Married men, Bi-curious in VA

Area Code: 703 Zip Code: 20152

Since wife's home ALL the time now because EVERYTHING's closed, jacking off (alone as usual) can only be done when she's asleep.

Retired MWM, 63, NON-smoker, living in South Riding, VA (Loudoun County) --- am about 5 miles west of Chantilly, VA which is in Fairfax County.

Am retired now so am available WEEKDAY DAYTIME when wife is out for more than 90 minutes. I can host.

DO NOT USE THE E-MAIL ADDRESS IN MY PROFILE --- IT'S WRONG!!! Contact me at SouthRidingHornyHusband@gmail.com

Been looking for cock since January 2000 as I've been in a sexless marriage since mid-Nov 1999. Took 2 years to find first cock, since then have played with 10 guys (LAST was in Oct 2018). Stopped looking for pussy 10 years ago as women in Northern VA SAY they want sex but they're NOT --- just want someone to listen to them.

YOU: 21-70, MWM, CUT, clean, d/d-free, NON-smoker, MUST live IN South Riding OR within 10 miles of South Riding.

Looking for NON-smoking MWMs with CUT cocks.

Into mutual JO/oral. LOVE ass kissing. SOMEDAY want to fuck a man's ass (maybe get fucked too). LOVE getting naked with a man, watching porn (str8, gay, lesbian, shemale). If you're into getting spanked, I'll spank you, just bring the tool(s) with which you want me to spank you. Afterward, I'll massage and kiss your stinging ass.
 
I think this thread isn't very popular because VA (at least Northern VA) is a sexual dead zone and the VERY FEW men who want to play dont' check this thread very often.
 
Ric

63 yo masculine wm is interested in meeting a bud regularly for fun. Kissing, oral, massage, I'm a bottom if it goes there. Open to some kink as well.

I'm in the West End, can't host right now, perhaps in the not too distant future.
 
So let's make an effort to make this thread interesting

I think I'm like most of you guys... married, middle-aged and not having my sexual interests filled at home.

I check out the personals periodically hoping that there will be someone out there looking to chat, exchange some interests, thoughts and ideas and hoping maybe it will lead to a sane, safe next step.

I see people on this thread that probably live less than 20 minutes away and are looking for the same things I am. But (with a few exceptions, to be sure) we only post a city name, or a region, and say we want to hook up but then don't do anything else about it.

So I say we challenge ourselves to spend the rest of this month to check this thread as much as possible, every day if we can, and each time we check it, post something about ourselves and what we are about. Let's flush out the Virginia married men who aren't afraid of other men's cocks. We might just make a friend or two.

As for me, I'm married, in my 50's with two kids. I'm the stereotypical married man who, as he got older, developed an attraction to cock. I have one guy I have played with off and on for about 25 years, but he lives in another state and our interactions are way too infrequent.

I would love to have a more local connection that I could talk to, share some kinks with, and, if things worked out, play a little hide-the-sausage with.

But I"m not the kind of guy that will meet for anonymous blowjobs and reckless sexual behavior. There's not a lot I haven't done (or wouldn't try) sexually, but I'm not out cruising for random and careless hook-ups. I'm a normal guy with a normal family and normal job looking for other "normies" who just happen to enjoy playing with other men's cocks.

I very flexible in terms of my sexual interest (top, bottom, dom, sub) so if you're interested, DM me and maybe we can start a dialog that could grow into something.

And here's something "interesting" about me, in hopes of giving this thread some life.

I taught myself to deep-throat using a dildo. I bought several over the years, telling my wife I hoped they would spice up our sex life. But I knew she wouldn't be interested. I bought them for me so I could suck them and ride them to satisfy my cock cravings. I did manage to get her to fuck me with a strap-on a few times, but it freaked her out when I rather enthusiastically started throating her dong one night. Oh well, at least I have them to play with now when I get some alone time (which almost NEVER) happens.

Okay guys, who's on board to make this thread worthwhile?
 
Richmond

Im 48 safe sane and discrete. Enjoy male company. Very open to new things. Love to chat. Maybe meet if we connect. Message me.
 
C'mon guys, let's see some effort :)

I know it's only been a day, but I know there are like-minded guys out there. What's your story?

Today's bit of info.

I'm doing my best to participate in Locktober. Not able to stay locked continuously, but making an effort to spend as much time in one of my six cages as possible.

After 12 days with no orgasm, I'm getting more adventurous. Two additional posts to the thread and I'll post a pic from my efforts.
 
Still holding out hope...

Maybe we can get more traffic by the end of the week.

On my last road trip, I drove for about 20 miles with a dildo gag strapped into my mouth. The looks I got at the stoplights were priceless :)

I was nervous as hell and excited like I hadn't been in years. It was a memorable trip.

C'mon guys, I know you're out there.
 
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There are lots of guys...

on other threads in this personals list who are from Virginia. We just need to get a critical mass in one spot.

I know everyone isn't on everyday, so hoping for a bump this weekend :)
 
Trying to get to the weekend...

Not exactly breaking the internet, but we are keeping the thread active heading towards the weekend.

Oh well, I did say two additional posts...

Caged and working my way through Locktober.
 
50 MWM, bi bttm

New to the state.. near Richlands, the wife is closed minded and does not know my bi side. I had a FWB thing going on where I used to live and am looking for something here now. I love to bottom and am always clean. If you are cloze... hit me up and see where it goes
 
I've seen activity on Squirt and DoubleList, but those are pretty much guys looking for a quick hook up. I haven't been on Lit for a good while but I found myself alone in the house for once and decided to look around on the forums and stories. I'm glad there is an effort to keep this thread alive.
 
52yo Single Latin guy in Alexandria

Very oral here single Chubby Masculine Latin guy who is looking for and into Sucking Str8 55+ Masculine Beefy Chubby Bellied MWM cock to completion with no reciprocation!

I can host here at my place in the Kingstowne area of Alexandria close to Springfield Mall. Very safe, clean, sane, DDF and COVID free, and DISCREET!! And into the same.

Drop me a line here or in KIK, Nvaalx or on yahoo at the same name.

Al
 
Toss my name to the hat...

I go to Midlo quite a bit. Frankly, I could appreciate a good blowjob from anyone. I guess that makes me heteroflexible...
PM me if I am in your area,and I might be able to swing by.
 
44 MWM, poly, and if you're on the eastern shore of Virginia I'm about 15 minutes from the state line (On Delmarva)
 
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