What age did you reach sexual peak?

[Shenanigans90]

I have always has a really high sex drive and at 45 it has not waned. I was always told a lot women reached theirs 30 to 35 years old. I’m curious to hear everyone’s age.

 

[nymphMistress]

Peak

I am a mature woman and I still haven’t reached my peak, I love, love, love where I currently am and hope I remain here. Mmmmmmmmm

 

[FunLi]

https://i.imgur.com/OIkPSmI.gif

This made me giggle, haha

 

[FunLi]

You're back?

Maybe? Never know these days.

 

[NorthernVAM]

Here is my answer ...

Here is a graphic that describes my experience. For me there are different variables involved when you are talking about sexual performance, and so you really need to define which variables you are talking about more clearly.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1-9wv0CsITNI_CKINPRdKOvP0HrXGnb8e/view?usp=sharing

I'm not sure how to do inline graphics, but if you look at the chart, when I was younger, my physical abilities were more robust, while my actual skill was lacking due to lack of experience. Over time, I've gained more skill, and subsequently have gotten more overall pleasure from my experiences, but simultaneously my physical performance capabilities have diminished.

So then, when you define "peak" what are we measuring the "peak" of? If it is just the ability to get and maintain an erection, my bet would be that most men, if not all follow a pattern where their "quality" and "frequency" of there erections diminish as they age for a number of reasons, including hormones, etc. that you can't really control, although you can compensate for it some.

If it the definition is more holistic, then you get into some of the advantages of age and experience, such as confidence and sexual skills that someone who is younger doesn't have. I mean, what good is an erection if you don't know all the ways you can skillfully use it?

Also, I think as you get older, the satisfaction with sex becomes less about the genitals and more about the quality of the interaction between the two human beings, and their ability to connect on a very sexual level. What good is it to be with a woman who is multi-orgasmic if you don't have the skills to understand how to get her to have multiple orgasms, or you don't even know what multiple orgasms are?

 

[30bandits]

This made me giggle, haha

is that your answer too?

 

[Shenanigans90]

Here is a graphic that describes my experience. For me there are different variables involved when you are talking about sexual performance, and so you really need to define which variables you are talking about more clearly.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1-9wv0CsITNI_CKINPRdKOvP0HrXGnb8e/view?usp=sharing

I'm not sure how to do inline graphics, but if you look at the chart, when I was younger, my physical abilities were more robust, while my actual skill was lacking due to lack of experience. Over time, I've gained more skill, and subsequently have gotten more overall pleasure from my experiences, but simultaneously my physical performance capabilities have diminished.

So then, when you define "peak" what are we measuring the "peak" of? If it is just the ability to get and maintain an erection, my bet would be that most men, if not all follow a pattern where their "quality" and "frequency" of there erections diminish as they age for a number of reasons, including hormones, etc. that you can't really control, although you can compensate for it some.

If it the definition is more holistic, then you get into some of the advantages of age and experience, such as confidence and sexual skills that someone who is younger doesn't have. I mean, what good is an erection if you don't know all the ways you can skillfully use it?

Also, I think as you get older, the satisfaction with sex becomes less about the genitals and more about the quality of the interaction between the two human beings, and their ability to connect on a very sexual level. What good is it to be with a woman who is multi-orgasmic if you don't have the skills to understand how to get her to have multiple orgasms, or you don't even know what multiple orgasms are?

I realize most men are sex crazy from 16 years old until death. I was really asking at what age group most women on here experienced their highest sex drive.

 

[FunLi]

Well, glad you're back. Don't let the bastards drag you down.

I’m trying not to

is that your answer too?

You caught that, huh?

Absolutely...not

 

[wallstreetguy]

Not there yet.

 

[oldnotdead47]

From age 20-35 I wanted it always and could always rise to the occasion.

From age 35-55, I was often too tired, too busy, but could still rise to the occasion.

Post age 55 has been a struggle. My wife was very ill for a long time so I just forgot about it. After she died (3 years ago) my libido has gone haywire and I think about sex all the time. I've had two relationships and between my age and all of the fucking meds for my prostate, it was a struggle.

Now, I stopped the meds and I'm hard often. But, as the saying goes, there's lead in my pencil but I have no place to write.

 

[StarGazer58]

You could say that I am not as good as I once was, but I am as good once as I ever was.

 

[lanceGibs]

I realize most men are sex crazy from 16 years old until death. I was really asking at what age group most women on here experienced their highest sex drive.

You have something against men?

 

[Shenanigans90]

No sir, you give your opinion. I just figured most men here would say theirs never waned.

 

[lanceGibs]

No sir, you give your opinion. I just figured most men here would say theirs never waned.

Appreciate your candor and tact in dealing with my troll question.
I have known women whose drive tends to stay longer than others.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

My early to mid 30s and again now at 48. Guess I am having my perimenopausal resurgence .

 

[Shenanigans90]

Appreciate your candor and tact in dealing with my troll question.
I have known women whose drive tends to stay longer than others.

Thank you! I was hoping I didn’t offend you.

 

[Rainydaythings]

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[Bearded_Warr1or]

Sex DEFINITELY gets better as you get older! More relaxed, experimental, experienced and open minded... Im 45 and its way better than in my 20s... and lasts longer!!

 

[Shenanigans90]

My early to mid 30s and again now at 48. Guess I am having my perimenopausal resurgence .

Hopefully someone is getting to enjoy your resurgence.

 

[Shenanigans90]

I might have been slightly hotter in my twenties but my thirties have been way more fun. The peak, though? I hope not.

I am 45 now and sex is still as important as ever.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Sex DEFINITELY gets better as you get older! More relaxed, experimental, experienced and open minded... Im 45 and its way better than in my 20s... and lasts longer!!

I definitely agree

Thanks to everyone who took the time to answer. I was hoping the ladies here might convince me that my wife’s sex drive would increase in the years to come.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Thank you for your responses. I was hoping the ladies here could give me hope that my wife’s sex drive would increase in the years to come.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Hopefully someone is getting to enjoy your resurgence.

Unfortunately not. No one got to enjoy my initial peak either. But I sure enjoy myself anyway.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Unfortunately not. No one got to enjoy my initial peak either. But I sure enjoy myself anyway.

I bet you find someone who appreciates you soon.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I was hoping the ladies here could give me hope that my wife’s sex drive would increase in the years to come.

Every woman is different. As women age, hormone levels change and it can affect her sex drive. If this is something that concerns here, she should should talk to her doctor.