I get tight when I orgasm.

Jada59

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This has never been a problem before, and it has always seemed normal for me. But last night, it caused problems for my BF. We were having anal sex, but he was also playing with my clit and pussy and that makes me cum like crazy!

So apparently, not only does my pussy get tight, but my ass as well. So tight that I kept pushing his cock out. He kept telling me not to tighten! I told him it was his because he was making me cum and I get tight when I cum!

He can't seem to tell when I'm cumming! He was making it sound like it's abnormal to get tight when cumming.

Surely I'm not the only one!
 
I just want to drop in and say good on you for indulging in anal sex. My girlfriend won't entertain the idea. I only have memories of having anal sex with a previous partner.
 
It happens to me too! Big Os makes all the muscles contract... Including the ones back there! Since those are "out" muscles it kind of makes sense that it pushes him out too!
 
Um... every single lover I've ever had has clamped down tighter and tighter the more they cum...

In fact, as I'd understood it back several decades ago when I studied this shit in college, it was perfectly natural and normal for there to be involuntary muscular contractions during more intense sexual arousal and "harder" orgasms. In my personal interactions, that was how I'd always judged whether what we were doing was working, or if we needed to do something else.
 
This has never been a problem before, and it has always seemed normal for me. But last night, it caused problems for my BF. We were having anal sex, but he was also playing with my clit and pussy and that makes me cum like crazy!

So apparently, not only does my pussy get tight, but my ass as well. So tight that I kept pushing his cock out. He kept telling me not to tighten! I told him it was his because he was making me cum and I get tight when I cum!

He can't seem to tell when I'm cumming! He was making it sound like it's abnormal to get tight when cumming.

Surely I'm not the only one!
Jada, sometimes we're just stupid. Probably as new to him as it was to you. Make him smart and for goodness sake don't over think it. Take care and have fun.
 
This has never been a problem before, and it has always seemed normal for me. But last night, it caused problems for my BF. We were having anal sex, but he was also playing with my clit and pussy and that makes me cum like crazy!

So apparently, not only does my pussy get tight, but my ass as well. So tight that I kept pushing his cock out. He kept telling me not to tighten! I told him it was his because he was making me cum and I get tight when I cum!

He can't seem to tell when I'm cumming! He was making it sound like it's abnormal to get tight when cumming.

Surely I'm not the only one!


I only wish I had your problems.


Ben
 
I just want to drop in and say good on you for indulging in anal sex. My girlfriend won't entertain the idea. I only have memories of having anal sex with a previous partner.

Aw... Sorry. To me, it's the dessert of sex!
 
Um... every single lover I've ever had has clamped down tighter and tighter the more they cum...

In fact, as I'd understood it back several decades ago when I studied this shit in college, it was perfectly natural and normal for there to be involuntary muscular contractions during more intense sexual arousal and "harder" orgasms. In my personal interactions, that was how I'd always judged whether what we were doing was working, or if we needed to do something else.

Thanks! That's what I thought. I'm starting to think he has never been with a woman who had orgasms before.
 
Jada, sometimes we're just stupid. Probably as new to him as it was to you. Make him smart and for goodness sake don't over think it. Take care and have fun.

Ohhh... We had fun. We still talking about it today! :D
 
This has never been a problem before, and it has always seemed normal for me. But last night, it caused problems for my BF. We were having anal sex, but he was also playing with my clit and pussy and that makes me cum like crazy!

So apparently, not only does my pussy get tight, but my ass as well. So tight that I kept pushing his cock out. He kept telling me not to tighten! I told him it was his because he was making me cum and I get tight when I cum!

He can't seem to tell when I'm cumming! He was making it sound like it's abnormal to get tight when cumming.

Surely I'm not the only one!
Jada, it’s quite normal. We contract everything in that general area when the orgasm is happening - pussy, asshole, urethra, everything! Tell him that’s a good thing. ;)
 
This has never been a problem before, and it has always seemed normal for me. But last night, it caused problems for my BF. We were having anal sex, but he was also playing with my clit and pussy and that makes me cum like crazy!

So apparently, not only does my pussy get tight, but my ass as well. So tight that I kept pushing his cock out. He kept telling me not to tighten! I told him it was his because he was making me cum and I get tight when I cum!

He can't seem to tell when I'm cumming! He was making it sound like it's abnormal to get tight when cumming.

Surely I'm not the only one!

very normal

as old as you are, you really don't know that much about the human body

I think you should probably read up on the functions of the human body
 
very normal

as old as you are, you really don't know that much about the human body

I think you should probably read up on the functions of the human body

I thought I knew, but he's almost ass old as me and he made it seem abnormal.
 
Sweetie, when you have "settled down" from your orgasm, just give him a sexy grin and tell him "put it back in":kiss:
 
Sweetie, when you have "settled down" from your orgasm, just give him a sexy grin and tell him "put it back in":kiss:

But that doesn't happen. I cum very quickly and repeatedly. I don'tthink I've ever had just one orgasm, and he kept stimulating me.
 
hey...

Not really complaining. Just told me to stop doing it.

the next time he tells you to stop tightening, climb up on his chest while he's laying down clamp your legs on either side of him while you straddle his chest, then put your hands over his mouth/nose and tell him to stop breathing. Then explain how the body functions to him.
 
Sweetie, when you have "settled down" from your orgasm, just give him a sexy grin and tell him "put it back in":kiss:

This! My wife does this after having one, and she's usually about to have another. At that point, she's in pure sexual lust and I last about 20 seconds before blasting inside her. That's her trigger for her second.
 
the next time he tells you to stop tightening, climb up on his chest while he's laying down clamp your legs on either side of him while you straddle his chest, then put your hands over his mouth/nose and tell him to stop breathing. Then explain how the body functions to him.

Hehehe.
 
I had sex a few times with a woman like that. When she would come, her vaginal muscles would narrow the canal almost totally shut. It kept forcing my penis out, until I finally figured out that when she starting coming, I needed to shove it all the way in. Mmmmmm, that was fantastic. :heart:
 
I also get considerably tighter after my first orgasm. If the first one is non-penetrative, which is often the case, I like to be penetrated afterward to "loosen me up" again. It's a very sexy feeling.
 
The science...

If you look at an egg...which side comes out first? The big side or the little? Answer...the big.

When a baby is born...which comes out first? The head...or feet? The head (yea i know...there are exceptions)

Why? Because there is more surface area for the muscles to push on on the small side of the egg and the rest of the baby's body.

So tell him...if he wasn't so damn big...there would be less surface area for you to push him out. Then everyone is happy
 
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