How do you choose a cock sucker?

[jimmyturtleman]

Guys, what is important for you in choosing a cock to suck, or choosing a guy to suck your cock? Is it the same criteria for either? Tell us what factors you consider before you meet a potential suck buddy. First off, tell us if you are just a sucker, a suckee, or both. Do you look for someone younger, older, or the same age? Do you like a Dominant personality or a more submissive? Do you prefer married men over single men? Does size really matter?

How do you make that decision?

Let me start. I an an older man, married forever and prefer another married guy to play with. Having said that I 'prefer' another married man, I have enjoyed men who are widowers or divorced. Nothing is set in stone. A hard cock is a hard cock and needs to be serviced. I prefer men my own age, or older. Plus or minus 10 years is a good rule for me. It is just that we have more in common besides cock. I have become more submissive with age and a Dom buddy is probably best for me. Although, I do like to get sucked, it is entirely up to my buddy for reciprocation. I do like a man who takes control over me. These are all, just preferences. Being willing and able to adapt can be fun too. Oh yes, size does not matter at all. Big or small, I will suck them all. Uncut scores bonus points.

Tell us, what do you prefer in a suck buddy?

 

[BrokenQuill]

For me, personally its about the guy first. if I don't get along with him, then its a non starter.

After that, its all built on trust.

 

[Cumpup39]

I’m a slut when I comes to sucking cock. I pretty much just need an opportunity! However, a man who is confident, or especially dominant always gets me on my knees!

 

[Traveler99921]

My preferences

I was married when I first started sucking cock, and I did it with my wife's knowledge. She prefered I sucked married men, and I honored that preference. I am a widower now, but most of the men I suck are married. There have been exceptions. I find it is easy to recruit married men. There are many older men who developed an attraction to men and are eager to explore.

Generally I am more experienced than the other guy so I often take the lead, but I can be submissive. There have been a couple of gay virgins that wanted to fuck me. I was ok with that, but my pleasure come from sucking cock. I like all cocks, but cut cocks that are larger than mine excite me the most.

I prefer articulate men with whom I share an interest beyond sex. My fantasy is find a guy that shares my interest in fly fishing and we do multiple day trips that combine fishing with sex.

I just realized that "fly fishing" has a bit of a double meaning when it comes gay guys.

 

[towigl]

It does'nt take much for me. I just need to see a nice cock and it makes my mouth water. Put that anywhere in sight and I'm all yours.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Reasonably attractive, in-shape, articulate and intelligent guy close to my age is the ideal. About as common as unicorns

 

[wondering00]

For me, personally its about the guy first. if I don't get along with him, then its a non starter.

After that, its all built on trust.

Absolutely!

 

[OpenMouth]

I will suck any cock which is presented to me. I never say no

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Yes

I have to like the guy. But I also have to like his cock. Wondering's would be perfect; I'm very picky.

 

[bimori]

I will suck any cock which is presented to me. I never say no

Oh babe I’m in love.

 

[Jerseyboy52]

I prefer married men around my age. I like to 69. And kissing is important to me but not mandatory.

 

[yukonnights]

I was married when I first started sucking cock, and I did it with my wife's knowledge. She prefered I sucked married men, and I honored that preference. I am a widower now, but most of the men I suck are married. There have been exceptions. I find it is easy to recruit married men. There are many older men who developed an attraction to men and are eager to explore.

Generally I am more experienced than the other guy so I often take the lead, but I can be submissive. There have been a couple of gay virgins that wanted to fuck me. I was ok with that, but my pleasure come from sucking cock. I like all cocks, but cut cocks that are larger than mine excite me the most.

I prefer articulate men with whom I share an interest beyond sex. My fantasy is find a guy that shares my interest in fly fishing and we do multiple day trips that combine fishing with sex.

I just realized that "fly fishing" has a bit of a double meaning when it comes gay guys.

I'm going jump onboard with what I bolded up there. Nothing better than actually knowing and liking the one I'm being intimate with. Being adequately articulate myself, it'd be hard to find much common ground with a guy who isn't. I really need the connection to enjoy it.

 

[Jerseyshore]

I must admit in my younger dys I was not particularly picky about the particular cock. You do want smeone who practices hygiene.

 

[lordpenizworth]

Unicorns

This is a good thread.
I think a good counter thread would be, "How to find a regular cocksucker." Regarding what was stated about about finding a guy who's articulate and in shape...in my area, that proves to be the challenge.

Find me a guy who can express himself, is clean, safe and trustworthy, and I'll help him with pleasure. (See Subject line...) If more guys took the time to present themselves that way to me, I'd be often engaged.

Edit: I should add that while I ask for those qualities, I don't get them from guys who are looking. Most seem to want to know when I can come over or if they can suck me, too.

LPW

 

[fortguy3737]

As a suckee and having had more than a handful of buddies, there’s a list of things I tend to look for. I prefer guys around my age (bad experience with a confused younger dude), ability to host, in shape, clean, laid back/non pushy, and not too touchy feelie. Bonus points for having a nice cock too. I’ve only sucked a few guys, most cocks kind of disappoint me, on the other hand most guys love sucking me and the really great ones will lick my ass.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Guys, what is important for you in choosing a cock to suck, or choosing a guy to suck your cock? Is it the same criteria for either? Tell us what factors you consider before you meet a potential suck buddy. First off, tell us if you are just a sucker, a suckee, or both. Do you look for someone younger, older, or the same age? Do you like a Dominant personality or a more submissive? Do you prefer married men over single men? Does size really matter?

How do you make that decision?

Let me start. I an an older man, married forever and prefer another married guy to play with. Having said that I 'prefer' another married man, I have enjoyed men who are widowers or divorced. Nothing is set in stone. A hard cock is a hard cock and needs to be serviced. I prefer men my own age, or older. Plus or minus 10 years is a good rule for me. It is just that we have more in common besides cock. I have become more submissive with age and a Dom buddy is probably best for me. Although, I do like to get sucked, it is entirely up to my buddy for reciprocation. I do like a man who takes control over me. These are all, just preferences. Being willing and able to adapt can be fun too. Oh yes, size does not matter at all. Big or small, I will suck them all. Uncut scores bonus points.

Tell us, what do you prefer in a suck buddy?

A big cock is definitely a bonus...
the kind of cock that turns your brain to mush and has your heart turning cartwheels of joy the first time you see it...
but I would never be so rude as to allow my disappointment to show when I get to suck a smaller cock...

 

[peterheer51]

I am both a sucker and suckee but don't swallow.
Findind a suitable suck buddy is a problem given my age, 71, but it seems there are a number of guys into older men.
No preference to cut or uncut although being cut myself I find uncut fascinating.
I can be slightly dom and have no interest in being a sub. Equal partners is my preference.
To many guys are aggressivel and just want blow and go. Aggressive is a definite turn off for me.
A long term friend who is also a suck buddy is my preference but very hard to find.

 

[oneblueye]

I have no preference as to cut or otherwise, color is immaterial, size is of no consequence...but attitude is MOST IMPORTANT! You want me to suck your dick you better be taking a better; point of view than "GET ON YOUR KNEES AND OPEN WIDE!" Cuz the only thing you'll get is a busted nose, broken jaw or some such. I don't brook any perceived disrespect. If thats the only way you can get off, then I ain't the one getting you there.

As far as how do I choose one to suck, I look at them and the people they are attached to. If the guy is an asshole, that dick ain't gonna be a good one to suck, it won't taste good to me and it will not please me to pleasure it. If the person is ill-kept and unwashed they are not an option NO MATTER WHAT.

The worst thing is when an asshole comes along and thinks its his mission to use you as a means for getting a nutt...heh heh--, yeah, they are the WORST to deal with and the most fun.., especially if there is a female present...thats when those guys will fight the hardest. They make the most mistakes because they are busy watching the women and not (me) the little fella thats gonna be beating them down.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I'm particularly interested in finding someone who isn't weird. That's kinda my only criteria in terms of sealing the deal with me. I like normal people, and if I find you online and we DM, first... I'm looking for signs of sanity. Don't care about your cock size, you know I'm a vers/bottom who may or may not let you fuck me, and I connect best with masculine, mature individuals. Otherwise, talk about more than what we plan on doing so I know you can carry on a post-nut conversation, because if it's good, we're going this again. And if it's bad, we're doing this again for the conversation, if nothing else. Just don't be weird.

 

[2tallpaul]

Normally its the one the girlfriend wants to watch me suck, large and a heavy cummer. It's hard to say no while on your back with a hard one at your back door.

 

[ILman56]

Opportunity ha a lot to do with it, and how much he cums and how forceful.

 

[Wollawsi]

I enjoy sucking the cock of a dominant man, on my knees to please him.

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

If I ever get to the point where I take the plunge to do it I would rather it be another married man whose wife does not care if he plays a bit. Might be a stretch though.

 

[sterculius]

I was indoctrinated as a teenager to become my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker. I was 15 and he was 14, but his cock was MUCH bigger than mine was! That was what determined that I should be subservient to him and to serve his sexual needs. I accepted that this was to be my assigned role. Whenever I gave him a blowjob he would become VERY aggressive and forceful in his treatment of me and roughly force his thick cock all the way down my throat and fuck my throat until he ejaculated deep inside me! I quickly learned to LOVE being treated this way and to this day this has been my preferred method of sucking cock and giving a blowjob. I love feeling "used"!! As a confirmed cocksucker, I will obediently cater to the preferences of any man who will generously allow me to suck their cock regardless of their size, but being impersonally but aggressively throat fucked by men with big cocks remains my favorite.

 

[Reggie2xx]

I have no preference as to cut or otherwise, color is immaterial, size is of no consequence...but attitude is MOST IMPORTANT! You want me to suck your dick you better be taking a better; point of view than "GET ON YOUR KNEES AND OPEN WIDE!" Cuz the only thing you'll get is a busted nose, broken jaw or some such. I don't brook any perceived disrespect. If thats the only way you can get off, then I ain't the one getting you there.

As far as how do I choose one to suck, I look at them and the people they are attached to. If the guy is an asshole, that dick ain't gonna be a good one to suck, it won't taste good to me and it will not please me to pleasure it. If the person is ill-kept and unwashed they are not an option NO MATTER WHAT.

The worst thing is when an asshole comes along and thinks its his mission to use you as a means for getting a nutt...heh heh--, yeah, they are the WORST to deal with and the most fun.., especially if there is a female present...thats when those guys will fight the hardest. They make the most mistakes because they are busy watching the women and not (me) the little fella thats gonna be beating them down.