Bisexual and/or bicurious in Kansas

[Friendly2good_people]

Come on, folks, there MUST be some bi and/or bicurious men out there.
Personally, looking for a sexy bottom who has a fem side and enjoys being treated nicely.
Want to be mutual, in the oral department, with the right person would enjoy touching and kissing, but especially 69... shouldn't be difficult.
Come on, think about how much fun it can be...

 

[springly77]

Fem

Hello,

I love to dress and be fem. I'm also from Kansas. Someone to dress for on a regular basis would be perfect with me.

 

[Jaime1493]

I think about it every day, but I am married, and it would have to be another married guy, that wants a close friendship first. It would be nice if we shared some hobbies. I love frotting, kissing, all sorts of fun. BUT I have to be really discreet, and most of the time cannot host.

 

[alicesweetness]

Lenexa KS

Mature bi married looking for someone who likes to dress up and kiss hug
I’m looking for friend first and see where things go

 

[Jaime1493]

So where in KS are you? I am near Lawrence. I'd enjoy watching you dress as well. I have panties I wear sometimes. I am married, no 2 legged kids, retired. Wife works, I don't. Would have to be good friends first.

 

[alicesweetness]

So where in KS are you? I am near Lawrence. I'd enjoy watching you dress as well. I have panties I wear sometimes. I am married, no 4 legged kids, retired. Wife works, I don't. Would have to be good friends first.

I’m in Lenexa I’m retired wife lost her job so I’m Uber driving makes getting away easy without a lot of questions if you’re interested let me know we can meet for coffee sometime

 

[chidomfortoy]

I’m in Lenexa I’m retired wife lost her job so I’m Uber driving makes getting away easy without a lot of questions if you’re interested let me know we can meet for coffee sometime

Unfortunately I can't message you. I'm a married 35 guy from chicago who is very kinky and fun. Please send me a message if you're interested

Nick

 

[alicesweetness]

Unfortunately I can't message you. I'm a married 35 guy from chicago who is very kinky and fun. Please send me a message if you're interested

Nick

You’re far away from Kansas

 

[Jaime1493]

Best of luck. I hope things get better for you and your wife. I am retired, my wife is still working which is best for us.

 

[alicesweetness]

Best of luck. I hope things get better for you and your wife. I am retired, my wife is still working which is best for us.

Jaime would you like to meet for coffee and talk

 

[Jaime1493]

I would like to meet you. Where would we meet? I am fairly familiar with Lawrence, but don't recall ever going to Lenexa. So where and when and I will see if I can do it.

 

[alicesweetness]

Yes I’m sure we can meet up in Lawrence let me know when

 

[Jaime1493]

I just lost a close friend to covid on Friday. He was in my age group. I am pretty terrified about meeting anyone i don't know right now. If you still want to meet after the holidays, I would consider it. Please be patient with me, people are dying daily from this.

 

[alicesweetness]

I’m sorry for your loss, we are living in scary times.

 

[TheLM]

Any TOP men?

 

[Jaime1493]

You are a sweet and understanding guy. I really appreciate it. I'll contact you after the holidays.

 

[Jaime1493]

I was thinking while waiting, we could still get to know each other better. What are your hobbies? I collect, music, movies, coins and other things. Do you have any hobbies besides driving for UBER?

 

[none2_none2]

I just lost a close friend to covid on Friday. He was in my age group. I am pretty terrified about meeting anyone i don't know right now. If you still want to meet after the holidays, I would consider it. Please be patient with me, people are dying daily from this.

I stumbled upon your post today. I am so sorry for your loss. I had a Cardiac ablation done on 4-Dec in Olathe. Part of me wishes I could have postponed it, but my Atrial Fibrillation (afib) had been getting worse with sometimes hours of racing heart rate. Plus, I'm scared that next year ObamaCare might be struck down, and if the Republican's continue to control the Senate, little chance of saving it. I'm not poor enough to be on Medicaid, and not old enough to be on Medicare (turned 61 on the 6th), I rely on ObamaCare. Note, I had to get tested for COVID on Dec 1st. Had I been positive, they would have CANCELED the procedure. The hospitals have to be so careful. Thank God they didn't cancel my procedure. I was released the next afternoon. I missed that my partner couldn't see me, but I understand. His mother has a lot of heart issues, and we hope to go visit his folks (SE Kansas) sometime, so best we BOTH limit our exposures...

I wish I didn't have all these problems with diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, obesity, sleep apnea, etc, as I did damage to my heart and I'm also at hither risk for COVID for the same reasons. My partner and I have been negative so far (knock on wood), I hardly ever go out. I mainly go out for groceries, and that is about it.. I used to attend church in person, but way too many people act stupidly and think they don't need to wear a mask, or that their nose isn't part of their respiratory system. The best advice I think is to wear a mask, and avoid people when you can. Strangest thing about church is is the people my age and older who seem to not have common sense, where as most of the college kids have the sense to wear a mask. Go figure!

Anyway, I hope your friend was able to have some kind of decent funeral. I know those are also being cut back -- or at least they were. And, again I am sorry for your loss as you described him as a close friend. They are somewhat rare, so loosing one is always hard.

 

[Jaime1493]

I notice that you have a response from me, but I was talking with a person with a different name than your's, so I am totally confused?

 

[none2_none2]

I notice that you have a response from me, but I was talking with a person with a different name than your's, so I am totally confused?

I'm not quite following you. We have never chatted/talked before. I simply stumbled upon your post on this thread about loosing a close friend and felt like I should say something. It is one thing to be horney and talk about m2m sex. It is a whole deeper level to loose a close friend.

The former kinds of posts you can find a dime a dozen on boards like this. Serious comments such as death of someone that mattered to you are pretty rare on these boards.

PS: I know from this thread that you had an on going chat with a guy whose user's name is "alicesweetness". That isn't me. Again, I saw a serious post from you on this thread, and figured it deserved more responses, so I added my 2 cents.

 

[Jaime1493]

Now it makes sense to me. That was very considerate of you and I do appreciate it. I recently lost yet another friend to covid. Gosh I know nothing about Obamacare, I am so sorry about your situation as I have been on medicare for about 9 years, and no nothing about Obamacare. I have many of the same issues you have, such as diabetes, sleep apnea, I also have high cholesterol. I need to lose 10 pounds, so am not obese yet. My friend was cremated, in fact both were. One had no service, the other happened yesterday so don't know about him yet. Yes I have been talking to alice sweetness, I haven't met him yet, but may do so after the holidays as he is very close to me. Like you, after my folks died, I stopped going to church because of the hypocrisy. Thanks again for contacting me. The manner in which the government is screwing around about the various vaccines, as people die, has me furious. If Britain is already vaccinating it's people, some vaccine works.

 

[none2_none2]

Now it makes sense to me. That was very considerate of you and I do appreciate it. I recently lost yet another friend to covid. Gosh I know nothing about Obamacare, I am so sorry about your situation as I have been on medicare for about 9 years, and no nothing about Obamacare. I have many of the same issues you have, such as diabetes, sleep apnea, I also have high cholesterol. I need to lose 10 pounds, so am not obese yet. My friend was cremated, in fact both were. One had no service, the other happened yesterday so don't know about him yet. Yes I have been talking to alice sweetness, I haven't met him yet, but may do so after the holidays as he is very close to me. Like you, after my folks died, I stopped going to church because of the hypocrisy. Thanks again for contacting me. The manner in which the government is screwing around about the various vaccines, as people die, has me furious. If Britain is already vaccinating it's people, some vaccine works.

Now a second friend of yours died? I'm so sorry. Were these guys in nursing homes by chance?

I had another doctor appointment yesterday, and my partner drove me there (Olathe) because technically I'm not supposed to drive for another week after my cardiac procedure. Anyway, while passing the Olathe Police Department, I noticed the flags were lowered. I couldn't think of any politician who had died recently. While I was inside with my appointment, my partner found on his phone browser out that Gov Kelly had ordered flags lowered because we have now passed 2 THOUSAND dead from the virus.

My partner goes back to work on Monday. We had thought about going to SE Kansas to see his parents this weekend, but not now with all the virus news. His parents are at a great risk since they are both around 78 years old. His brother is probably going to get quarantined as his wife works as a cook in a nursing home, and someone there was positive. My partner's daughter (also down that way) is waiting for her test results as she feels under the weather. She is only in her 30's but VERY obese which puts her somewhat at a higher risk. All this makes me glad I just stay home -- except for trips to Dillons/Walmart for food.

Note, as to religion. I'd make a horrible atheist, I cannot fathom that we live short life (in relative comparison to the age of the universe) learning and feeling, then nothingness after we die. I don't have beliefs for fear of death. I simply just "don't get it" if this is all there is. As to organized religion, I guess I see it more like attending a buffet. Take what tastes good and makes sense, and leave the other stuff for someone else in the line. Let them choose the yucky foods to put on THEIR plates.

I will go back to church when this virus is behind us. I just won't go now while the crazy people want to negatively affect others with their stupid anti-mask attitudes and their germs. I've been especially turned off by so-called religious people as they defend tRump and his crazy ways. So many of them would condemn anybody else for the crap that tRump does, yet he gets do-overs. So again, I'm quite content to see organized religion as a buffet where you pass over the bad crap and leave it for the suckers behind you in the line who love to digest that kind of crud.

Well I hope you stay safe. It is not good that some in more rural areas think because they don't see it at the same level as in the cities that they are not at risk. Not too long ago I saw a farmer in Perry who had no mask, paid no attention to social distancing, and was chatting it up with another guy with the same attitudes. Why some people don't pay attention, is beyond me. It isn't about living in fear, but common sense precautions during this pandemic.

 

[Jaime1493]

I attended church all my life. After losing my parents, I stopped going. I still believe in HIM, and talk to HIM everyday. I am turned off by hypocrisy and churches are full of it. Another thing that worries me, is the bible was written by people not GOD. I just hope when they tell you what Jesus said, that it is accurate. I don't discount it, I just find areas or quotes that I have some doubts about. No, both of my friends worked for the government and were retired. One had heart trouble, and his parents died from heart trouble. My parents died young so some of the medical problems I have are obviously familial, but some are hard to prove as they died so young.

 

[none2_none2]

I lost my maternal grandmother in 2003, paternal grandmother in 2006, dad in 2008, and mother in 2017. I lost my grandfathers much further back (1967 maternal grandfather, 1972 paternal grandfather) (Note, my parents divorced when I was a toddler.)

I wasn't close to my parents. My mother was mentally ill, and while I made peace with my dad before he died, he was not a good man. My maternal grandmother meant everything to me, and in the last years my paternal grandmother also help me over the last decade or so. (The problem with my paternal grandmother is that for years she defended my dad's behavior as a mother defends her child no matter what. Finally she saw him for who he was and took my side.) I should add that until I met my partner 17 plus years ago, there was only one man who I would be willing to swear on a stack of bibles loved me -- was my maternal grandfather. I was only 7.5 years old when he died. I wish I could have told him how much I loved him before he died, but since I believe in an afterlife, I think it knows I did love him.


I don't mean to make this all about "my life is bad because my daddy was mean". However, I think we need to understand our past to know how it influences us.

Yes, I find hypocrisy, in churches, but to be honest, I see it in every human institution and group. In general I get along better with animals than I do most people because of all that. I do like being in a church, but it is more about the music than anything else. When I listen to a service online, sadly, my mind wanders way too much. I guess I have a problem with my attention span. But I can be so moved by some of the music. Now, I can also experience God in nature. I remember years ago taking my dogs out for a walk. They were having the time of their life panting and going off to sniff out whatever dogs smells. It was late afternoon, not too hot or humid, but that time of day when the sun has that warm yellow glow. Through my dogs happiness, I felt God's presence. It was a moment that I wish I could have frozen time. So peaceful and serene. I love it when I feel those moments.

Like I said, I find most human groups full of hypocrisy -- not just churches. For instance, I cannot relate to most of the guys who get on literotica. Way to many of them have the attitude "crave-cock-not-men". A cock is nothing if you detach it from the man. I personally, am not attracted to cock. I f I had to talk about male body parts, I love asses, faces, muscle, body hair, etc. Despite all that, if I were to take the man, his heart and soul out of the equation, then I might as well be some pathetic weirdo looking at male corpses because that is that it is if you take the red blooded heart out of the man and reduce him to body parts.

Not a day goes by that I miss the ability to mount my partner. Still, life is good because I know I still have the best part -- the ability to be loved, and love, to touch and be touched. I understand that many such as yourself are in sexless str8 relationships.. When I was young single and free I ran into many such guys, I was never expecting them to dump their wives and families for me or any other guys. However, very seldom did I ever run into one that wanted my cock, but had no interest in even getting to know me. Plenty of them liked to talk before or after sex.

Anyway, I bring that up because I can handle hypocrisy in churches much better than the shallowness of many of the people who get online here. Again, I have my little plot of happiness. My guy is my rock, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. I'm blessed that every day I wake up, he is there -- all man and all mine.

 

[Jaime1493]

You are very fortunate. I miss the touching and kissing the most of all. I miss sex, too, but to me that isn't the most important thing. I find frotting very hot, and love it. It is also much safer. I had gay sex with my best friend when we were 15, and we did it together for many years. Then we both moved, and now we chat by e-mail a lot. He never mentions it. He was screwing a lot of girls, but the only guy was me. I, on the other hand was screwing as many guys as I could. I didn't learn oral until much later. I have been married twice, both for convenience. The second one went through the change about 10 years ago, and I have looked for a guy since. I made a friend, and we tried a few times, but he can't stay hard so I am still looking.