Dominant women who like to hurt men

[swansong1]

Hi,

I’d love to hear from dominant women about how they like to hurt men - and what they get out of it. I had a one - off with such a lady and she had me kneeling in front of her, sucking her tits. She wouldn’t let me touch her, though she was soaking wet - I tried and she slapped my hand away. Anyway, whilst I was engrossed with her nipples, she jabbed a pin wheel into the top of my cock - which hurt like hell and isn’t something that I’d want to repeat in a hurry! Anyway, I naturally winced and gasped, which caused her to groan and sent a shudder of pleasure through her. Whilst I really didn’t like that particular sort of pain - pull an twist my balls is fine, I got very hard and still get aroused at the thought of that moment, as she clearly enjoyed it. So, I’d love to hear from any women that are equally turned on by a man’s discomfort and what you like doing to them to get your kicks...

 

[twister947]

Following this thread, but not out of optimism.

 

[SissySalina]

There is a difference between Hurt and Pain, one is physical and the other is mental.

Do you wish to Hurt or cause Pain?

 

[subcdslut68]

My ex was sadistic and I am masochistic. She had strong orgasms from hurting me and I knew it was my responsibility to give Her those orgasms. She came very strong from hurting my cock and balls or from drawing blood. I made Her gifts of whips made of dead blackberry canes. She had to pick the thorns out of my ass.

 

[Woolmohair]

Men aren't the limit to the pain.
It is always by way of pain that one arrives at pleasure.
Regardless of gender.
I want to hurt them all.

You sre wise, Ma'am.

 

[wallstreetguy]

Anyone who wants to actually hurt someone, either physically or mentally, is not a Dom.
They are mentally ill.
Big difference.

 

[mrsjonnie]

Pain is not always physical. I for one enjoy tieing my partner to the bed so he can't pleasure himself or touch me. I then dress in my tight black wet-look bodysuit, which zips from neck to the base of my spine, spiked high heeled shoes and elbow-length gloves. With him somewhat at my mercy. I play videos that I make him watch of guys with bigger, thicker cocks and young hot tight muscular bodies. I make him watch them in masturbation compilation videos. I tell him how much hotter and bigger they are than him, how much they turn me on more than him. What I would do with and to them. I masturbate next to him as we watch these hot, hot guys. I oil up his cock and edge him for an hour or so. I pull out my big tits and hang them millimetres from his mouth, cock and tied hands. I do the same with my shaved pussy too. I caress, lick, suck and smack his cock and balls. Sometimes I will blindfold him and tell him what I am looking at so he can only hear me masturbating to the videos. On more than one occasion I have webcammed with a hot younger guy and made him watch us play together, tied and helpless to get relief..

Only when I am ready and feel the need will I wank him off...sometimes I get him to the point of cumming and then just leave him to dribble and shake with little or no orgasmic feeling....

I love it...he loves it...with great pleasure comes some pain....

 

[swansong1]

Pain is not always physical. I for one enjoy tieing my partner to the bed so he can't pleasure himself or touch me. I then dress in my tight black wet-look bodysuit, which zips from neck to the base of my spine, spiked high heeled shoes and elbow-length gloves. With him somewhat at my mercy. I play videos that I make him watch of guys with bigger, thicker cocks and young hot tight muscular bodies. I make him watch them in masturbation compilation videos. I tell him how much hotter and bigger they are than him, how much they turn me on more than him. What I would do with and to them. I masturbate next to him as we watch these hot, hot guys. I oil up his cock and edge him for an hour or so. I pull out my big tits and hang them millimetres from his mouth, cock and tied hands. I do the same with my shaved pussy too. I caress, lick, suck and smack his cock and balls. Sometimes I will blindfold him and tell him what I am looking at so he can only hear me masturbating to the videos. On more than one occasion I have webcammed with a hot younger guy and made him watch us play together, tied and helpless to get relief..

Only when I am ready and feel the need will I wank him off...sometimes I get him to the point of cumming and then just leave him to dribble and shake with little or no orgasmic feeling....

I love it...he loves it...with great pleasure comes some pain....

Oh my god! I love you!!!

 

[demarcozs71]

Pain is not always physical. I for one enjoy tieing my partner to the bed so he can't pleasure himself or touch me. I then dress in my tight black wet-look bodysuit, which zips from neck to the base of my spine, spiked high heeled shoes and elbow-length gloves. With him somewhat at my mercy. I play videos that I make him watch of guys with bigger, thicker cocks and young hot tight muscular bodies. I make him watch them in masturbation compilation videos. I tell him how much hotter and bigger they are than him, how much they turn me on more than him. What I would do with and to them. I masturbate next to him as we watch these hot, hot guys. I oil up his cock and edge him for an hour or so. I pull out my big tits and hang them millimetres from his mouth, cock and tied hands. I do the same with my shaved pussy too. I caress, lick, suck and smack his cock and balls. Sometimes I will blindfold him and tell him what I am looking at so he can only hear me masturbating to the videos. On more than one occasion I have webcammed with a hot younger guy and made him watch us play together, tied and helpless to get relief..

Only when I am ready and feel the need will I wank him off...sometimes I get him to the point of cumming and then just leave him to dribble and shake with little or no orgasmic feeling....

I love it...he loves it...with great pleasure comes some pain....

Damn! That is hot!

 

[grandprix1041]

Pain is not always physical. I for one enjoy tieing my partner to the bed so he can't pleasure himself or touch me. I then dress in my tight black wet-look bodysuit, which zips from neck to the base of my spine, spiked high heeled shoes and elbow-length gloves. With him somewhat at my mercy. I play videos that I make him watch of guys with bigger, thicker cocks and young hot tight muscular bodies. I make him watch them in masturbation compilation videos. I tell him how much hotter and bigger they are than him, how much they turn me on more than him. What I would do with and to them. I masturbate next to him as we watch these hot, hot guys. I oil up his cock and edge him for an hour or so. I pull out my big tits and hang them millimetres from his mouth, cock and tied hands. I do the same with my shaved pussy too. I caress, lick, suck and smack his cock and balls. Sometimes I will blindfold him and tell him what I am looking at so he can only hear me masturbating to the videos. On more than one occasion I have webcammed with a hot younger guy and made him watch us play together, tied and helpless to get relief..

Only when I am ready and feel the need will I wank him off...sometimes I get him to the point of cumming and then just leave him to dribble and shake with little or no orgasmic feeling....

I love it...he loves it...with great pleasure comes some pain....

Thanks that was wonderful

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

I got into pain play with an ex but didn't know it because we didn't have the vocabulary for it yet. The first time we had sex, I was bigger than she was used to. She told me it hurts, but I could actually feel her getting MUCH wetter and hot. I asked her if it felt good to hurt and she gasped out a yes.

As time went on, we got into extremely rough play. We were both in very unhappy circumstances in our personal sperate lives and we took it out on each other in the bedroom. Name calling (she was black and we were both bi and I will NEVER repeat the things we said to each other during our hatefuck sessions, we got vicious and personal), hitting (no marks after we got comments on some visible bite marks and a handprint that took 24 hours to fade from my cheek), biting (she said that when she bit my nipples it made my cock swell up thicker like I was going to cum) and I found out how much I really like having my balls squeezed when I get my cock sucked.

But we KNEW this was our bedroom play. Stop always meant stop. This behavior NEVER left the bedroom. We did this instead of spending the night crying in each other's arms over things we couldn't control. We hurt each other because we were the only people we trusted with our pain. I think if we stayed together we would have probably ended up as fixtures in the BDSM scene or making videos.

Eventually we ended our relationship. It had nothing to do with our sex life and everything to do with growing addiction issues. I wanted to break away from the drugs (not a feature in our sex life) and she didn't. I hear she did, eventually and is a Mom with a happy family now.

Pain is a two way street and different for everyone.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

Anyone who wants to actually hurt someone, either physically or mentally, is not a Dom.
They are mentally ill.
Big difference.

Anyone who can’t rein in their desire to hurt someone and doesn’t care if they take it too far has a problem. Any proper sadist follows the rules and respects their sub.