So bored during the day...

[TooShyGirl]

Since schools are closed, I'm home all day helping my daughter with her virtual school work. I miss feeling like a woman. I forgot what passion feels like. I try to push it down, but the thoughts pop into my mind..

 

[2Hedonists]

It's hard to calm the thoughts. Desire can be so powerful.

 

[sereneheartbeat]

Hopefully the vaccine helps and we get buck to somewhat normal again.

 

[Shenanigans90]

I feel your pain. I am so ready to get out and socialize again. I think it is important for you to make time for yourself. There is nothing more sexy in a woman than passion and confidence. You are a beautiful and sexy woman, strut your stuff girl.

 

[NorthernVAM]

Creating a passionate woman ...

Since schools are closed, I'm home all day helping my daughter with her virtual school work. I miss feeling like a woman. I forgot what passion feels like. I try to push it down, but the thoughts pop into my mind..

Hey Shy,

I can send you some of my work to do today since I'm in the middle of trying to get over my procrastination at starting my day. I have to do some serious writing today for work, and believe me, while it may be a work of creative fiction (it's instructions for vaporware at the moment), it's not the fun type of creative fiction.

One suggestion that I have that might ignite your interest and your creative juices is to sit down and start to write down the experiences that you would like to have that would make you "feel like a woman" and remind you of what passion feels like to you.

Rather than try to suppress those feelings, why not let them out and give them a creative outlet? I've always found that when I try to suppress what I'm feeling, those feelings never go away, they just keep coming back with a vengeance. However, when I've written something that allows those feelings to come out, and have a voice, even if that voice is just on paper, they tend to eventually diminish as go away. The neat thing is that in the process, I've always found that I've discovered something about myself during the creative writing process.

Allowing those feelings to come out also helps with clarity. Once you have the feelings down on paper, you can then work with them to figure out what might be able to help satisfy those feelings. For example, do you need a romantic weekend getaway to a local motel with your husband? If that's the case, you could think about how you would dress up, what outfit(s) you would want to wear for him (in and out of the bedroom), maybe what it would be like to get ready for him, such as manicure, pedicure, and maybe even a waxing?

While he might enjoy some of the fruits of your imagination, the more important thing is that you've let your imagination tell you what would make you feel more like a woman, and then you can choose to make yourself feel more like a woman by doing some of the things that your imagination comes up with. In reality, it's the preparation for the weekend, not the consumption of the weekend, where a lot of the joy can reside.

The best analogy I have is that it's like cooking a good meal. When I cook, I enjoy it when someone enjoys eating it, but most of my pleasure comes in creating something that they want to eat, while them enjoying it is kind of a "bonus". On that note, you might benefit from creating a "passionate woman" that most men would lust after and want to take into the bedroom.

Just my two cents.

 

[LTMMC]

Since schools are closed, I'm home all day helping my daughter with her virtual school work. I miss feeling like a woman. I forgot what passion feels like. I try to push it down, but the thoughts pop into my mind..

Dear Too Shy Woman, I had wanted to write you something like NorthernVAM did, but he phrased his words far better than I could have done that.

So my only suggestion is now: heed his words And you should be in fine shape. And should some horny feelings evolve inside yourself, while writing down all the thoughts on your mind, don't hesitate to allow your fingers a visit with your clit!

 

[NorthernVAM]

Dear Too Shy Woman, I had wanted to write you something like NorthernVAM did, but he phrased his words far better than I could have done that.

So my only suggestion is now: heed his words And you should be in fine shape. And should some horny feelings evolve inside yourself, while writing down all the thoughts on your mind, don't hesitate to allow your fingers a visit with your clit!

LTMMC,

Thanks for the kind words, but I just went back and re-read what I wrote, and I've come to the conclusion that I really do need an editor to review my stream of consciousness writing. My mind tends to work faster than my fingers, and so sometimes what I think I've written and what I've actually written are two different things.

Not all the sentences are complete, and I do tend to drop a few words here and there, mostly prepositions -- but even so, it irks my slightly perfectionist inner critic. He doesn't like to look like he's ignorant or illiterate.

 

[Countryforlife]

Since schools are closed, I'm home all day helping my daughter with her virtual school work. I miss feeling like a woman. I forgot what passion feels like. I try to push it down, but the thoughts pop into my mind..

Sent you a PM

 

[LTMMC]

LTMMC,

Thanks for the kind words, but I just went back and re-read what I wrote, and I've come to the conclusion that I really do need an editor to review my stream of consciousness writing. My mind tends to work faster than my fingers, and so sometimes what I think I've written and what I've actually written are two different things.

Not all the sentences are complete, and I do tend to drop a few words here and there, mostly prepositions -- but even so, it irks my slightly perfectionist inner critic. He doesn't like to look like he's ignorant or illiterate.

Noble intentions for sure. But your substance hit the mark already

 

[sexywriterfla]

Since schools are closed, I'm home all day helping my daughter with her virtual school work. I miss feeling like a woman. I forgot what passion feels like. I try to push it down, but the thoughts pop into my mind..

Sorry to hear this. Feel free to reach out if you'd like.