Danielle, Reston VA

[innocntplay]

It was 2011 in January when we met. Chatted online and dinner at the Ice House in Herndon. Later in February we met again. You were a lover of erotica. I shared some links.
I know when we parted you were angry. I am sorry. With snow on the ground and no sleep I was exhausted. I don't know how you were up.
I do apologize.
I am nearby and would enjoy to share some wine and food.
I think conversation would be nice. That is if you are still here and available....
I hate to admit it has been 10 years since I participated in something so great that has not happened again. For me at least.
Hi
T

 

[MMM_wms]

It was 2011 in January when we met. Chatted online and dinner at the Ice House in Herndon. Later in February we met again. You were a lover of erotica. I shared some links.
I know when we parted you were angry. I am sorry. With snow on the ground and no sleep I was exhausted. I don't know how you were up.
I do apologize.
I am nearby and would enjoy to share some wine and food.
I think conversation would be nice. That is if you are still here and available....
I hate to admit it has been 10 years since I participated in something so great that has not happened again. For me at least.
Hi
T

I wish you lots of luck! Finding your woman again of 10 years ago.

 

[innocntplay]

I am hopeful. Aside from me ignoring her dead battery and selfishly remaining asleep in my warm hotel room, it was all like fantasy.
I wish we talked more but time was limited to one evening.
I hope if she sees the message she can forgive me.

 

[KristaK]

I am hopeful. Aside from me ignoring her dead battery and selfishly remaining asleep in my warm hotel room, it was all like fantasy.
I wish we talked more but time was limited to one evening.
I hope if she sees the message she can forgive me.

Dead battery? Like a dead car battery?

You went to sleep while the woman you’d been on a date with was stranded in the snow in Virginia in February?


Yeah. She’s not going to call you.

 

[filt]

You went to sleep while the woman you’d been on a date with was stranded in the snow in Virginia in February? .

Give him a break, he was tired. So, she probably froze to death but the fella got his seven hours sleep in.

Besides, this happened in 2011. It taken a decade to announce she has been missed.

 

[Dribble]

Dead battery? Like a dead car battery?

You went to sleep while the woman you’d been on a date with was stranded in the snow in Virginia in February?


Yeah. She’s not going to call you.

Give him a break, he was tired. So, she probably froze to death but the fella got his seven hours sleep in.

Besides, this happened in 2011. It taken a decade to announce she has been missed.

Oh I am confident it even gets better. Let me get the popcorn

 

[innocntplay]

Dead car battery. The guy at the front desk of the Westin Hotel had the battery to start the car not me. If she holds a grudge and cannot even peak, maybe that would be for the best. I doubt that is the case. At the very least it would be fun to catch up.

 

[filt]

Dead car battery. The guy at the front desk of the Westin Hotel had the battery to start the car not me. If she holds a grudge and cannot even peak, maybe that would be for the best. I doubt that is the case. At the very least it would be fun to catch up.

She struck you as the forgiving type?

 

[KristaK]

I really do hope that Danielle comes back.

I would LOVE to hear her version of the evening.

 

[filt]

I really do hope that Danielle comes back.

I would LOVE to hear her version of the evening.

This would be a post worthy of printing out and getting framed.

 

[Dribble]

This is a perfect example of how reality can change to become a new reality.

 

[StarGazer58]

This sounds like CL missed connections just with a interesting backstory.

Back when CL was a fun place I used to respond to Missed Connections from time to time. Would always tell them I am not the guy you were looking for but I am curious... A lot of the women would fill me on the backstory and some were fascinating.

 

[innocntplay]

Aside from Krista all the responses are from guys.... Hmmm
The romantic evening too boring for you?
I am sorry I had only fallen asleep for an hour or so. 10 years I am going to say I woke up to say good bye but I cannot promise. I am pretty sure the connection was real. It was the ending that went bad because I didn't show up and talk to the guy at the desk.

In the end yes it is like missed connections on CL. I think it would be really fun to connect after 10 years. At the time I lived a few hours from here. Now I live minutes away. I would really enjoy the things we talked about in the kitchen. Preparing food is like foreplay to me. I, like her, live to eat. Not eat to live. One of our other common connections was stories like you find here. We shared sources.... We were great lovers. Romantic and sensual like we had been together before.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

To the OP, at least, the connection does seem real, then and now. The big question is was it also real to Danielle, then and now? Ten years ago it may well have been. It does sound like the ending soured her on it. Did it do so permanently for her? No way to know without her input. Ten years is a long time to pine for someone. It's possible that the memory with her has remained, and she may now consider it a special time that she would indeed like to revisit.

On the other hand, she may have moved on and has created (and is creating) new memories with someone else. Unless the OP has a logical reason to believe she didn't do this, looking to reconnect with her I believe is a lost cause.

I love a fairy tale ending as much as the next person, but I suspect there isn't one to be had here. Obviously Danielle had a great impact on you, so much so that you're still thinking about her ten years later. But unless there's something else we don't know about, I think it's time for you to let her go and move on yourself.

 

[n8Romantic]

You posted this hoping for redemption. I don't believe it's going to come. She has moved on, so should you. I'm sure every poster on here has a story of opportunity lost. I've had a few.

Maybe you're wishing for her to be as unhappy and you appear to be, and will somehow come running back into your arms. Maybe it will happen. That is kind of sad that you'd want someone to be unhappy given your rejection of her. Intentional or not it was still rejection.

Whatever happened in 2011 is still in 2011. Distance (or Absence) makes the heart grow fonder. No amount of wishful nostalgia will change anything. Let it go Louie.

 

[innocntplay]

Not redemption...

I wasn't looking for redemption.
I know enough where I could search for her online and find her. Even on Facebook. She is single as far as I can tell.
My thoughts were wishful thinking that she was here on lit and would reach out if she saw the message. The stories here are as fun as kristen archives I turned her onto. I'm still reading....
Anyway I am not reaching out directly as I know she knows how to reach me if she wanted to. Only she does not know I live within a few miles of her.
Finding each other like this would/could have been a little fantasy or that fairy tale ending. Same as the stories here. We know the end to almost all of them!
I simply thought it worth the try. And well kind of fun. I didn't expect all the negativity and name calling. Whatever floats your boat. That is why there are so many categories of stories too!

 

[mugsgame]

I agree with you - two sides to every story. Doubtful Danielle would ever reply even if she sees this, but if she did, I would LOVE to get her perspective as well.

I really do hope that Danielle comes back.

I would LOVE to hear her version of the evening.

 

[MMM_wms]

I just don't get this

Innocentplay wrote a search post addressing Danielle, in March, and everybody and her sister feels a compulsion to chime in and comment on questions like: does he have a right to do this? and will he be successful.

Why don't you just leave this up to him and Danielle?

And write your own posts on something, instead of meddling in the affairs of other people?

 

[Dribble]

Innocentplay wrote a search post addressing Danielle, in March, and everybody and her sister feels a compulsion to chime in and comment on questions like: does he have a right to do this? and will he be successful.

Why don't you just leave this up to him and Danielle?

And write your own posts on something, instead of meddling in the affairs of other people?

You don't get it? He admitted SHE HAD HIS CONTACT INFO AND she didn't use it. For 10 years. What don't you get? Grabs the popcorn.

 

[MMM_wms]

You don't get it? He admitted SHE HAD HIS CONTACT INFO AND she didn't use it. For 10 years. What don't you get? Grabs the popcorn.

so what? It's none of YALL's business! I am saying.

 

[KristaK]

Innocentplay wrote a search post addressing Danielle, in March, and everybody and her sister feels a compulsion to chime in and comment on questions like: does he have a right to do this? and will he be successful.

Why don't you just leave this up to him and Danielle?

And write your own posts on something, instead of meddling in the affairs of other people?

I like to do a little thing called ‘Whatever The Fuck I Want’ so I’ll respond as I choose, when I choose, and where I choose.

It’s a public forum. Every comment bumps it and gives him a better chance of his post being seen. Also, I do what I want. See above.

 

[NorthernVAM]

I like to do a little thing called ‘Whatever The Fuck I Want’ so I’ll respond as I choose, when I choose, and where I choose.

It’s a public forum. Every comment bumps it and gives him a better chance of his post being seen. Also, I do what I want. See above.

Makes you want to say "God Bless America" where we do "Whatever the fuck we want", whenever we want.

Is there a better definition of freedom than that?

 

[MMM_wms]

I like to do a little thing called ‘Whatever The Fuck I Want’ so I’ll respond as I choose, when I choose, and where I choose.

It’s a public forum. Every comment bumps it and gives him a better chance of his post being seen. Also, I do what I want. See above.

Nobody said you were not allowed to do what you are doing. I just question the sense of it.

 

[britfunk]

It was 2011 in January when we met. Chatted online and dinner at the Ice House in Herndon. Later in February we met again. You were a lover of erotica. I shared some links.
I know when we parted you were angry. I am sorry. With snow on the ground and no sleep I was exhausted. I don't know how you were up.
I do apologize.
I am nearby and would enjoy to share some wine and food.
I think conversation would be nice. That is if you are still here and available....
I hate to admit it has been 10 years since I participated in something so great that has not happened again. For me at least.
Hi
T

Is it more akward that I think I know the subject of your inquiry or that she gave birth to my children?

 

[KristaK]

Nobody said you were not allowed to do what you are doing. I just question the sense of it.

I question the sense in creating multiple alt accounts to seethe entitled misogyny as a method of attracting women, but here we are.