Lady’s opinion wanted

[mostvivid]

Thanks for checking out my personal!

I’m a married male, let’s just say I’m my sexual prime. My wife and I have an interesting and confusing history of wanting(ish) to experience threesomes. We watch primarily ffm threesome porn, so the fact that this is an interest of mine isn’t a surprise.

On a couple of occasions, she has seemed pretty opened to the idea of actually following through, and sometimes she isn’t feeling it. It’s important to note that while she isn’t necessarily attracted to women, she definitely enjoys watching them in porn. I also have told her that if she would enjoy it more, we can have an mmf threesome.

I’ve made it clear that I don’t necessarily need to have actual sex with the other woman in the threesome - I would really just like to play with the two of them together, and watch them enjoy one another. Overall, I believe this could be an extremely pleasurable and exhilarating experience for both of us.

How would any ladies perceive this? Am I missing part of the picture?

 

[LizVegas79]

Thanks for checking out my personal!

I’m a married male, let’s just say I’m my sexual prime. My wife and I have an interesting and confusing history of wanting(ish) to experience threesomes. We watch primarily ffm threesome porn, so the fact that this is an interest of mine isn’t a surprise.

On a couple of occasions, she has seemed pretty opened to the idea of actually following through, and sometimes she isn’t feeling it. It’s important to note that while she isn’t necessarily attracted to women, she definitely enjoys watching them in porn. I also have told her that if she would enjoy it more, we can have an mmf threesome.

I’ve made it clear that I don’t necessarily need to have actual sex with the other woman in the threesome - I would really just like to play with the two of them together, and watch them enjoy one another. Overall, I believe this could be an extremely pleasurable and exhilarating experience for both of us.

How would any ladies perceive this? Am I missing part of the picture?

I'm probably not your target demo for this because my husband knew I was bi-sexual when he married me. For the first seven years of our relationship he was actually afraid, I learned later, that I would end up leaving him for another woman. So, for the first seven years of our relationship he resisted any and all ideas to ... broaden our interests shall we say?

But then his love of blondes finally took over. (I'm a brunette btw). He came home from a business trip and caught me half-naked with a gorgeous half-naked blonde in our jacuzzi. You can probably guess his reaction. (hint, he wasn't mad lol)

However, I'm telling you this to offer some advice - let your wife decide the pace of any "progress" towards a 3some. Keep watching FFM porn with her - if she continues to like it that's a good sign.

Maybe one other thing, offer to "only watch" - and by that I mean jerk off in the corner. Believe it or not most women love to watch a guy jerk off. If she's unsure about it, offer to just stare at herm naked or not one night, and jerk off for her. If she enjoys that experience, she's more likely to believe you'll be capable of being in the same room with her and another woman and not totally focus on the other woman. That's our biggest fear really - that you'll pay too much attention to the other woman.

If you PROVE that you love us best, well then, we might just be open to more of your pervy suggestions.

Good luck!

 

[mostvivid]

I'm probably not your target demo for this because my husband knew I was bi-sexual when he married me. For the first seven years of our relationship he was actually afraid, I learned later, that I would end up leaving him for another woman. So, for the first seven years of our relationship he resisted any and all ideas to ... broaden our interests shall we say?

But then his love of blondes finally took over. (I'm a brunette btw). He came home from a business trip and caught me half-naked with a gorgeous half-naked blonde in our jacuzzi. You can probably guess his reaction. (hint, he wasn't mad lol)

However, I'm telling you this to offer some advice - let your wife decide the pace of any "progress" towards a 3some. Keep watching FFM porn with her - if she continues to like it that's a good sign.

Maybe one other thing, offer to "only watch" - and by that I mean jerk off in the corner. Believe it or not most women love to watch a guy jerk off. If she's unsure about it, offer to just stare at herm naked or not one night, and jerk off for her. If she enjoys that experience, she's more likely to believe you'll be capable of being in the same room with her and another woman and not totally focus on the other woman. That's our biggest fear really - that you'll pay too much attention to the other woman.

If you PROVE that you love us best, well then, we might just be open to more of your pervy suggestions.

Good luck!

Thanks for both sharing your story and offering up a suggestion!
That definitely gives me something to work with.

 

[perkygurl19]

Thanks for both sharing your story and offering up a suggestion!
That definitely gives me something to work with.

Totally agree with everything she’s saying. Let it happen naturally and if she has an Interest offer to jerk off in the corner. Be accommodating to whatever she allows. you want to make sure she’s comfortable with whats happening and let her take the lead.if that means you’re allowed to jerk off in the corner and watch, jerk off in the corner and watch. It also helps if the other woman wants this to happen or is interested in her as well.

 

[Spiritedlady]

She sounds like me... I enjoy watching Women together in porn ( especially tribbing) but I have zero interest in making it a reality. I’m not saying I would never do anything but I have never met a woman in real life I have been sexually attracted to. It’s a mistake to assume that everyone wants to turn a fantasy into reality.

 

[mostvivid]

She sounds like me... I enjoy watching Women together in porn ( especially tribbing) but I have zero interest in making it a reality. I’m not saying I would never do anything but I have never met a woman in real life I have been sexually attracted to. It’s a mistake to assume that everyone wants to turn a fantasy into reality.

I find this to be a very fair consideration. It’s a huge tease, surely, because it’s so easy to watch those scenes with her and envision it happening. However, I recognize that could be the reality of the situation. It would be a bummer from my standpoint, but something that really must be respected.