TooShyGirl
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Is it normal for a man to lose his erection during intercourse? I've only been with 1 man my whole life, so I don't really know for sure.
So I'm wondering...
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Saint_Ann
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Prior to ejaculating?
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There are many different reasons that a man can lose his erection during intercourse. If it’s not a consistent occurrence then my advice would be not to worry about it. If it happens regularly then speak to him about it. An Ex of mine lost his during intercourse quite simply because he was nervous. We spoke about it and when he was ready we tried again and then he had no problem keeping his erection, it was a one off occurrence.
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You've previously posted tits & ass pics. Post the pics here & I'll let you know if you're the problem.
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Was this the first time you two were together? What’s normal for one person is not necessarily normal for another. Maybe it was nerves. Maybe a medical condition. Not intending to come across like a snot but I think you’d get better feedback asking him instead of a group of random people.
P.S. Not many (if any) of the “guys” here are going to admit anything like that has ever happened them.
P.S. Not many (if any) of the “guys” here are going to admit anything like that has ever happened them.
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I'll admit it. No biggie.
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After 4 hours......
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Where did he last have it?
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Hahaha. Yep!
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If it is not into you, it is not in you.
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The original question
I don't know if you were served by some of these answers.
Is it normal? No.
Does it happen? Yes.
It's not normal in that usually guys are hard and stay hard until they orgasm. Things like old age, watching a ton of porn, suprise fingers in buttholes, and more can lead to a guy losing an erection during sex for but the most part, that probably shouldn't happen.
I don't know if you were served by some of these answers.
Is it normal? No.
Does it happen? Yes.
It's not normal in that usually guys are hard and stay hard until they orgasm. Things like old age, watching a ton of porn, suprise fingers in buttholes, and more can lead to a guy losing an erection during sex for but the most part, that probably shouldn't happen.
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Hi,I have been told by many wives that I have talked to,for some reason that is happening more and more now days.
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It's always in the last place you look for it.
He lost it in there? Did ya'll find it later?
I'm picturing an Indiana Jones moment.
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It can happen in a long session or with some unsexy distraction. Erections can be fickle. Cocks get tired too.
Can it be revived with some worshipful ministrations or is he done when he loses it?
Not that that is necessarily diagnostic. If it can be revived, I wouldn't worry about it.
If it is not interested in being revived it could be actual erectile dysfunction with some physiological cause (blood flow, hormonal triggers out of whack maybe) or it could be psychological.
Even the virile, vigorous and potent can get psyched right out of an erection if they start thinking about E.D. Having an incident can lead to overthinking which is not the head that is best to leave in charge of these matters
Can it be revived with some worshipful ministrations or is he done when he loses it?
Not that that is necessarily diagnostic. If it can be revived, I wouldn't worry about it.
If it is not interested in being revived it could be actual erectile dysfunction with some physiological cause (blood flow, hormonal triggers out of whack maybe) or it could be psychological.
Even the virile, vigorous and potent can get psyched right out of an erection if they start thinking about E.D. Having an incident can lead to overthinking which is not the head that is best to leave in charge of these matters
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dear curious woman! It seems to me, you tend to worry about the wrong question. What you and he should think about instead is: what can we do, in terms of other enjoyable activities, to obviate the need for an erect cock.
I am fairly sure that once you focus on such alternatives, his erection will come back. And if it should not, you know what to do the next time it happens.
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It's probably next to his keys.
