thoughts on pornography

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So I am a divorced mom of 2, and 39 years old. My current sex life is pretty much restricted to masturbating late at night to pornography, or reading stories here and masturbating.

I know a lot of people like amateur porn, but I have had a lot of sex with 'normal' and average guys. When I go to watch people having sex, I want them to be beautiful and hot.

I prefer slim and muscular men with nice muscles and large cocks. I mean, if you are going to fantasize, why not go big :) I prefer slim women with small breasts and nice tight asses, and I like every to be smooth.

Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?
 
I agree with you. I want my porn to be professional in all manners: good looking people, nice sets, good lighting, good camera work.

If I want to watch ugly people having sex in a shabby environment, I'll put a mirror over my bed.
 
I think its only fair. I too like to see small tits smooth pussy and even big cocks. I know I am a male but I enjoy that too. also prefer everybody shaved and cock should be cut.. I love to jerk while watching. and reading the stories here get me started
 
So I am a divorced mom of 2, and 39 years old. My current sex life is pretty much restricted to masturbating late at night to pornography, or reading stories here and masturbating.

I know a lot of people like amateur porn, but I have had a lot of sex with 'normal' and average guys. When I go to watch people having sex, I want them to be beautiful and hot.

I prefer slim and muscular men with nice muscles and large cocks. I mean, if you are going to fantasize, why not go big :) I prefer slim women with small breasts and nice tight asses, and I like every to be smooth.

Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?

Not all men fantasize about "perfect" women. I'm no Ken and I certainly don't want Barbie. More often than not my sessions revolve around a woman I've seen in a store or walking down the street.

I don't believe anyone is perfect but hey whatever works for you.
 
It doesnt have to be perfect in amateur but put the effort in. Lingerie and makeup are great, good lighting is awesome, but clean up the floor, turn off the clock radio, and lock up the dog...
 
My preference is petite women with small tits and shaved pussy, and I love to see men with small cocks perform.
I'm a bigger guy with a "normal" size cock but I think because of my history the small cocks and teeny tits petite women gets me leaking faster than anything.
 
and if the sound is only "oh oh and yes yes" I like to hear more words than moan
 
So I am a divorced mom of 2, and 39 years old. My current sex life is pretty much restricted to masturbating late at night to pornography, or reading stories here and masturbating.

I know a lot of people like amateur porn, but I have had a lot of sex with 'normal' and average guys. When I go to watch people having sex, I want them to be beautiful and hot.

I prefer slim and muscular men with nice muscles and large cocks. I mean, if you are going to fantasize, why not go big :) I prefer slim women with small breasts and nice tight asses, and I like every to be smooth.

Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?

My push back on professional porn is that it doesn’t seem real. Fake moaning and looks to camera. Cheesy plots and dialogue. I prefer amateur because it feels like I’m actually watching a real couple. I get to share in their passion and imperfect beauty.

To each his/her own, just my preference.
 
My push back on professional porn is that it doesn’t seem real. Fake moaning and looks to camera. Cheesy plots and dialogue. I prefer amateur because it feels like I’m actually watching a real couple. I get to share in their passion and imperfect beauty.

To each his/her own, just my preference.

well, i think that is nice. but i am pretty sure when a guy orgasms, its not faked :)
 
Porn?

The porn I have watched, I would classify as pretty stupid. No imagination, no story. That's why I prefer erotica. It stimulates the imagination. There is a story I can get lost in. Anyways, that's just me. Everything I write is in a screenplay format because the finished work is audio. And not just one person trying to change their voice, but a separate voice for each character.

By the way, I'm very new here an if anyone knows how to upload my audio productions, I sure would appreciate the info.
 
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Not faked? You haven't seen the ones where he is concealing a small hose under his cock that shoots out about a gallon of white goo? Actually it's sort of comical.
 
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I like realistic scenarios

which are hard to find. I like to see people having fun and getting off. The women do not have to be perfect. Just sexy and real, same with the guys.
 
hey ...

So I am a divorced mom of 2, and 39 years old. My current sex life is pretty much restricted to masturbating late at night to pornography, or reading stories here and masturbating.

I know a lot of people like amateur porn, but I have had a lot of sex with 'normal' and average guys. When I go to watch people having sex, I want them to be beautiful and hot.

I prefer slim and muscular men with nice muscles and large cocks. I mean, if you are going to fantasize, why not go big :) I prefer slim women with small breasts and nice tight asses, and I like every to be smooth.

Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?

I fantasize over FINDING a 'perfect' woman more than i fantasize about having sex with a perfect woman...
 
I used to watch porn every day at least for a few minutes. Now I go weeks without looking at it. I have completely lost interest in it. Not sure why.
 
Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?
Nothing wrong with that! We enjoy what we enjoy. Make the best of your "me" time.

I often seek variety: sex outdoors, girls with body tattoos and pussy tattoos, skinny couples, overweight couples, people in furry outfits, girls next door vs whores, a girl with lots of guys vs a guy with lots of girls, etc... The available variety and amazing.
 
I've never really watched porn a lot, especially as a medium that I jack off to while watching. I always feel a bit disappointed, and I think it's that my own wank fantasies tend to have subtleties and nuances that realistically can't be replicated in a video (makes sense, they never produced it for me lol). I'm more likely to be turned on by a photo, possibly suggestive rather than overtly sexual, that becomes the subject of my own wank fantasy. If all of that makes any sense at all.
 
I think it is rather good that there is such a variety out there. Let everyone fantasize and get off on the kind of (legal) porn that they want. For me, professional porn often does little for me while amateurs that look like you and me can turn me on insanely. To me it is more about being true, raw and blunt rather than stylized.
 
I'm a gym freak and inked... and I do appreciated a woman who is well honed at the gym.

Having said that, honestly, I don't watch a lot of porn at all because it's so fake, the woman hardly ever masturbates or orgasms. Much prefer amateur, with the next door bodies. It's relatable.
 
So I am a divorced mom of 2, and 39 years old. My current sex life is pretty much restricted to masturbating late at night to pornography, or reading stories here and masturbating.

I know a lot of people like amateur porn, but I have had a lot of sex with 'normal' and average guys. When I go to watch people having sex, I want them to be beautiful and hot.

I prefer slim and muscular men with nice muscles and large cocks. I mean, if you are going to fantasize, why not go big :) I prefer slim women with small breasts and nice tight asses, and I like every to be smooth.

Men fantasize over perfect women... why cant women do the same?

Go for it! Like what you like and don't apologize!

That being said, a lot of porn is a turn off for me. I don't appreciate the poor acting and the over the top fake feeling a lot of it has.

I really like the work that Erica Lust does. Her porn is much more real feeling and is very focused on safe and equitable treatment of the performers. She also approaches taboo topics.

Certainly not knocking typical porn, I get that people like it, I just prefer her work.
 
I agree with the amateur porn thing, they don’t have to look perfect as long as they are actually enjoying themselves. That said, a lot of amateur porn isn’t amateur from the standpoint of the actors, but it is amateur from a production stand point which loses something.
 
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