Flirting.....

[Vman55]

I moved this from the General thread............

A couple of weeks ago I was in a restaraunt. I kinda felt these "eyes" on me. Well as I turned around there was this lady at a nearby table checking me out with her husband at the table. Hubby was staring at his cell phone. So our eyes met several times during dinner and as I went to pay my ticket she was in line ahead of me and turned and smiled. When she was finished with her check and turned to me and I said hi. She just looked at me with those eyes and walked out the door.

This happens Im sure on occasion to both men and women. I've done it with women before.

1. Do you think this is just a little flirt game that is enjoyed?
2. Do you do this?
3. Is this a "safe" flirt for the person doing it?
4. Do you enjoy this type of flirtation?

 

[Sheana_V]

1. Do you think this is just a little flirt game that is enjoyed?

Are you asking if it could have led to something else? Maybe. I've certainly been eyefucked by someone while they're with a partner and had it go somewhere else, but most of the time it's just flirting.

2. Do you do this?
Yes, but I'm polyamorous and only do this with partners who are okay with it. I do encourage it if someone does it to me.

3. Is this a "safe" flirt for the person doing it?
Most of them are probably getting off on the fact they're doing something they can reasonably deny if caught. So it's safe in the sense that it allows them to break the rules without getting in trouble.

4. Do you enjoy this type of flirtation?
Yes, it's a huge turn on.

 

[Vman55]

Are you asking if it could have led to something else? Maybe. I've certainly been eyefucked by someone while they're with a partner and had it go somewhere else, but most of the time it's just flirting.

No not necessarily I have it happen several times and I get a good thrill out of it.

 

[wallstreetguy]

Before the Plague, NYC subway was a flirtation paradise. I cannot count how many times women would eye contact and then either shyly look away or brazenly stare. Sometimes with their friends obliviously talking and everyone else around us not paying attention or caring.
Once, when I had a lot on my mind, a very attractive young woman kept smiling but I could not muster anything bc I was so consumed with my life. I later told a female colleague that I almost went up to her and apologized for not flirting back. I felt it was only polite since she kept looking and wondering why I would not at least smile.
Now, everything is haywire in NYC and I stay away from subways due to crime, not disease.
I do miss it. It was a great little game.

 

[Vman55]

Yea I get a good feelin..............happened again in a restaraunt. I walked in the front door with my mom(she is 80) she and I are the only family left. Once a week I take her to dinner.

This particular evening, about a week ago walking in that door to sign up for a table I caught the eye of a attractive lady with no bra on. Her nipples were large and of course I took a good look at them. When our eyes met she had the "lustful" look in her eyes and it turned me on.

Anyway mom and I got our booth and sat down. Low and behold she and her hubby sat down at a booth across the isle. We made eyes at each other and I went to the bathroom, came out and she was going in. I said too bad your married and she said I know right. She said thanks for the flirting I will dream of it later and walked into the ladies restroom.

I have thought about this for several days. Good times.