Sensuality, Sexuality and Surrender

lady_jennaxx

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I find those three words quite powerful.

Sexuality grows from a physical desire for the act of sex. Sensuality stems from a physical, emotional and spiritual desire for pleasure. Surrender involves ceasing to resist. How novel of an idea to combine all three?! I can only speak for myself in terms of being a dominant female and what it means to me and how I believe I present to others, but I believe the dance of seduction and long-term sustainability of such a mindset is one of the components of the type of interaction I seek.

There are many flavors and variations of kink, but to be able to develop them into something that leaves a strong mental and emotional hunger that haunts...that is magical :heart:

I'm open to discussion via PM or here. Feel free to engage :rose:
 
I find those three words quite powerful.

Sexuality grows from a physical desire for the act of sex. Sensuality stems from a physical, emotional and spiritual desire for pleasure. Surrender involves ceasing to resist. How novel of an idea to combine all three?! I can only speak for myself in terms of being a dominant female and what it means to me and how I believe I present to others, but I believe the dance of seduction and long-term sustainability of such a mindset is one of the components of the type of interaction I seek.

There are many flavors and variations of kink, but to be able to develop them into something that leaves a strong mental and emotional hunger that haunts...that is magical :heart:

I'm open to discussion via PM or here. Feel free to engage :rose:

Beautifully put. Surrender (at least for myself) comes from my desire for pleasure. The ability to stop resisting internal urges and fears and fully trust another person is very pleasurable and a total turn on.

It seems that sexuality and sensuality would exist for both a Dom and sub, but does a Dom experience surrender?
 
Beautifully put. Surrender (at least for myself) comes from my desire for pleasure. The ability to stop resisting internal urges and fears and fully trust another person is very pleasurable and a total turn on.

It seems that sexuality and sensuality would exist for both a Dom and sub, but does a Dom experience surrender?

Of course I can only sleak for myself, but yes, surrenxer can be felt when one succumbs to the joy of creating the ideal dynamic wherein the dominant lovingly leads and nurtures the delicate, burgeoning trust tbe sub offers. It's a gift to be cherished :rose:
 
Of course I can only sleak for myself, but yes, surrenxer can be felt when one succumbs to the joy of creating the ideal dynamic wherein the dominant lovingly leads and nurtures the delicate, burgeoning trust tbe sub offers. It's a gift to be cherished :rose:

That is a very different type of surrender. Coming from a position of submission, I can't say I've ever experienced that feeling. If it's anything like the feeling that a sub gets knowing their actions bring pleasure to their Dom, it's a wonderful thing.

On a side note, I do appreciate that you understand that the trust of a sub is something to be handled delicately and not forcefully. We can be fiercely loyal and obedient when cared for properly. ;)
 
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That is a very different type of surrender. Coming from a position of submission, I can't say I've ever experienced that feeling. If it's anything like the feeling that a sub gets knowing their actions bring pleasure to their Dom, it's a wonderful thing.

On a side note, I do appreciate that you understand that the trust of a sub is something to be handled delicately and not forcefully. We can be fiercely loyal and obedient when cared for properly. ;)

Thank you married_muir :rose:
 
Cold, snowy day here so time for a bump :rose:

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Hello Lady Jennaxx,

I am intrigued and attracted by your thread ! You present it so beautifully, but I realize that kind of a relationship/connection does not happen in everydaylife, but if that happens,one should just jump into it.

If you are still looking, perhaps we could connect. Do feel free to reach out.
 
Jenna, open minded as I’ve become, I like your thinking
 
Hey Lady Jenna, I hope all is well on your side in these bizarre times. Take care of yourself :)
 
I'm doing well, just very very very busy at work and no end in sight for several months. But I'll make it through :) Goddess helps ground me, so I'm very lucky to have her. I still hope you find the sub you deserve
 
I'm doing well, just very very very busy at work and no end in sight for several months. But I'll make it through :) Goddess helps ground me, so I'm very lucky to have her. I still hope you find the sub you deserve

Thank you for the kind words and well wishes :rose:
 
I find those three words quite powerful.

Sexuality grows from a physical desire for the act of sex. Sensuality stems from a physical, emotional and spiritual desire for pleasure. Surrender involves ceasing to resist. How novel of an idea to combine all three?! I can only speak for myself in terms of being a dominant female and what it means to me and how I believe I present to others, but I believe the dance of seduction and long-term sustainability of such a mindset is one of the components of the type of interaction I seek.

There are many flavors and variations of kink, but to be able to develop them into something that leaves a strong mental and emotional hunger that haunts...that is magical :heart:

I'm open to discussion via PM or here. Feel free to engage :rose:

As applicable now as it was when I first shared my thoughts on this :rose:
 
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