What Got your kink/fetish started?

[wildp]

How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping

 

[Smoothshavendad]

How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping

How do you live out your hot fetish now?

 

[frank_ryan2020]

I've a foot fetish. It started when I was about 16 in secondary school. Had a really hot teacher who would always wear sexy heels or sandals that showed off her feet. Her feet were always so clean and always pedicured with painted toenails. She loved to dangle her feet from the heels too. Used to drive me crazy

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

Don't really know

I guess it just expanded over the years from watching porn. First, it was just watching straight porn, then bi then moved onto shemales.

I would love to see gay creampie and moved onto compilations and now there is no better feeling than watching someone fill a man's ass with cum while I am watching.

 

[tristianc]

I feel mine came in gradually over a year. Incest fantasy was first, started with my sister then my mother. Then non-con and that went with bondage. Then hypnosis, and I think finally somnophilia. I think it was all in a time span of a year, and since it came to me so naturally I thought I was alone in my kinks, thank goodness the internet didn’t make me feel so alone.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I like a woman barefoot.

I was at an impressionable age, and at church did recordings of the sermons. Its a long story, but I was in the back, and this 20 something woman, very pretty (still is to this day), always sat in the back row with her new husband.

She would wear high heels, but would always take them off, which I could see from my vantage point.

I don't know if she did that for her husband, but my wife will.

 

[PEAKER44]

I honestly think mine started because of this site. Opened my eyes to a whole different world. I had watched porn prior and like all guys was turned on by a mff threesomes but this site has taken my curiosity way beyond that!!

 

[StrongMaster7]

If I identify my kink/fetish as 'obsession with big breasts', I probably always had it. The movies, TV, magazines, and other media of the day was very much promoting the 'Barbi doll figure', slim and busty. And Raquel Welch, Sofia Loren, and many other busty actresses brought the fantasy to life.

But what changed it from a funny feeling I get when I see Barbara Eden in 'I Dream of Jeanie' or Julie Newmar in a Catwoman suit on 'Batman', to a sexual feeling was one night when our parents were out and my sister had her best friend over. I had never thought of her friend as sexy, until I caught a glimpse of her in just bra and panties. Those white undies against her tanned skin... And what she was packing in that bra! The glimpse I got was brief but burned into my memory.

Although she would, in the future, gain weight which would further disguise her breasts, she had, at this point, just lost a lot of weight swimming and had a really nice voluptuous hour-glass figure with what had to be d-cups if not double-d.

The few times I saw her friend after that night, I just stared at her with pure lust.

Since then it's like that old saying, "If you've seen one pair of breasts, you want to see them all."

 

[lovesexfun]

How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping

i started feeling about my fantasy when my wife told me about her dream of fucking any other men and that hit me in the head like i am so craving for it to happen soon.

 

[screwher]

My fetish or kink is my wife having sex with other men. It started shortly after she cheated years ago. She was working in a coffee shop. He was a regular customer. An attraction developed which ended up in a hotel where he fucked her! At first I was furious, it almost ended us. But soon after, the idea of her tryst started to arouse me. It was the starting point of out hotwife lifestyle.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Reading, actually

I am in what I am certain is the minority of males who found his likes in words before he saw them illustrated in a magazine. I am grateful to whomever wrote those words.

When I got older and discovered this was almost universally the way females were introduced to erotica, I felt like I had an advantage over the competition: I understood something they didn't. I have always written "dirty stories" for my partners for that very reason.

 

[KinoKe]

In my younger days, I was often called upon to write copy for a company that made 'underfashions'. Of course, that meant that I had to spend a good deal of time carefully studying the house models as they paraded bras, corsets, and knickers for my benefit. Did the fact that some of the models were a total tease have anything to do with my interest in such garments?

 

[davion2308]

Nude in Public

I love exhibitionism, public nudity, nude beaches, and skin. Flashing is hot and I try to get my wife to show off.

I blame being all of 8, being hyper-sexual even as a kid, and seeing the movie "Splash." That scene where Madison walks out onto Staten Island nude in front of people started it for me and I never looked back.

That was the formative moment in my life for my particular kink.

 

[dz2681]

Hmmmm, might be hard to pinpoint when each fetish took root, especially the Taboo kinks, but I know when I first saw my godmother in only her panties and bra I was hooked and wanted to see more. She was my first fantasy and remains one to this day. I think it was a few years later when I found incest stories online that that fantasy really took root. Reading them and letting my imagination run free only fueled my desire for more.
As far as my desire to share and watch my wife with other men, I think I always enjoyed seeing her flirt or tease but it was when we were broken up for a while and then got back together that little by little she’d reveal some of her sexual exploits during that time and during the time we were starting back together. The turn on was undeniable and I needed to know more and more details, which at first she wasn’t too keen on providing. Now I enjoy hearing about her new adventures with others, it’s been a while since she has explored but hoping things start again and thing around us get back to normal.

 

[AlexBailey]

There were lots of early triggers for me. I wonder if I came pre-wired or if it was due to my experiences.

I was an escape artist as a baby and had to be harnessed and strapped into my bed at night. I have vivid memories of admiring my sister's tights leotards and skating dresses. I was in kids theater and since I was the smallest one in the troupe I was a dog for several plays - fucking loved that costume!

I had long hair for my early years and was often assumed to be female. I wonder if being treated and talked to like a cute little girl had an effect on me. I felt very out of place when my dad started insisting my mom cut my hair and encouraged me into 'guys sports' -- I wanted to do what my sister was into - ice skating, dance, gym, and theater.

 

[CuriousGuy62]

A few years ago, I met this gal while playing poker online. We chatted at the table, then chatted via instant messages. Eventually the chat turned sexual. And eventually we were sending each other links to things that turned us on. She was really into watching a guy try to deep throat another guy. I didn't get turned on by it, but I wanted to "play along" and find things that she might like, so I turned to MMF videos, figuring she'd like the two guys and it was "ok" with me because a gal was also involved. Well, it turned out that it really turned me on, and that was the start of my bi curiosities. It was really hot to share them with her and admit to it, and to watch them simultaneously.
I don't chat with her any more, but I do l still have a thing for MMF videos!

 

[Starlust]

Years ago, I read a sadly now vanished erotic story about an older lesbian who seduces her nephew's bride-to-be and gets her into bed, and winds up rimming her arsehole and tongue-fucking her up the bum until she climaxed. I'd thought arse licking was kind of gross up till then but that story completely changed my opinion because it was suuuuuuper hot.

 

[Kitschshaman]

I think I was already primed for it at an early age but it really started when a girlfriend of mine wanted me to tie her up. I loved it and have loved it ever since, especially with her...

 

[FantasySharer1]

The moment I saw my wife's brother's cock in the locker room. Holy shit.

I'm definitely not small but I know that my wife's brother (being cuckolded by them is the central object of my fantasies) is MUCH bigger, I've seen him in the locker room. He easily tops out well over 8 inches and is thicker than my wife's hand could fit around. I can blow her mind, but her brother's cock would make it MELT.

I would not mind being humiliated while they fucked and she constantly reminding me, or him telling me, that I simply am not as good as him due to my smaller size in comparison to him. As long as it didn't leave our house, I would love to have it be a central part of our relationship - her constantly humiliating me by comparing me to him, having me suck him, eating their creampie, while telling me how much bigger he is.

I wish everyday that I could have her experience the pleasure and ecstasy that is her brother's massive cock.

 

[FuriousCurious]

I worked for an older gentleman as a personal assistant years ago. Up until that time, I'd never even dreamed of anybody watching me have sex or masturbate. I'd show up to his apartment each morning, make his coffee, then wake him up and we'd basically just sit around and talk throughout the day as I did chores. In his younger years, he'd been into swinging and was very open about it with me. I wasn't really attracted to him, but his stories would turn me on. He told me flat out his hope was that someday I'd let him watch me play with myself, but made it clear that it was completely my choice if/when that happened, and that my job was not in danger if I never wanted to. I told him from the beginning that I wasn't interested in that kind of thing. He'd never push, but mention it casually at times when he would wax nostalgic about life when he was younger.

One day, after I'd been there for a couple hours (we'd spent the entire day discussing classic literature), he told me he had an old dress he'd like to give me. I explained that I couldn't possibly, but he asked very kindly if he could see me in it at least. As I walked into the bedroom to try the dress on, I was fully aware he was following. There was no pressure at all, and I knew all I'd have to do is tell him "no" and he'd leave. However, for some reason I really wanted to change my clothes in front of him. I had no desire for him to do anything to me, but I realized in that moment the thought of him seeing me change was turning me on a lot. So, I undressed down to my bra and panties, then he handed me the dress. He asked if I'd take off my bra, and I did. The look on his face was delicious. I loved the way it made me feel so powerful. He said, "Would you also take off your panties?" I wasn't sure at first, but I wanted to see what it would feel like to stand naked in front of somebody like that, and I did it. Completely naked, I stood there while he just looked. Without being asked, I did a small turn to let him see me from every angle. I could see that he was getting hard through his pants, so I reached up and rolled my nipples between my fingers a bit and trailed a finger down my tummy and into my slit. I slowly put the dress on and modeled it a bit for him. It was an old fashioned floral print dress that fell to my knees. Very pretty, but not something I'd normally wear. He asked me to please take it, and even if I never wore it out, put it on sometimes and touch myself in it. I agreed, and put my own clothes back on. I was so shocked at how comfortable the entire experience was and how much I'd liked him looking at me. He asked if I'd mind continuing the day with no bra on. I agreed and took it off.

An hour or so later, his son who is a couple years older than me dropped by. I was seated on the sofa in jeans and a low cut shirt with no bra. I have really big nipples that are always hard, so it was pretty obvious to his son that I didn't have one on. I noticed he kept eyeing my chest. Remembering how great it felt to have his dad look at me naked, I made it a point to pull my shirt way down and lean over, giving him a very clear view of my tits. He wasn't even shy about looking, and even stroked himself through his pants a few times. I felt as if I'd discovered some kind of crazy secret. I liked people looking at me.

On the ride home that day, I took my shirt off and pulled my tits out of the top of my bra. I felt so alive and free and turned on knowing people were seeing them. I swear to you, my jeans were soaked straight through. I finally got a hand down my pants and came gloriously almost as soon as I touched my clit.

For the rest of the time I had that job, I'd work around his house in various states of undress. It was never anything we talked about, except for a few times when he'd make a special request such as "Please come in tomorrow in a skirt with no panties" or "I'd like to watch you do the dishes in a white shirt with no bra". I was always happy to oblige. I never did fulfill his request of masturbating for him, but now I wish I would have. The closest we ever came to anything like that was once I caught him jerking off to me vacuuming and instead of saying anything, I just pulled my skirt higher and wiggled my ass a bit for him. I did ask him once if he still wanted to watch me cum, and he said he wanted to wait until I was really ready. He moved away and I went to work at a clothing store, which was not nearly as much fun. However, it solidly cemented my kink of having people look at me.

 

[nutoseen]

what started it

After my tiny dick was seen and we talked about i realized how hot it made me.

 

[gregy70]

My now wife and I went through a rough patch before we were married where we slept in seperate beds and weren’t intimate.
Eventually I decided I couldn’t live without eating pussy and would have a oral only affair doing this.
I justified it to myself that if I left my briefs on and only provided oral it wasn’t as bad as having a full on affair.
I enjoyed the servitude I provided to women and so did they.
My kink to have my cock caged while doing this also came into play as one woman insisted if we were going to meet she wanted me to cage up before I left home and not remove it till I got back home.
So began my secret life of servicing many women on the regular.
My wife found a photo on my phone of me eating a woman.
I came clean about everything and why.
She ended up marrying me lol.
Some of her friends wondered if I was caged at the wedding .

 

[gunslinger42]

I worked for an older gentleman as a personal assistant years ago. Up until that time, I'd never even dreamed of anybody watching me have sex or masturbate. I'd show up to his apartment each morning, make his coffee, then wake him up and we'd basically just sit around and talk throughout the day as I did chores. In his younger years, he'd been into swinging and was very open about it with me. I wasn't really attracted to him, but his stories would turn me on. He told me flat out his hope was that someday I'd let him watch me play with myself, but made it clear that it was completely my choice if/when that happened, and that my job was not in danger if I never wanted to. I told him from the beginning that I wasn't interested in that kind of thing. He'd never push, but mention it casually at times when he would wax nostalgic about life when he was younger.

One day, after I'd been there for a couple hours (we'd spent the entire day discussing classic literature), he told me he had an old dress he'd like to give me. I explained that I couldn't possibly, but he asked very kindly if he could see me in it at least. As I walked into the bedroom to try the dress on, I was fully aware he was following. There was no pressure at all, and I knew all I'd have to do is tell him "no" and he'd leave. However, for some reason I really wanted to change my clothes in front of him. I had no desire for him to do anything to me, but I realized in that moment the thought of him seeing me change was turning me on a lot. So, I undressed down to my bra and panties, then he handed me the dress. He asked if I'd take off my bra, and I did. The look on his face was delicious. I loved the way it made me feel so powerful. He said, "Would you also take off your panties?" I wasn't sure at first, but I wanted to see what it would feel like to stand naked in front of somebody like that, and I did it. Completely naked, I stood there while he just looked. Without being asked, I did a small turn to let him see me from every angle. I could see that he was getting hard through his pants, so I reached up and rolled my nipples between my fingers a bit and trailed a finger down my tummy and into my slit. I slowly put the dress on and modeled it a bit for him. It was an old fashioned floral print dress that fell to my knees. Very pretty, but not something I'd normally wear. He asked me to please take it, and even if I never wore it out, put it on sometimes and touch myself in it. I agreed, and put my own clothes back on. I was so shocked at how comfortable the entire experience was and how much I'd liked him looking at me. He asked if I'd mind continuing the day with no bra on. I agreed and took it off.

An hour or so later, his son who is a couple years older than me dropped by. I was seated on the sofa in jeans and a low cut shirt with no bra. I have really big nipples that are always hard, so it was pretty obvious to his son that I didn't have one on. I noticed he kept eyeing my chest. Remembering how great it felt to have his dad look at me naked, I made it a point to pull my shirt way down and lean over, giving him a very clear view of my tits. He wasn't even shy about looking, and even stroked himself through his pants a few times. I felt as if I'd discovered some kind of crazy secret. I liked people looking at me.

On the ride home that day, I took my shirt off and pulled my tits out of the top of my bra. I felt so alive and free and turned on knowing people were seeing them. I swear to you, my jeans were soaked straight through. I finally got a hand down my pants and came gloriously almost as soon as I touched my clit.

For the rest of the time I had that job, I'd work around his house in various states of undress. It was never anything we talked about, except for a few times when he'd make a special request such as "Please come in tomorrow in a skirt with no panties" or "I'd like to watch you do the dishes in a white shirt with no bra". I was always happy to oblige. I never did fulfill his request of masturbating for him, but now I wish I would have. The closest we ever came to anything like that was once I caught him jerking off to me vacuuming and instead of saying anything, I just pulled my skirt higher and wiggled my ass a bit for him. I did ask him once if he still wanted to watch me cum, and he said he wanted to wait until I was really ready. He moved away and I went to work at a clothing store, which was not nearly as much fun. However, it solidly cemented my kink of having people look at me.

This is an amazing story. How far did you go in showing yourself to others?

 

[gunslinger42]

My anal fetish did began with seeing it in porn. It's tattooed in my brain. Anal sex, anal masturbation, butt plugs... name it. Just love when girls play with their ass. And huge plus if there is no hair down there. When I see hairless pussy and especially ass I just want to dive in.
But my public play fetish came when I was 19. Late summer, my then girlfriend and I were in the city park, evening stroll. Did few laps and we decided to take a sit on a bench, little kissing, naughty touching, usual stuff. At one moment while we were kissing I grabbed her ass and pulled her to sit on my lap, cowgirl style, and we continued with kissing, more heated this time. This is the point where I stopped noticing people but did became aware of them few minutes later. She unzipped my pants, took my cock out and started stroking it slowly. We stopped kissing and looked around us just to notice that people started avoiding this part of the park. Closest person was some 20-25 meters away pretending they don't notice us but even with limited light we were visible to anyone who looked in our direction. I just smiled and started kissing her again and she continued with handjob. I came so hard, as like she squeezed my balls to drain every drop.
At that moment i was hooked. We did it few more times in different places (ferris wheel, historical monuments...), exposing us more, showing more skin, but sadly, we never went all the way and fuck outside.
I tried doing this with other girls with more or less success, I masturbated, but never had sex in public and I want to. The thrill of doing it outside in public is outstanding.

 

[emperor0379]

I can't say right out on this forum, but the result was gerontophilia. I'm fully functional with women my age and younger, but I know where most of my fantasies lie... and how old my gf is.