the thought of another person during sex

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Do you ever share fantasies / thoughts about other people you know in bed. I always like to mention to my wife, guys we know in bed with her, or us in a 3sum.
 
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my wife and I often talk about our friends and family during sex what we think they would be like in bed who we would like to fuck etc adds to the fun
 
My ex cuckolded me and would often talk in great detail about her sexual exploits with other men and women when we were engaged in sex play.
 
I think about my wife with an assortment of other women
I worked with a woman who shared that she was lesbian curious, and she thought of this other mature female boss she wanted to have sex with. I got so hard and started right away imagining her with my wife. Thinking of my wife going down on this work friend. My wife say's YUK! to thinking of eating another woman's pussy, and that makes my fantasy ever stronger. Of cause it's all exciting in the fantasy, thinking of my wife forced to eat pussy, then she ends up getting excited and wet. My wife submitting to my mature work friend, and she makes my wife orgasm.
 
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My ex cuckolded me and would often talk in great detail about her sexual exploits with other men and women when we were engaged in sex play.
That would be so hot to hear my wife talking about other guys she fucked, but my wife was a virgin back in 72 when we met. I know she gave one of her bosses a blow job years ago when we were fighting and not having sex. Then there was this other guy a few years ago where she worked that she really liked. He was also calling her late at night every once in a while, so I was jacking off thinking she was cuckolding me with him.
 
My wife had a coworker she would fantasize about. I loved it when she would call me his name while I fucked her.
 
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Do you ever share fantasies / thoughts about other people you know in bed. I always like to mention to my wife, guys we know in bed with her, or us in a 3sum.

Noooo, not me---, not with her anyway. The last time I tried that, it led to a fight that lasted from 1980 to just about my birthday 1992. Just as well with talking taken out of our sex time it forces me to concentrate more effort on her.
 
Our pillow talk almost always includes some discussions of others we have had, or would like to have, sex with. We’ve compared notes about one particular guy in our past that we had independent adventures with on a few occasions. I love it when she shares stories about an ongoing thing she had with a co-worker many years ago. All good fun.
 
We've done lots of roleplay stuff, usually strangers. Occasionally she likes to mention one of her colleagues or boss.
 
I know my wife thinks of other men while we are having sex. That might hurt most men’s egos. But I think it’s hot! And I love it when I coerce her into using other men’s names!
 
I know my wife thinks of other men while we are having sex. That might hurt most men’s egos. But I think it’s hot! And I love it when I coerce her into using other men’s names!

Do you ever do any role play with a blindfold? I had an ex that liked to be tied up and blindfolded... and then it'd be my challenge to increase the illusion that it's someone else... like quickly shaving after having gotten scruffy for a while, or using a cologne, or some piece of clothing or chain or something that I don't wear, but she could feel, etc.

If I had today's smart phone technology back then, I'd find a voice actor to record a whole range of appropriate voice clips that I could choose from... she'd have liked that I think.

Of course, she also liked the "forced" part of that.

I wonder if you should have a picture of her lover on your bedside table so she can look at it while saying his name. That would be a nice view... her sitting on top of you, saying his name, then reaching over and picking up his picture while grinding on top.

Of course, the best would just be for her to facetime or zoom him and let him know she's thinking about him. :)
 
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When I need to cum and having trouble to or want to really pound I picture the woman is my sister.
 
When I need to cum and having trouble to or want to really pound I picture the woman is my sister.

Whatever floats your boat. I conjure up past lovers, fantasy acquaintances, and movie and TV stars. My wife does the same. It's human nature, and neither of us sees a problem with it.
 
Love thinking about my wife with other guys - that's a quick way to a good hrad orgasm.
 
Thinking of others

Well after being married for 20 years. Sometimes I think of others to change things a little. He probably does too. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Its like guys watching porn and girls getting turn on by a hot guy.
 
I think about my wife with an assortment of other women

My wife & I would do that was well. Though she had a facination with me fucking them. I was more into the idea of watching her with another woman or joining her in helping make that woman cum with my mouth & hands. I can't really think of fucking another woman, but eatting their pussy, I am there.
 
My wife & I would do that was well. Though she had a facination with me fucking them. I was more into the idea of watching her with another woman or joining her in helping make that woman cum with my mouth & hands. I can't really think of fucking another woman, but eatting their pussy, I am there.

That's a really interesting scenario you presented there.

Have you tried to fulfil her fantasy by having your wife "assist" you, and you help her in return?

If penetration can fit with your sexual identity, your wife could take you with her hand, slide you into that other woman, and physically direct your movements. You could be a conduit for her fantasy and a proxy for her need to have you fuck a woman.

In turn, you might be able to be more passive with your own actions, and help your wife as and when you decide to.

... it might be a nice compromise if that made ANY sense at all!
 
That's a really interesting scenario you presented there.

Have you tried to fulfil her fantasy by having your wife "assist" you, and you help her in return?

If penetration can fit with your sexual identity, your wife could take you with her hand, slide you into that other woman, and physically direct your movements. You could be a conduit for her fantasy and a proxy for her need to have you fuck a woman.

In turn, you might be able to be more passive with your own actions, and help your wife as and when you decide to.

... it might be a nice compromise if that made ANY sense at all!

I kind of see what your saying, but it only was ever explored in pillow talk. Though she did have a couple bi encounters without me, which I was happy for. ;)
 
Do you ever do any role play with a blindfold? I had an ex that liked to be tied up and blindfolded... and then it'd be my challenge to increase the illusion that it's someone else... like quickly shaving after having gotten scruffy for a while, or using a cologne, or some piece of clothing or chain or something that I don't wear, but she could feel, etc.

If I had today's smart phone technology back then, I'd find a voice actor to record a whole range of appropriate voice clips that I could choose from... she'd have liked that I think.

Of course, she also liked the "forced" part of that.

I wonder if you should have a picture of her lover on your bedside table so she can look at it while saying his name. That would be a nice view... her sitting on top of you, saying his name, then reaching over and picking up his picture while grinding on top.

Of course, the best would just be for her to facetime or zoom him and let him know she's thinking about him. :)
I like these ideas.
 
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