How are you masturbating?

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Masturbation is a popular topic for many of us here. This is your chance to go into details. Kinky hard core videos or a glass of wine in the bath tub. Hand, fingers, fleshlight or vibe go ahead and share so you can inspire others.

Currently I am finding inspiration on some of the soft core pic threads here sipping morning coffee and doing a bit of playing through my sleeping shorts.
 
Looking forward to seeing all the different ways we all spend our days getting off!
I am off work tomorrow and plan on doing it all day, I would love to get some new
exciting ideas. I’m a basic kinda guy, but want to spice it up. Maybe ideas for secret
public ways?
 
Looking forward to seeing all the different ways we all spend our days getting off!
I am off work tomorrow and plan on doing it all day, I would love to get some new
exciting ideas. I’m a basic kinda guy, but want to spice it up. Maybe ideas for secret
public ways?

Well with warm spring weather outdoor venues can be more inviting.
 
This is such a great question! I think we all have our rituals for our solo action and, depending on time/horniness/mood will set the stage accordingly. It's one of my favorite conversations with past lovers as to how, when and where they spent there most intimate masturbation moments. It took some longer than others to truly come clean about the ways they enjoyed themselves and it was often rooted in how they first discovered "their" orgasm. Technique, tools and internal monologue might vary over time but it seems that the basics always seems to work and if it ain't broke....
 
This is a great thread and I'm looking forward to hearing some ideas. Especially those in a outdoor public or semi public venue.
My girlfriend and I have recently had an intense mutual masturbation session in my car late at night at a interstate rest area. She enthusiastically wants to do that again.
 
This is a great thread and I'm looking forward to hearing some ideas. Especially those in a outdoor public or semi public venue.
My girlfriend and I have recently had an intense mutual masturbation session in my car late at night at a interstate rest area. She enthusiastically wants to do that again.

The car can be a great venue...solo or with a friend.
 
For me, it's more about what kind of mood I'm in. If I'm feeling soft and sexy, I like to lay under my waterfall shower and kind of concentrate on all the places the warm water is hitting my body. I usually don't even have to touch myself like this, just spread my legs up the wall and let the water take care of it. It's nice because the shower head is huge and reflective and I like to look up and watch myself in it and pretend it's a stranger watching me.

If I'm feeling a little bit risky, I will lay on my bed with my windows open to the busy street outside and hump a couple pillows. Nobody can really tell what's going on, but I like to pretend they can see me and know what's happening. Once, I got really into it and sat up like I was riding a cock, bouncing up and down, grinding the pillows and I'm sure anybody passing by knew what was happening then. It was one of the biggest turn ons of my life to be on full display for everybody, but it was just because I got caught up in it. I probably wouldn't have the nerve to do it again.

I like to go grocery shopping without any panties or bra on and walk around the store. I imagine the whole time I'm in there there's somebody watching, trying to see more. By the time I make it back to my car, I'm so wet that I can feel my juices running down my legs. I will often finger myself on the way home.

Anything that at least feels public is what gets me off best. The windows in my bedroom open to a busy street, and I fantasize about standing in front of them, rolling my nipples between my fingers until I get somebody's attention, then putting one foot up on the window sill so everybody has a clear view of my pussy and masturbating for them. I've never quite had the nerve to do that, though. I just really think it would be amazing to be watched by strangers.

Aside from all that, I like to use just about anything around the house to fuck myself with. If it's phallic shaped, I've probably tried masturbating with it.
 
For me, it's more about what kind of mood I'm in. If I'm feeling soft and sexy, I like to lay under my waterfall shower and kind of concentrate on all the places the warm water is hitting my body. I usually don't even have to touch myself like this, just spread my legs up the wall and let the water take care of it. It's nice because the shower head is huge and reflective and I like to look up and watch myself in it and pretend it's a stranger watching me.

If I'm feeling a little bit risky, I will lay on my bed with my windows open to the busy street outside and hump a couple pillows. Nobody can really tell what's going on, but I like to pretend they can see me and know what's happening. Once, I got really into it and sat up like I was riding a cock, bouncing up and down, grinding the pillows and I'm sure anybody passing by knew what was happening then. It was one of the biggest turn ons of my life to be on full display for everybody, but it was just because I got caught up in it. I probably wouldn't have the nerve to do it again.

I like to go grocery shopping without any panties or bra on and walk around the store. I imagine the whole time I'm in there there's somebody watching, trying to see more. By the time I make it back to my car, I'm so wet that I can feel my juices running down my legs. I will often finger myself on the way home.

Anything that at least feels public is what gets me off best. The windows in my bedroom open to a busy street, and I fantasize about standing in front of them, rolling my nipples between my fingers until I get somebody's attention, then putting one foot up on the window sill so everybody has a clear view of my pussy and masturbating for them. I've never quite had the nerve to do that, though. I just really think it would be amazing to be watched by strangers.

Aside from all that, I like to use just about anything around the house to fuck myself with. If it's phallic shaped, I've probably tried masturbating with it.

Great to get insight from a woman who obviously know how to enjoy herself!

Your grocery store scenario reminds me of a time hiking along a pretty wide flat trail on warm rainy day in nothing but gym short and long poncho. Moving along at a good clip, caressing myself in rhythm with my stride and offering a friendly greeting to various other hikers passing me unawares on the trail.
 
Most of the time I masturbate right here on my living couch. Generally while I’m on this site and especially while chatting with other men about how they’d screw her! It gets mr hard and start stroking.

Even hotter is the time I’m jerking off right here while my wife is upstairs with her boyfriend getting laid!
 
Take some saran wrap and put a little Vaseline on it then wrap it around your cock. Take a small! Towel and run hit water over it then wrap it over the saran wrap..its called a FiFi
 
Music is key, but I have no real go-to. Do I feel quiet, calm, wanting to slide into my fantasy? Billie Eilish, Norah Jones, maybe Portishead. Do I want to rush, headlong, my lust pushing me forward at full tilt? Halestorm, Evanescence, possibly Flyleaf. Or do I have no idea, no preference, just want something to fill my ears? Just hit play on whatever was already in the queue.

After that? After that, I just lay back, find the rhythm that suits me, and play out a fantasy in my dark room, eyes closed, a pitch-perfect song filling the gap between walls. What's the fantasy? It could be sweet, could be sultry. I could bounce back and forth. Jump here, there, everywhere. Lose myself in a flood of sights, sounds; people, places; a cacophony of sensuality that I have no control over, that I've surrendered myself to, that scares me with its intensity. I rise to Heaven, crash to Earth, and ask myself how one can live with lost breath.

And, after that? After that, I turn the water on hot as can be, hop in the shower, and lose myself in weighty thoughts, pointless thoughts; planning, dreaming; perhaps even a second round of fantasy. And then, I step out, dry myself off, make myself look like a million books, and go about my day.
 
Masturbation is a popular topic for many of us here. This is your chance to go into details. Kinky hard core videos or a glass of wine in the bath tub. Hand, fingers, fleshlight or vibe go ahead and share so you can inspire others.

Currently I am finding inspiration on some of the soft core pic threads here sipping morning coffee and doing a bit of playing through my sleeping shorts.

For me it's a daily ritual that doesn't take more than 15 min. Unless i have time to edge for a bit...i have my go to porn clips or pics...almost always BBC related. I like a quick vape before...intensifies the orgasm but if im edging the porn turns me on so much i can't hold off for long.
 
I have a new vibrating toy that is comfortable to wear for long periods, so I slip that in and just continue what I was doing...then I switch it on when the anticipation is too much
 
Sitting naked in my truck, vibrator in my ass, rubber glove on my stroking hand, reading here and watching nbnabunny videos. Touching myself all over.
 
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