Married men, Bi-curious in VA

I think I'm like most of you guys... married, middle-aged and not having my sexual interests filled at home.

I check out the personals periodically hoping that there will be someone out there looking to chat, exchange some interests, thoughts and ideas and hoping maybe it will lead to a sane, safe next step.

I see people on this thread that probably live less than 20 minutes away and are looking for the same things I am. But (with a few exceptions, to be sure) we only post a city name, or a region, and say we want to hook up but then don't do anything else about it.

So I say we challenge ourselves to spend the rest of this month to check this thread as much as possible, every day if we can, and each time we check it, post something about ourselves and what we are about. Let's flush out the Virginia married men who aren't afraid of other men's cocks. We might just make a friend or two.

As for me, I'm married, in my 50's with two kids. I'm the stereotypical married man who, as he got older, developed an attraction to cock. I have one guy I have played with off and on for about 25 years, but he lives in another state and our interactions are way too infrequent.

I would love to have a more local connection that I could talk to, share some kinks with, and, if things worked out, play a little hide-the-sausage with.

But I"m not the kind of guy that will meet for anonymous blowjobs and reckless sexual behavior. There's not a lot I haven't done (or wouldn't try) sexually, but I'm not out cruising for random and careless hook-ups. I'm a normal guy with a normal family and normal job looking for other "normies" who just happen to enjoy playing with other men's cocks.

I very flexible in terms of my sexual interest (top, bottom, dom, sub) so if you're interested, DM me and maybe we can start a dialog that could grow into something.

And here's something "interesting" about me, in hopes of giving this thread some life.

I taught myself to deep-throat using a dildo. I bought several over the years, telling my wife I hoped they would spice up our sex life. But I knew she wouldn't be interested. I bought them for me so I could suck them and ride them to satisfy my cock cravings. I did manage to get her to fuck me with a strap-on a few times, but it freaked her out when I rather enthusiastically started throating her dong one night. Oh well, at least I have them to play with now when I get some alone time (which almost NEVER) happens.

Okay guys, who's on board to make this thread worthwhile?



You're post is well statedd and you sound down to earth for what you're looking for. SE Va and and one of those "normies" here too. Nothing wrong with those who are looking for a hook up, but I'm more inclined to look for a buddy to chat with and get to know... and see what happens..
 
Hi from DC Beltway Area,

I think it is because of the Covid and worrying about bringing it home to the family after a hook up. It is not that we want to but trying to be safe. I already know of one guy that I met several years ago, he got and died.
 
Sooo, finally here in Va. Norfolk to be precise. 60, 6'1", 200 lbs, reasonable shape, smooth. Happily partnered to a lovely woman. Strong desire to explore with another man, no experience. Happy to chat, meet for a coffee or a beer and see what happens, no pressure given nor expected. PMs welcome
 
It's Spring?

I think I posted in another thread like this quite a while ago but this one is active again (even if most of us are not yet) - MWM, 70, 5'9", 180lbs, salt and pepper hair, technically bi-curious but only because I've only played on line (which has convinced me!) and have no personal real experience {I dodged all of those circles and other temptations when I was a kid} - wife knows I'm bi and a cd (mostly panties and underdressing) and that I'm generally smooth all over - I save the dress up for when she's away. Not able to host. Oh, NOVA - 703 area code. But am now vaccinated and getting restless. Maybe this is the year? At least to keep the thread alive...
 
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hey...

Very oral here single Chubby Masculine Latin guy who is looking for and into Sucking Str8 55+ Masculine Beefy Chubby Bellied MWM cock to completion with no reciprocation!

I can host here at my place in the Kingstowne area of Alexandria close to Springfield Mall. Very safe, clean, sane, DDF and COVID free, and DISCREET!! And into the same.

Drop me a line here or in KIK, Nvaalx or on yahoo at the same name.

Al

looks like you are what this thread needed... good hunting
 
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I am a married bi man looking for orher bi men to play with in Sourhwest Virginia. I live in Marion am d/d free and need to be discrete. Love to suck cock and have mine sucked, hoping to find someone to take my anal virginity.
 
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