh

for reals though, its all related to hygiene

bad hygiene is a turn off
good hygiene is a turn on

but not really joking about the first things, tbh

Agree to all of the above.
 
On = saying yes because she wants to say yes.

Off = any sign of a bad attitude.
 
Turn ons: fit, happy, driven ladies
Turn offs: obesity, sour attitudes and snowflakes
 
I think it is interesting what are turn ons and turn offs for different.

For me, the biggest turn off is dirty fingernails and the biggest turn on is spontaneity. What about you?

Dirty fingernails? :D

What about people who work on engines and things like that? Or garden?
 
Turn-ons: Brains, Passion, Kindness, Wit, Sense of humor, Geekiness, knot tying skills...
Turn-offs: Apathy, Laziness, Mansplaining
 
Immediate first meeting stuff:
turn off - thinking they know everything
turn on - genuine smiles and laughs

Sex stuff:
turn off - being overly focused on them cumming
turn on - eye contact

Basically, if you make me laugh and actually look at me while we're fucking, I'm all yours.
 
Turn ons: Girls that look like Lynn, hot athletic women, short skirts, red hair.

Turn offs: Any women in personal ads, escort ads, etc. that use the word "Daddy" in their profile.

That is a HUGE turn off for me. Now, I don't want to kink shame anyone if that is their thing, and I don't want to judge anyone; there are probably a lot of things I'm into that are big turn-offs for other people. But the thing is, I'm looking for a romantic/sexual partner- not a surrogate daughter. The whole "Daddy" thing just seems creepy and kinda gross to me. But that's just me.
 
Turn on: watching her use her vibrator.

Turn off: just watching her use her vibrator.
 
Fun and Vivacious

Absolute Turn On ......A Sense of Adventure

Definite Turn Off .....Deceit
 
Turn on: do you have a vagina? An ass? A mouth? Are you breathing or at least still warm?

Turn offs: tattoos, piercings other than ears, too much makeup, too much perfume, ugly, fat, too skinny, don't give head, your husband is a cop and/or drug dealer, used to be a man (the caveat being that a hot dude is acceptable as long as he's a dude and not a chick who used to be. don't ask me why, I don't know, it's just how I roll), you hang out on porn site message boards, you are active on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/whatever.

There's like a shit ton more. I'm picky. Yet I get laid a lot, it's weird. Like even I know I shouldn't but they throw the pussy at me for some reason. I can fuck a married bitch just about any time I go out if I want to. They flock towards me. Not bragging cuz I am most decidedly not all that, just how it is.
 
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