Intellectual Intercourse

[jenai88]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

 

[mynameisben]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

Intellectual intercourse is so hot. You must be pretty smart. I just want to rub my dick all over your cranium.


Ben

 

[AllTheBetterNamesWereTaken]

Honestly....
Based on experience so far, I'm going to say no.
I LOVE discourse, and ideas, and all that jazz. Happily chat for days, but there's no erotica in it- the intellectual is the point in and of itself.

Erotica is kind of about a "You and me, only us" kind of thing, whereas "Intellectual" is kind of... the ideas want to run free? the ideas want to be universal, a connection to the world at large?


Hmmmmmm.... except maybe a bank heist. If you were planning a bank heist, or soemthing else that was... stimulating, but also just a touch transgressive.
Basically, I haven't seen a good example of this written... and I haven't experienced it in person... but now you've got me thinking, and seeing if I can write this in to a story, and figure out...

I'm not sure I would describe "agreement" as the climax however- to me that moment is "understanding"- which may come to one, then the other at different times, or may even be in contradiction- two people each coming to a different understanding from the conversation, or coming to an understanding *of each other*.

Damn it, now you've got me thinking, and I'm meant to be going to be and sleeping. This is terrible D:

 

[Hipshot1554]

First exchanges are critical. Text conversations are so easily misunderstood. I had one that only lasted for two or three PMs, but I tried it again later and we have been friends ever since.

First impressions are hard enough in person, but harder still in text messages.

 

[Bewleybrother]

Heard something relative to this thread about communication from "Boy George" on tv last night.
He said about "Marilyn","he was intelligent,but not emotionally intelligent and that is something you have to learn".

 

[JeffyD1959]

Intellectual response

I think I can agree with you that intellectual intercourse can be hot with conditions. First I believe there would be some differences in thought to how it’s played and the outcome. I think women have a tendency to get off on the words and the feelings they get from those words. Men, I think, tend to get off on the words and the visions those words produce.
I once had a year long online affair with a woman from England. We met on Pinterest of all places. She was impressed because of a discussion with another person, who was going on about how great America is and if you didn’t like it, you should just leave. Now, I love my Country but there are many things wrong here. I asked him which America he was talking about as there are many American Countries, and that I was a US citizen. That impressed her enough to continue emailing each other. Simple talk, normal things, led to light flirting, then heavy flirty then online sex. There was love involved that lasted about a year and has drifted back to now talking as friends.
I guess, what I’m saying is, for most men the talk would probably become more sexual and culminating in sexual release for both parties. The of course, the question becomes, now we reached this level of intimacy, where do we go from here. Was this a one time thing, do we continue, do we work towards more?
So then, the balls in your court. PM me if you have interest in speaking more with me.
Jeff

 

[LTMMC]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

Dear Jenai, one can talk about intercoursing intellectually until the cows come home. But two people cannot resolve anything really, until they try it. Should you be up for trying this with me, drop me a PM. And we'll get going, between the two of us.

 

[rdd56]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

I love it! I know this is two years old, but I hope you're still around and will reply to me.

 

[Redeye2k2]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

Hi Jennifer, I'd like to chat if you are interested.

 

[Jonnymc]

Hhm,,, this topic definitely caught my eye. Good job on posting the topic , also if done properly this can almost be a form of tantric sex ,. Arousal comes in many forms at times. A good push and pull go great along with a bit of back and forth, LoL. I wonder what should be done ground work guidelines on this area, or is there any limits. All I know is there are only some people in and some people in the way. You could almost call this a form of female domination, because for a man there is a certain delayed gratification happening that is being controlled by the woman yet allowed by the man here. The thrill of the moment for the man and his time devoted to the intellectual intercourse is not natural to his desires of engagement here. It's almost like a hunter who gives his prey s meal before the ........ Good topic tho thanks for posting I'm sure you will have good talks on this subject

 

[nicechat]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

No, but it can similarly result in a deep restful sleep.

 

[Jonnymc]

Is intellectual intercourse as erotic as it sounds?

The first steps of a conversation between two attracted parties initiating the flow of communication resulting in verbal foreplay. The discussion itself, an act of stroking each partner, taking enjoyment in the topic as it is discussed, or simply enjoying the company of the other and listening to them speak. One discovers some new information on a topic, or simply reaches the point in which one person has an agreement, this is the climax, the intellectual orgasm if you will.

The imagery of the dance between two parties conversing could quite possibly be titillating! There are so many ways and levels in which we engage and share eroticism.

For most men I think this would seem to be a form a fem dom due to the parameters of sexual or erotica in nature it would be like tantric sex or edging cause here is an example a hunter does not find an animal as prey then start making his bullets and putting his weapon together, sighting in his scope cleaning the barrel loading the weapon then ..... Engaging in great conversation is amazing when both parties are enjoying as well as being aroused it's definitely a turn on and leads to pre cum but most men have a hard time operating two brains at the same time and normally the brain downstairs demands all the blood flow lol

 

[Jonnymc]

For most men I think this would seem to be a form a fem dom due to the parameters of sexual or erotica in nature it would be like tantric sex or edging cause here is an example a hunter does not find an animal as prey then start making his bullets and putting his weapon together, sighting in his scope cleaning the barrel loading the weapon then ..... Engaging in great conversation is amazing when both parties are enjoying as well as being aroused it's definitely a turn on and leads to pre cum but most men have a hard time operating two brains at the same time and normally the brain downstairs demands all the blood flow lol

Also in such as follows that is not to say a women with a great sense of information and intellectual ability in communication in relation with conversation is not a very sexy trait when romance is in the air it can be a big turn on or a foot in the door to sex for a man, but for me I am a lover of dirty talk and descriptive sex so I would enjoy but as long as the man knows when the oven is warm and it's time to bake the bun,,,,, z