Physiological Question

[ShaneoD]

Why do you get horny before sleeping?

 

[Booboobear84]

I'm warm, cosy and undressed.

The relaxed thing definitely does something. I feel that way in the morning as well.

 

[KinoKe]

I often get horny in bed. I suspect that may be a mixture of conditioning and opportunity. The devil makes work for idle hands.

 

[pplwatching]

Why do you get horny before sleeping?

I think this is an excellent question. I think it's like committing a murder. You need means, motive, and opportunity.

As a male, my testosterone levels are highest in the morning and lowest in the evening. The problem is, first thing in the morning there's a whole day of things to do ahead. There's just more to think about, and taking time out to have sex seems like a distraction. So there's motive, maybe means, but no opportunity.

I'm certainly thinking about sex through the day, but those thoughts come and go as the day ebbs and flows. When I was younger, the wind would change directions and I'd get hard. Still, no opportunity - unless I can sneak away for a quick one, but coordinating schedules with my wife is no easy feat. That, and she's not easily distracted. So, again, no opportunity and sometimes, arguably, no motive.

At night, all of that stuff is done. It's time to relax and unwind. Without distractions, sex is more practical and I can focus on making my wife feel good and enjoying being intimate with her. Although sometimes we're both tired, we can still be sexual. Night time just seems to be the time when we have the means, motive, and opportunity all at the same time.

 

[davion2308]

Distraction Free

I think it's because you're winding down for the end of the day and you have "You" time now. You don't have work distractions, kid distraction, chores or housework distractions, and you can pay attention to your own thoughts and wants and desires.

And you're usually wearing fewer clothes. That helps.

 

[hulmule]

I'm both, i really enjoy the morning. Refreshed and want to start the day in a good mood. Morning release is one of the better things for me. IMO

 

[Goldenfinger]

I often get horny in bed. I suspect that may be a mixture of conditioning and opportunity. The devil makes work for idle hands.

I too think it has to do with conditioning. Since sex often takes place in a bed your brain puts the two together.

 

[HoldYouDown]

When I'm sleeping naked it happens, I guess because I usually lie on my stomach and my cock is pressed against the bed. I always have to reach down and point it down because I know it will get hard and that's the most comfortable position to have it. (I do this on the massage table, too.)

 

[Goldenfinger]

Definitely think it’s conditioning. It’s the same when my wife puts her hair up with a hair tie.

 

[shinybikiniwife]

Why do you get horny before sleeping?

of course... but its more frequent in the morning after a night of wild, naughty, wonderful, crazy dreams.

 

[ShaneoD]

of course... but its more frequent in the morning after a night of wild, naughty, wonderful, crazy dreams.

I'm guessing you've had a few good dreams lately?

 

[shinybikiniwife]

borderline insanity has its plusses.