Married for Married Part II?

Similar situation here uk based married and not looking to change that. However, due to medical issues she is a bit distant and I need a connection. To excite someone and to be excited, don't have to touch physically but a connection would be amazing
 
I appreciate your situation. Unfortunately I am beyond your age range being 53.
 
Hi
My name is Jeff
I enjoy co writing progressive stories via exploring erotic fantasies
If that sounds interesting to you, send me a note

Thanks
 
Sent you a private message

Can I ask, as I am genuinely curious and see this a lot.

If you have sent a PM, why do you then post in the thread that you have?

The recipient of the message will find out through notifications that they have received a message, so why the need to state it on the thread?

Please take this as genuine curiosity and in no way a dig, criticism or personal attack!
 
I do it as a way to try not to be lost in the multitude of ones that I gather she is getting. But that is just me, cannot say why others do this. I hope that answers your question.
 
I do it as a way to try not to be lost in the multitude of ones that I gather she is getting. But that is just me, cannot say why others do this. I hope that answers your question.

Thank you for taking the time to respond, and I guess I can see the logic.

It indeed answers my question!

Thank you again.
 
All to similar.

Jae, your situation is very similar to what myself, and im sure many other Lits go through. I wish you well on your search!
 
So let's try this again.... I had someone who completely satisfied all my missing desires, but as is seems to go in life, they've disappeared... without a word...

With that said, I do have a few chat buddies, but still no one that "fits" the way said missing companion did... So here is my original ad, modified a bit...

Here goes an odd request for a sex site.

I am a 36 year old married white female with a mostly decent marriage. I try really hard to be "satisfied" in my marriage. I had a 10 year toxic marriage to a narcissistic dickhead, and my current marriage is the complete opposite. Nice guy; but sadly, after about a month of marriage his sex drive disappeared.. Whoosh, right out the window. We were going months between, and that has improved to every couple of weeks (YAY!) but nevertheless, I am a most days a week kind of gal, not a once in a while kind of gal... Anyways, this has left me feeling VERY unfulfilled. Also, intellectually we are different pages as well. I am the bookish nerd, he is the jock/worker type that slid through school because of sports, so his academics were not... a priority?

Do I want naughty chat- sure, but, I can't be sexually attracted to someone without a mental connection first. So I want to actually get to know someone before getting to the naughty stuff. I want essentially an online FWB. Make sense? Of course it does, were on an erotica site!

I will very likely never meet anyone in person, (not out of the question, but still unlikely) but mental stimulation would be nice, as friends and maybe more.

So yeah, I know, Lit is a site of the sexual nature, but I like to think there are other like-minded people that can chat regularly. Figured it was worth a try.


To make things easier for me and you - I prefer very strongly men between 32-45. Not totally hung up on age, but if you're closer to my parents age, I have a hard time dealing. Also, I feel that though I am BBW, I am still cute, so please be decently attractive. I do NOT like to role play, I want a real connection based on our real personalities. And it would be nice for someone who is online the same times I am. I am on and off all day sporadically, and pretty steadily during the evenings and nights.

All of this is a long shot, but in the many years I have been here, I have gotten lucky a few times with great companions... I just want to feel fulfilled and we all know marriage rarely leaves us with complete fulfillment.

The above message made very interesting reading am very curious to find out more 😃

Thanks Sparky
 
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